When is okay to beat my cat?
My cat makes a mess with his food, it's all out of the bowl. And his litter is all over the place. He even drags some turd nuggets out on the carpet, and the carpet is 10 yards away from the kitty litter. I've used the squirt bottle as a deter-ant, and even put some pepper in the water. At what point should I start striking him on the head?
Is it okay to beat your children with a belt?
No. That's not okay at all. In many places it is actually illegal and you can be charged with child abuse if you hit your child with anything other than an open hand. A spanking should mostly just get a child's attention and snap them out of a behavior. If a parent is doing it to really HURT the child and inflict major pain, there's something really wrong with them. And the only reason that someone would use a belt or some other object would be to make it hurt more. A belt is also a lot more likely to cause bruising or welts. You can't feel exactly how much force you are using when you're using something other than your hand.
What do you think about binaural beats?
Okay, so I was bored the other day and I was just kind of randomly searching around the Internet for something to do and I somehow stumbled upon binaural beats (http://www.i-dose.us/). They're supposed to do something to your brainwaves to make you think or feel specific things. At first, it all seemed a bit odd, even by my standards, but it actually kind of worked. I listened to the Lucid Dream one when I was doodling and I ended up with some bizarre poem about cold tea and brain rice and clouds that look like melting heads. Have you ever tried these things? Do you believe they work or do you think people just want to believe that they do things because of the music? When I was doodling/writing, I wrote something about being in a trance of low inhibitions. I felt like I could write any old crap but it wouldn't matter because I could, like, blame it on the binaural beats. I ended up putting down anything and everything that popped into my head. Whatever it did, it worked. I just want to hear what everyone thinks about these things. The best answer will be the most interesting answer, so no 'idk havent heard of em lol'. If you don't know what they are, go to the link and try one!
Why do some people think it's okay to beat their children with spoons? They will hate you when they get older.
Beating a child with a spoon may produce a temporary result of compliance, but the long term effect can be extremely negative. However, perhaps even worse is the figurative beating of a child with cruel taunts and words, and demeaning insults. Violence is violence, whether it is physical or verbal.
Is it ok to beat up a girl?
i was playing in a soccer match and got disqualified for beating up this dude for a brutal foul on me, and i was probably the most valuable player on my team that game, scored 3/5 of the goals and gave the final pass to the teammate who scored the 4th goal. as I got off the field, these 2 girls on stage started booing me and as i got closer they called me an asshole so i called them bitches. they then went up to me after the game was over and both slapped me, so I just punched them in the nose hard, drawing blood because i was in no mood of taking **** from girls... they landed on the ground and both started crying, saying i will regret hitting a girl back... then the next day at school 2 of her guy friends held me still while those girls and all their girl friends slapped the **** out of my bare back by lifting my shirt... they then said they will repeat the process until i learn "to respect women". why was it wrong?
When a parent beats up their child do you think that child is more likely to be unsuccessful and aggressive?
Good question ! In my opinion the answer is YES ! The bible reads - spare the rod and you spoil the child - ! This does not mean to let your child go undisciplined into the world for if parents do not lovingly discipline their child then this child can get all kinds of weapons and discipline every one else to death ! This does not mean to beat the child up ! Do not do anything to your child with your fists , put your hands around their throats , give them broken bones , bruises , use a bull whip , gun or knife on them either ! They are human beings and not machines , your slaves or your personal punching bags either ! No loving , God fearing parent beats up their child ! To discipline a child all that is needed is the palm of the parents hand on the clothed bottom of their child to spank them ! The parent should tell the child why they are being spanked though ! If the child did not do anything to be spanked for then the parent can tell the child that the parent is sorry and then give the child their favorite treat for being spanked when the child did nothing wrong to be spanked for ! Children need spanking but they also need their parents love , compassion , hugs , kisses and their parents approval for your child looks up to you like your their human heroes ! Thanks
Why do some parents think it's wrong to beat their kids?
I think the word Beating has a negative connotation attached to it and hence, I won't use that word. I'd rather use the word "Hitting" because it is not seen as negative as beating.I am Indian and I've been 'hit' by my mother many times during my childhood and for the right reasons! I, however, believe that hitting / beating / spanking should reduce, as a child grows older. My mother stopped hitting me once I turned 11-12 yrs old. Because she realized that I was reaching an age where talking was more sensical and hitting was not.But Indian parents do use hitting as a disciplinary technique to make children understand what is and isn't acceptable. The logic behind it is very simple, when you are between the age group of 4-10, imparting worldly knowledge can pass 6 ft. over your head. This is because you are at an age, where you want to try out things and experience them first hand no matter how unpleasant the experience can be (as a kid, I wanted to know why fire was dangerous and wanted to "feel it with both my hands"). Parents put in all their efforts in sharing their unpleasant experiences but kids being curious would have none of it and still demand experiencing things themselves to know what it's like.Parents should, of course, still make an effort to educate you about what's right or wrong but the chances of a kid understanding it in full capacity, embracing it and then putting it into practise is very bleak. Hence, when kids default, parents discipline them with a slap or two across the face or a knock on the head or a good spank to make them realise where they've gone wrong. It puts us kids back on track.I am against those parents who beat the shit out of their kids to make their point. With that kind of treatment, kids will grow up into 2 types:1. Subversive (My father says not to smoke, hence I've decided to smoke daily!)2. Submissive (Mom blames her kid for no fault of his and he doesn't have the courage to speak up)In India, most logical parents always TALK to their kids first and try to fill sense into them if they do something wrong. If the kid repeats his mistake, then the parents let their hands do the talking. The kid then realizes the consequences of his action, if he does something grave.I don't think it is "wrong" to hit your kids provided you don't cross the line. Yes, do talk to them first. Make an effort to educate them but if they refuse to get it, then let your lips take a back seat and allow your hand to take charge ;-)
Is it ok for a man to beat up his wife?
Are you asking this to validate and justify what you might have done?Or if you are the wife asking this, then you need to get out and get help now. Call the police. Tell someone.But if this is the husband asking this, then my question above is directed at you.I got sisters.And if you're wife were my sister, lets just say she was, il be doing something similar to this :‘nuff said.
In which case is it ok to beat your children?
If they are currently on fire and the only feasible way to put out the fire is to smother it. Of course this can barely be described as beating the child but it is the only situation in which I think it would even come close to being okay.It is never acceptable to beat your child. What do you achieve by doing so? Do you teach them to make their own decisions in life? Do you teach them to respect others and not have to instantly resort to violence to try and solve a problem? No. You teach them that you are a controlling monster who exists purely to cause them pain physically and psychologically. Will it stop them from doing whatever they did again? Of course it won't. The only reason you gave them to not do the action again is the fear that you will hurt them again. But not only will they not have this burden if you are not there, but they of course will be naturally curious to find out what the thing you stopped them from doing was. This could lead to disaster if what they were doing was dangerous but they do not know this if you attacked them instead of explaining why they shouldn't do that.