Why does he make me feel so bad about myself?
Why is he always trying to make mee...? There is this guy at my school. We dated for like a week than called it off in the summer. We were really cool and liked each other in the beginning of the year he turned into someone else though during school and i started to not like him a month later i go out with one of his friends and he started talking crap about me... than we broke up and he stopped. i told him i liked him and then we became friends. i text him sometime other times he doesnt answer... or hell answer but than he wont respond after one text.. but noww he just says crap about me and only about me. like omg shes so annoying right veleria? and shell say no. like he trys to convince everyone im some type of bad person and no one believes him but still! why does he only do this to me? do you think he likes me? or do you think hes mad at me ?? why does he always try to make me cry or insecure?? i never did anything wrong to himm..
My husband won't stop buying me gifts I hate and clothes I cannot wear. He acts insulted. I am hurt. 11 years!
About the gifts: 11 years is enough time by far for him to let you pick out what you want--either with him, or he can buy you giftcards. Explain to him how much happier this would make you. About being impotent: He is not doing justice to you or himself by lying to the therapist. Insist that he be honest, for the sake of your marriage. (He may be very embarrassed by this condition--and that may be the reason for all the gifts). I really hope that you two can work this out--and it is going to take a lot of time and truth. Good luck!
I don't think my boyfriend cares about my feelings, and if I try to talk to him about that, he turns it around somehow so he looks like the victim. Why does he do that? How can I stop letting this affect me?
Look at where you're starting:"I don't think my boyfriend cares about my feelings."Imagine if someone close to you said to you "I don't think you care about my feelings."Of course he's going to get defensive. If you DO care, that really hurts. My experience has been that many young men and some young women, when faced with the sense that they've disappointed their partner, tend to withdraw if they don't know how to fix it. The kicker is not to talk about what HE is doing or not doing. The kicker is to talk about *what you need from the relationship.* Examine what makes you believe he doesn't care, and just flat out ask for it in a calm and.Example: "Hey, could you ask me about my day sometimes? I feel loved when someone wants to know and seeks it out. I'm not the type to just talk about it."Or: "Hey, I'm feeling angry about something at work; I'd like to talk to you about it."If he still makes himself out to be the victim if you're asking for something directly and with no accusatory tone, then you have a deeper issue that requires you to have a hard look at what you need out of a romantic relationship.
Do girls with a boyfriend feel bad liking another guy?
Do girls usually feel guilty about liking another guy if they already have a boyfriend???? I know they cant control who they are attracted to do but how to they handle it???
Does my EX-boyfriend feel GUILTY for.....?
OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt badso a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Sincethen I have said hi to him 2 on msn.Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to Does he feel guilty or miss me?
When my boyfriend spank me in the bed, does he feel like he has control?
No, that means you have the control because YOU are making him slap your a'ss! You are telling him what you like and he is giving you what you like. As for him thinking that slapping his a'ss is gay, listen, there are straight guys who actually like that little pinky finger up their a'ss! So, slapping him like that is not going to be the end of the world. Just tell him next time that you were feeling like you were ridding on his horse and you needed to slap that horsy because you were getting really excited about it! Maybe then he will re-examine that whole "slap a'ss" thing. Slap Happy! :-))
Why does my partner feel like he has to punish me (not physically) in some way when I do or say something he doesn't like?
There are a few possibilities, none of them good. This is not the right guy for you unless he’s willing to get some serious therapy. Control freak.I will add to this later but wanted to respond quickly to your question.Okay I’m back. Not surprising the others came to the same conclusion. I am curious how long you’ve been together. If he was nice as first and now is getting verbally abusive and critical, then he is likely trying to exert more control over you. He wants to keep your self esteem down so you’ll never leave him. These kinds of guys know deep down they are not worthy of the women they are with and want to drag them down and keep them under control. Now I will add one caveat. If he has had some personal tragedy (like a death or loss of job), he may be just lashing out in anger. He should definitely not take it out on you so he’s still wrong. But if this is the case, there is some hope he can deal with his loss and learn that punishing you is wrong. He would still need to change/grow/learn though. But lacking any tragic news, you need to dump this guy. It will only get worse and worse as he needs to exert more and more control. Sorry kid. I know this is a tough situation and I hope you can get through it and be happy.
Is it bad if I barely communicate with my dad?
I live with my mom and I feel kinda bad for not talking to my dad much. I was staying with him for a couple of months and he would basically treat me like a secretary and told me i needed to be on top of all the payments he needs to make. He would give me all his cards and make me call and help him make his payments even though he already knows how to. Now I'm back with my mom and he kept calling and messaging me and it turned out to only be because he wanted me to help make his payments again even though he can do it himself... We honestly aren't good at communicating either are conversations usually go "hey how are you" "good and you" "good" and that's it. He called a couple days ago and I ignored it and haven't called back. Should I feel bad? Should I force myself to reply? I'm honestly not good at communicating with people unless it's my mom or best friend so..?