Are you sick of mgtow and feminists too?
The actions of individuals should not reflect the entire group. There are men and women who hold morals and values that treat the opposite sex with respect and then there are men and women who abuse the opposite sex for their own gain. It's not right to throw all men or all women into a single generalization just because the ones you have been with have acted like douchebags. We need to love and respect all people equally, regardless of their sex. Again, it comes down to their morals and values, or lack there of based on how they act. If you have been hurt by a bf/gf/spouse who has used you, I'm sincerely sorry, but their actions reflect only themselves, there are still good people of both sexes with integrity out there.
Are some women sick and tired of radical feminist?
Yes. I feel like radical feminists infantilize me, as a woman. I choose to be a housewife and a mother. Other women choose a career. But feminists don't want you to be able to choose. They look down on housewives and want all women to be career tigers, or else you don't count. I'm talking about radical feminists only.
Am I the only one who’s sick of feminists?
I guess you are talking about “pseudo feminists”.Not only you, but the entire population who genuinely understands the true meaning of the term “feminism” are sick of them.Why?They talk absolute crap and they are the perfect examples of sexist people you can ever find.They just want an excuse to bombard at men and call them rapists and what not.They do not care about equality as long as they are benefited.They will be the first one to ask for extra provisions, facilities, comfort etc.They take their womanhood as a shield and accuse men of things like rape, demand for dowry, domestic violence etc.They always have to complain about a man np matter how good he is.Instead of looking at men with the feeling of equality, they look at men as pests.They are not ready to listen to what they are being told. They think they are the most supreme beings.These kind of statements by the literate people puts up many questions against the quality of the society in which we live in.So with all these qualities present in a person, its very difficult or impossible i'd rather say to hold up with them.So no. You're not the only one.Reading my answer for the first time? I'm @Ayush PandaThanks for reading.
Why is feminism so anti-men?
No, not at all.Wikipedia defines feminism as :Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes.This includes seeking to establish educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to such opportunities for menThough, i love the concept of feminism, i am a totally against this ideology.Feminism has turned more as religion than ideology where someone is trying to be god and make others worship them and some are trying to be priest and make others control and teach them how to worship. This is the most ridiculous fact about Feminism in present time.There is absolute no need of anything like Feminism if we all can bring equality in our thought.And if we can’t do it in our thought, then ideology can hardly bring change, it can only bring chaos.What I believe in is the equality between both the sexes, but what the so called Feminist are trying is to misunderstand Feminism is with anti-men ideology. There has started a cold war between two genders and gender clash is sure to happen in soon time. This is what Feminism has turned into.Coming back to question, Feminism in reality doesn’t regard anti-men or clash with men, but with change in time, it has changed actually as a weapon for men. The false-Feminism only means anti-men. There is clearly lack of orientation between ideology and action in today’s competitive society.#peace
Do women think that feminists make their lives harder?
As a woman and a non-feminist, I am thankful that the women's rights movement has enabled me to raise four children with a respect for men and women alike, and to experience what a woman can accomplish throughout her lifetime with determination and dedication. Feminism at its best released women over the past 100 years from so many arbitrary rules and I am grateful for that. I don't think that feminists make their lives harder.I say non-feminist only because the feminist platform tends to go beyond these basic freedoms and imposes some pressure that is unnecessary and counterproductive. For instance, the choice to be a housewife and raise children is worthy of honor and respect because it is a very hard job. I know because I did it before going back to school to get my degrees. I believe that if a mom wants to, raising her children while they are in their formative years is a privilege and it pays off - at least, it did for me. If a mom prefers to or must go back to work, that's OK too. My experience with feminists is that while they may say that its OK to stay home, there is often a stigma attached to it, as if it is on a par with returning to 100 years ago. Enter the "Mommy Wars".Women need the choices they have secured through the women's movement and they need to support each other without question as a natural extension of these choices.
How do feminist women feel when other women bash feminism?
I know how I used to feel. I'd get horribly offended. How dare any woman question feminism? Don't they know I'm here to save them from their horrible oppression? They should be thanking me! (I'm exaggerating, but not much).I got over that, because I came to two realizations.One: women are human beings, and they have the right to whatever opinion they want. It isn't my place to tell other human beings what to think. Everyone has a right to think about what they see before them and come to their own conclusions.Two: while feminists have accomplished some great things, and I'm eternally grateful for that, feminism, like all other ideologies, is far from perfect. It should be criticized and challenged as much as any other idea should be. I think that the more certain feminists try to shut down any form of dissent, the more flaws their ideology will have.Being condescending to other women (like what I've seen and, in the past, done) because they disagree isn't a step forward. It's a step backward.Edit: Hey, if you're thinking of commenting to:a. tell me what you think I should have saidb. argue with me about stuff I didn't saydon't bother, okay? I'll probably delete your comment. Go show off your lack of reading comprehension elsewhere.
Most women & feminist claim they don't take amusement at a man being hit?
But, when I was being graded for Karate only days ago, a girl of 15 smacked the sensai in the groin. As she was a higher belt than me, I had to wait on the sides for all the higher belts to finish their gradings. As this happened, I heard from the audience behind me - many women (only) laughing and mocking the sensai for not wearing adequate protection (this move was not part of her training, thus effectively she cheated). When she came to the side - her mom asked "Did you get him where it hurts" in a very smug fashion, and they laughed about it as if it were just a comical scenario. As I was still in attendance and not just a viewer, I was unable to say anything - but it reminded me of all the claims that women don't take amusement... So, we see often in our daily lives women laughing & tittering when men are sexually assaulted - they get asked and they deny it - then we see it again the next day... Why lie about it?
Do feminists claim that opposers of feminism hate women, if so why?
In my experience, yes, but it’s because both sides are talking past one another.The number of people who identify as anti-feminist is vast and there are number of different philosophies that inform anti-feminist movements.Of those movements, only some of them are opposed to gender equality, or equal rights for women. There are at least a decent portion of anti-feminist movements that both acknowledge the rights of women but also feel that the feminist movement itself, has become an opponent to equality, either through being anti-male, or simply extremist, aiming for female superiority rather than female equality.Women Against Feminism is one such group. Analysis of the arguments and statements made by the members does not show that a very high rate of the membership (many of whom are female, as evidenced by the name) do not want equality for women, many of them believe in gender equality, it’s simply that they believe that feminists have now gone too far and have become the opposition.MRA’s are similar. Their issue is they feel that the feminist movement has inhibited male equality for quite some time and they also perceive that feminists attempt to stop or inhibit them from being able to achieve men’s rights successes. There is some misogyny that can creep into certain MRA spaces (looking at you Paul Elam) but there is nothing in MRA ideology that opposes equal rights for women and many of the most well-known MRAs are strong women.In that sense I think the MRA’s are unique, in that no other significant group in the Manosphere is represented by strong, powerful women.Feminists however, use a different definition of these groups.Feminists often define anti-feminists, as being those people who are opposed to gender equality or who are opposed to equal rights for women. So, they therefore will argue that anyone who is an anti-feminist is by default, sexist in nature, and very likely, misogynistic.This completely bypasses the fact however, that a lot of self-proclaimed anti-feminist groups do not oppose equality for women and instead see themselves as rather a buffer zone between the world and radical feminism.So, do feminists generally consider anti-feminists sexist? Yes, but the same is also true in the reverse.