Describe what would you do for a first date?
Dinner and drinks is always a good bet. That way if the evening goes poorly you can escape after dinner. Also drinks tend to loosen everyone up and allow for more relaxed conversation. If it goes well you still win because you have left them wanting more.
How would you describe your perfect date?
well, i'd like a date as following: thin, thin to medium body medium height, not too large breasts, preferably small. dirty blonde or dark brown. very clean. even though i'm not a clean person myself, i find girls without higene disgusting. i've also heard that manly-smelling men, such as myself, are a turn on. i would want her to be very intelligent, enough to make me feel stupid, but still be attracted. i'm a fairly intelligent person myself. i also wouldn't want her to be too forward, as in a kiss on the first date, or anything like that. i have a devoloped vocabulary, and it might make the conversation a little better if she did too. as far as food, if it was something i liked, then i would gobble it down and embarass myself. if it was something i didn't then i would have wasted cash. i don't care how much she eats, and i'll pay, as long as she's not fat or one of those that obcess about their weight. i understand that girls go on dates for the food too. as far as conversation, there would have to be good chemistry, such as similar things we like to do. the girl i described probably wouldn't like the things i enjoy, but i often do things like stay up to 3 in the morning online, then crash and wake up at 6. i like pop/rock music, which is one similairity we might have. i went to a prep school, so even though i'm used to keeping clean, i usually don't. as far as lighting and ambiance, i would perfer it dark. usually creates an air of intimacy.
Can you describe to me a time you went Dutch on a date with someone?
Literally every date I ever went on, I went Dutch.Splitting the bill is part of my norms. It is normal in my culture and I wouldn't think twice about it.It is not because people in the Netherlands are stingy, but because paying for ourselves is a way of showing that we are mature, self reliant and independent adults, which is highly valued in our culture. It is a sign of self respect and respect for your date.Others paying for me makes me feel uncomfortable and I would immediately think about ways I can get the money back to them. It is about balanced relationships.When I am on a date, I don't want to feel as if I owe you anything, not even the food. If I want to go further than just one dinner, it is because I like you, not because you buy things for me. It is an egalitarian mind set we have in the Netherlands. Paying for stuff for the other person creates an imbalance in status, especially when you just start to know each other. I am not a whore after all: you can't buy me, you shouldn't have to buy me, and I am not interested in you because you buy me stuff (which would be a bit insulting for both parties if you think about it).Flowers or a bottle of wine are pretty much the max of what is acceptable to me in a fresh relationship. It is not only annoying but kind of insulting if you keep pushing to pay the bill for others, because you are actually saying: “you are too weak and poor to take care of your self". It would not be a desirable start of a relationship.
Can you describe the perfect date?
The impromptu ones. Not being prepared, rehearsed or checklists.Today dad took us on a family date.It had been soo long that we went on solo trips to nearby places.Today he asked us to get ready and go out with him.No plans.No destined locations.He drove us to Konark, a town 50 kms from the capital of Odisha, Bhubaneshwar.No we didn't visit the famous Konark sun temple. We have seen that last year too.Dad took us for a lunch by the sea.An open restaurant on the sands.You could hear the waves splashing the shore.We had our lunches and he again drove us to Puri, the famous town of Lord Jagannath.Again we couldn't visit the temple because there was some issues for which it was closed down for public.We were sad but dad insisted we half by the sea beach.I couldn't go and jump on the waves because the doctor has denied me the permission owing to my infection on feet.So he took us for a coffee.And Mayfair waves was it.Damn like always the fries and coffee were on point.And we clicked so many memories together.That is what makes a date successful, right?The memories we make.We had no destined locations in mind yet ended up having food and fun.A perfect date for me is a short getaway from the routinely life. Something that isn't prepared and rehearsed.I believe in making memories. And like someone Said, the most happiest moment will happen the time you have no camera.I don't mind eating the charred corn standing on the beach nor do only posh restaurants matter to me. Not everyone and everything is supposed to be perfect.Right?That's me smiling at Dad:)
How would you describe your perfect dream date?
I've already had it so here it goes... looks- blonde hair, blue eyes her personalty is just like mine...nerdy but hilarious. She came over to my house and we left out in my car to get a bite to eat (Arbys) lol we then rode around and just talked for a few hours. After that we went back to my house and laid on the couch and I was holding her as we watched Scooby Doo.. and Sponge Bob. After 3 long years she still calls me Sponge Bob which it has actually changed to Bob Sponge now and I call her Velma (even though Daphne was the hottest haha) It got late so I walked her to the car and gave her a peck on the cheek and she laid one on my lips...Best night of my life!
Describe YOUR perfect first date?
I would just like him to keep me laughing, lots of intense eye contact and lots of silly questions!
Describe your ideal person you would like to date?
I honestly don't know.
Describe the appearance of the person you would like to date?
Tall dark and handsome.....or.... Tall.....blonde and handsome....