Can your religion make my life better?
No religion can make your life better? But you can? How? The First and most important thing you can do for yourself is gain Accurate knowledge of your creator, and his plans for you and his earth. You need to make sure that you are included in his plans, So you see that it requires that you do a small amount of mental work, by study and discerning from his 66 letters to you. For example if you have read this prayer that Jesus quoted at Mathew 6:9,10 and also read and think about John 17:3, and after sounding these thoughts down into your figurative heart(the person you talk to inside yourself) Then see if these other scriptures below answers those thoughts? Psalms 83:18, Dan 2:44, Revelation 21:3,4, Mathew 5:5, Psalms 37:9-11,29. At 2 Tim 3:16 it says that all scripture is inspired of God, so then if you use this book of letters as your truthful authority it will be hard to go wrong, and your life will get better. We all need discipline, so our thinking stays free from pollution? I hope this will help, and if you have specific question feel free to ask. gemhandy@hotmail.com
What is an ideal life for humans ?
Generally nothing is ideal in this world. All things tend to perfection but ll never attain in reality.The idea about ideal life differ with person to person. But remember there will be one thing in common, Happiness.So lets give a generic definition to Ideal Life.Health : Healthy body is the best thing which can bring all the happiness in one stock. If we are physically fit then our mind gets full energy to work and give us delightful feel.Financial freedom : Many people say money can't buy happiness. Its a joke. Imagine u r lucky enough and won a ₹ 1million lottery, doesn't it bring happiness on your face. Yes it ll bring unless u r a great saint who has a top notch level of thinking. Then it is all vain.Name and Fame : Earning respect is a characteristic of human nature which is served above all desires. We are Social-Animal and we love to stand above standards and want to achieve Superior tag out of the crowd.Love : Love is the best part of life which can either make u most happy person in world or can leave u broken and lonely. It depends on what u love and how it matters to u.Love is of 2 types:Conditional : Most common in young generation.Need some self-interest of each individual in passage of love.As long as our interest is served our love relationship will go one.Time matters. It is measured by quantity of time spent together rather than the quality.Its mostly both sided.Unconditional : Purest for of love. It is most difficult to define but as much i understand its very rare and u ll get it only from ur parents or if u r lucky enough u can see it in ur best friend.Mostly one sided care and selfless love for someone without any expectations.Best example is parents’ love.Requires a very high level of spiritual thinking. If u have any friend doing any good things for u without any favour, he/she is the best thing u can ever get in ur life. If u take them for granted, then, one day u ll regret of losing diamond while chasing the stones.If it is both sided then it is Love forever.5. Self -Satisfaction : if u are satisfied with ur life, it ll make the best of your life and u ll cherish each nd every moment of ur life.These are the few points which can make our life Ideally Best life.But we shud stop dreaming and start living our awesome life as best part is yet to come.So always fight for a life having Today better than Yesterday but not as awesome as Tomorrow
Why does my life feel empty?
There can be multiple reasons for this sort of EMPTINESS,You're missing someone close to you.You're surrounded by people you do not relate yourself to but have to be with them as they are an integral part of your life (e.g. staying away from family, friends, lover, etc. and the only option for you to hangout with is your colleagues; of which not all are your “FRIENDS”).Lack of support/betrayal/issues with a loved one.The best way to get rid of this is to enjoy it. To enjoy it, first figure out (by yourself) what sort of emptiness it is that you're feeling, it may be one of or a combination of few of the above.Identifying it is a difficult thing as most of us do not believe in INTROSPECTION. But once you're through the identification part, comes the real difficult part, “enjoying it”!Developing a new hobby or just brushing up on the lost ones is a way to keep yourself involved with something you love doing; spending some time with yourself is must, and this means staying all by yourself for a short (or long, depending on habits) duration everyday and recall the “GOODs” that have happened to you; realizing that their intensity is much higher than all the “BADs” combined.The important part is to really FEEL the good things and how much they matter to you as compared to the EMPTINESS you've been feeling; which can be realised only when this MENTAL EXERCISE is done keeping yourself away from the world and close to yourself. This because our mind needs to be EMPTIED every once in a while to get rid of this MENTAL STATE of emptiness; which is possible only when it is not cluttered by any opinions or inhibitions as is the case when we're around people.To sum it up, give some time to yourself because “you” are the best company you can have. Have a happy EMPTY time!\U0001f618
How can I find magic again in my life?
Hello. To answer your questions, I am sure there is someone who can help you help yourself, and he/she/they may provide advice appropriate to your circumstances. Without the benefit of knowing you, your background and the myriad factors (past, present, future) affecting you, I encourage you to be wary about following advice from people on Quora. You will note already that this 'advice' ranges from consuming marijuana to seeking psychiatric help. Why are you reaching out on Quora?Do you have family members or close friends who you trust and know you well enough to confide in? Are there obstacles that dissuade you from talking to family and friends? Can you overcome these obstacles?You have mentioned feeling depressed. Everyone at some stage can feel depressed and for some it may be a mental condition that requires professional help. Please be aware of this. Again, in either case, I encourage you to consider talking to someone you trust and respect and who you know is there for you. If you cannot think of anyone who meets this description, then please consider contacting a professional, e.g., doctor or counsellor who may help you directly or refer you to the right person. I assume you have the means to do so. You are quite right about the sun ... it is a unique feeling to stand beneath it and absorb the wonderful energy. Don't stop. I hope this offering helps you on your path to find your magic again - not lost, just not visible at the moment.
Magic words?
YOUR BETTER OFF, THIS TOO SHALL PASS, HIS LOSS, i was in your shoes last year before i filed for my divorce and freed myself of the lying cheating ******* that made our friends all think i was the bad guy in the break up . Oh well i am a million times happier right now and when he cheats on the new girl she will see what a prize she got. My ex's girlfriend already tries to talk to me abotu the way he is oh well she wanted him she can have him . Move on find happiness u deserve it , and all men do not cheat. There are still nice men out there that u can share ur life with .
Why does my life suck this bad? Please tell me why?
Heres the story, in 2002 I had an 8month methamphetamine habbit...I quit cold turkey, out of will power and im told that is VERY HARD to do, once I told my friends they never spoke to me again....ever since then I have had NO friends to speak of!! I am a hermit, who goes to work, sits in this lonely room all day on the computer...I long for a friend, somebody to laugh and have fun with, a real friend not someone who invites me to do somthing out of pitty. My life sucks, I havent just "hung out" with ANY one person for nearly 6 years. I dont smoke I dont drink or do drugs, I go to church every Sunday, I love God and am in tune with nature...I am 27 years old, I dont date women, I have never had a real girlfriend, I am still a virgin (Laugh yes laugh at me)...My job sucks, my boss is very cruel to me, my co-workers treat me like dirt, people laugh at me, people call me names, now im getting fat, my family are all drug addicts who dont care about me, they only want my money and kick me to the curb, they dont listen or even care about my feelings or opinions, I am of no concern of theirs, I simply do not exist to them, I have only been given a handful of "gifts" in the past, I usually dont even get anything on birthdays, they dont remember my birthday...I could just sit down and cry, I feel like my very soul is dying...I want to reach out for comfort and I find none...I feel my very world collapsing and soon I will just fade away...I keep a journal on livejournal.com thats the highlight of my day....I want a friend...I want to matter and be loved...why must I be treated like a dog, why am I invisable, where did I go? I used to be sooo fun, I would laugh and joke, people liked me and wanted to be my friend...now I have noone to call on the phone, nobody to lean on..I am NOBODY..I am reaching out to you dear reader...read this and pity me or laugh and make fun of me. I think the people who I see daily know this about me and simply do not care...whats worse is at work, the people I help care so deeply for me, they know me and ask for me..I am like their gaurdian angel, a ray of hope and comfort to them though my own world is a gutter!!! I am crying now, I want to know why....why does my life have to suck this bad, Where are my friends? Where is my family? Why...why why why does my soul feel this bad....
What do you like to do when you are feeling low?
If you are feeling low, try to avoid watching TV or chatting on social networking sites.Try to indulge in any way either by doing something or you can also try below few things. I assure you will feel better soon.It takes only few minutes to make your brain think that your heart is feeling like this ..To this..1.Try any HobbyGive some time to your childhood hobbies. Try reading, painting, gardening, stitching or anything else you love. If you are good enough in any of creative work, it’s a perk for you. There are many online stores available where you can sell your products. So long days are not boring days now because you are getting a chance to earn extra bucks. I learned to paint after my high school exams and that really helps now, when I get bored I try my hands in the paintingand it makes my mood well.2.Improve communication skillEvery year your boss adds an improvement point in your appraisal sheet “communication skills”. So what are you waiting for try new apps or join any nearby classes. Improve your communication skills and don’t let anyone look down upon you due to your pronunciation or wrong grammar.3.Part time jobIf you are a student or a homemaker and have enough free time, you can search for a part time job that suits you well, for a few hours. There are plenty of such jobs available online. 4.Home TuitionsDon’t read this paragraph if you have not studied your school books seriously. Believe me this job is only for those who are really good in any subject. People who don’t want to go anywhere and want to earn by just sitting at home, this is perfect for them. I believe in teaching free if it’s only for time pass. So don’t wait to start giving home tuitions in your free time. 5.Online coursesWho doesn’t want more and more skilled employees in their firm. So don’t miss any opportunity due to lack of skills. There are many online courses available in the market, which gives a certificate too. Just search for some genuine sites and register for the course for free or with very less fee.6.Join NGOIt could be a little tough for all those people who don’t like to roam outside in a sunny day. But try once, you will really feel peaceful. Join any nearby NGO and try to help someone who really need it. It’s not a tough process, even volunteers are always welcomed in any..moreI write more herePic source pexels.com
What did you do to ruin your life?
I was brilliant student till 12th standard and till 1st semester of my B. TechIn 10, I scored 10 cgpa and in 12 my score was 90+. and even in B. tech, I was having good cgpa and had already done many projects in first year and was also earning as a free lancer by doing projects.And my bad phases started as one girl proposed me and I fell in love with her. She was my senior. I accepted her proposal, we use to hangout together. I gave everything to please her. Even I had given many surprises. I was available for her everytime. Now she started forcing me for being physical. I also did that and she demands it for daily and we used to bunk classes even we had sex in gap of our end term examination but somehow I still managed my CGPA between 7-8, but I started losing my skills, knowledge.And worst phase came when she got passed out from college and used me till my summer term holidays. I left my internship offers to spend time with her. And after summer holidays when college started, she was doing job and then she left me. Now I feel broken, alone, not able to focus on anything. I miss her too much. I feel so lonely but somehow I managed to hide it from my friends and family. Somehow I got back on my path but still lacking my enthusiasm that was earlier. But I think my pain is getting bigger and bigger inside. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I feel to end my life but I know I will not take that step but it has made me hollow from inside. I used to cry all night. Please help me.P. S. You can comment your suggestions.
Due to some bad persons,I am suffering with magic problems to my minds and body,pl tell me that how to avoid?
The best thing is that you know that your mind and body has been hurt. Most of us during the times of illnesses are not aware of what we are suffering from till we get well. It means that you are already on the road to recovery. The major cause of most illnesses is fear and guilt. If you only ask yourself what you are fearing from, you will get the answer from yourself. For the time being, keep away from those who cast the 'spells'. There is no magic, only hypnotising simpletons. Be strong!!
Can you recall any strange or unexplained events in your life?
well my dad was a police officer during Katrina he was down there till the very end and my family lived out of town when we heard what happened no one could get in touch with their family and friends in the N.O. area the only way was to text because all the lines for cell were crossed because everyone was calling everybody from everywhere!! I couldn't even get in touch with my friends who were out of state let alone in Louisiana but, for some strange reason every time I called my dad not text but called it went through and he answered anybody else who tried to get in touch with him like my grandmother and aunts could not get through at all. now call it what you want this might not seem like a big deal or magic, but I do fill something strange was going on I felt like I had an angel watching over him giving him some kind of signal to let me know he was still alive I thank God everyday for that still till this day I wonder why was it only me? he couldn't even call out but every time I called I got through strange isn't it?