How do i cure my gynophobia?
i have an extreme fear of girls and i literally get scared when a girl come within a feet of me and i just started shaking.i mean girls find me really attractive so they alot of times surround me i just need to get over this fear im even a scared of my older sister but not to the same extent. how do i get over this fear. oh and if you guys didnt know gynophobia is an abnormal fear of woman i just need some tips on how to get over this fear
How do I cure my gynophobia?
Hello, Thanks for A2AFelt sad to hear that you fear about women. And as you said you have already consulted a psychiatrist to cure it but that didn't helped you much.Firstly i would like to say don't bother yourself with it. You can overcome this fear with behavioral therapy too.Moreover,1)Learn the secret of confidence. In case u feel nervous, datz okay, but make sure you don't let the nervousness to get reflected in your conversation.2)Focus on improving your communication skills, if you feel itz creating a hurdle in approaching girls.3)Try interacting with girls of your age every now and then. Start with small conversations at first and give yourself time to understand but make sure you keep the conversation moving.I can understand it might get difficult for you to follow the above points for the very first time but believe me it will work as you practice them more often and then there will be a day when you be free from your phobia.
Do any of you guys suffer from gynophobia?
Fear of women? That's a strange phobia.
What is Gynophobia. Am I suffering from it.......?
Hi, I am Shankar. I have a problem from my childhood. Whenever I am in contact with girls, I shiver. I can't talk well. I can't see directly to their eyes. If there are more girls I can't even try to go there. Recently I have read about Gynophobia. Am I really suffering from it. What is my problem. How to overcome it. I don't want to be like this. I want to be friendly with girls as I am with boys. What should I do. Is it really necessary to contact psychiatrist.
What are your thoughts on gynophobia?
Well Gynophobia : A kind of fear of women or social interactions with them is a real situation and is caused by way of upbringing, or traumas and other reasons .My thoughts on the matter might not be the thing you are looking for as i too try to avoid interactions with women as i do find the entire social norm of talking with the opposite sex quite intimidating , don’t get me wrong i don’t hate it i think it’s quite a good thing to have conversation with women and many people for that matter as it opens you up to many things, it can be educational etc;what i think the right step for me or any other person who have problem such as this is to carefully and systematically overcome this fear by having conversation with deep rooted respect to the person we are conversing with, we need to acknowledge the underlying issue for the cause of fear and deal with it properly. Having this type of fear does not make or mean anything negative but should be dealt with to let us open to many experiences.All the best and have a great day
How do I get over my gynophobia? It's ruining my life?
You don't sound stupid, at all!Firstly, don't worry about being rejected because of the hand thing. See it as a useful filter. Any girl who would reject you because of a comparatively minor disability (I mean, one that doesn't involve e.g. trailing oxygen cylinders around or anything else which would make hanging around with you physically difficult) is very shallow and not worth knowing. Remember the British saying about class - "The people who matter don't mind. and the people who mind *don't matter*."Girls are likely to be better than you at multi-tasking, not as good at concentration, and less dependent on visual cues. Other than that there is really very little difference between the genders. Many girls are just as nervous and unsure as you are, and we're not some alien species. Forget about the trashy US self help books - as somebody or other said "Men are from Earth; Women are from Earth; Deal with it".If you want people to want to be with, you need to be enjoyable to be with. If sparkling wit isn't your thing, try to cultivate some interests that other people will be intrigued by. Knowing about darkroom chemicals or 17th C pottery probably won't win you many friends, but being an expert on film noir or classic cars well might.If you don't already know, find out which TV shows and bands are popular with the girls in your area, and watch/listen to them. If you get stuck for conversation, "Did you see X last night?" is a nice neutral ice-breaker.
What do girls think about a guy with gynophobia?
...I have gynophobia apparently
Do I have "gynophobia" (fear/hatred of women)..what can I do about it?
Would you rather undergo initial embarassment (and perhaps even a slight bout of shame- which is normal) with a therapist (which will certainly not last very long), or spend the rest of your life miserable, missing out on an entire 50% of the population for largely illogical reasons? Even if the first few therapy sessions are uncomfortable and/or embarassing, the sessions will eventually benefit you greatly. Therapists know how to make feel comfortable, and they are trained to know how to relate to people. For the record, I'm very anti-circ, so I understand how you feel about that, but you must realize that most of the world's women are not keen on the idea of circumcision of unconsenting minors, and no pro-circ women are gloating about the fact that they get to keep their intact genitals while certain men don't. Good luck. You can do it.