I need a GUY'S OPINION? Girls help too?
There’s this guy, we’ll call Alex that I used to like. Till I just gave up. A year passed, I now work with him for the summer. We work at my family’s business. We’re in college now, and something seemed to have changed with him. He’s asked me what my type is, snuck up on me, hugged me (he wont hug girls—I asked for one, and was shocked), etc. But He’ll say, “DON’T TOUCH ME!” or “YOU TALK TOO MUCH!” . He announced that I asked him out awhile ago (NOT TRUE!). Last week he wanted me to move, but instead of saying excuse me, i felt his fingers wrap my wrist gently and he mumbled, "move your fat...." and trailed off grinning Then he found a tow hitch for my truck. He claims he wasnt looking for stuff for me..yet he went through all the hitch ads and remembered them? He then told me he'd install it for me. Yesterday he said, "Do you think booty is a bad word or something? Its a GOOD thing you have a big butt..cuz if you fall, it hurts less." He was grinning the whole time. He later called me wet floor, in spanish -_- Last night, he left his truck running after work..I ran ahead of him…Jumped in and locked him out. I got out and was walking away, and he called out the window, “Emma, If you weren’t annoying, I would like you.” And then rolled the window up fast and drove away. He's not a jerk to everyone else! He's actually a really good guy. He's never had a girlfriend, either. BUT HE'S NOT GAY! GUYS! WAS HIS COMMENT ABOUT “I WOULD LIKE YOU” did he just admit he liked me? He's kind of growing on me..like a fungus.. And today, he told my brother, “Your sister really needs to leave me alone.” What should I make of this?
I'm Confused About What He Wants! Help! (Guys' Opinions Needed Here, Please)?
Hello, everyone! So, I've known this new guy in my life as an acquaintance, for a few months, now. But, last Wednesday, we started to get to know each other better, when we went out on a date. He seems very sweet. He was so open and honest with me, he always was grabbing my hand on the two dates that we've had. He uses phrases like beautiful and making love. (He also has a nine year old daughter, at age 29.) The problem is, he has an active life as a tour manager and is going away for two months. Granted, we've just started seeing one another, however, I'm nervous because he said that he isn't great with committment and that he really likes me a lot. He considers me a friend. He said that he would be open to explore a relationship. So, I don't know exactly if this is a permanent mindset or if it's because things are so new. But, if you guys could give me a little insight, I would SO appreciate it. Thank you. Have a good night!
Does he deserve a text back or not? Girls and guys opinions?
A guy and I have been talking for a little while and everything has been going great, up until this morning. He's out of town with some friends and will come home today. He texted me good morning and we made small talk as usual, he had made a jerkish comment so the conversation went me- you're not being very sweet him- I'm the sweetest around me- haha who are you showing it to? because it's definitely not me him- oh these 2 girls next to me me- did you really just say that? not even funny him- i was jk lol That was about 2 hours ago, I didn't reply, and he still hasn't said anything. Did I overreact? Or was he out of line? Should I text him later? Or wait for him to make it right? thanks everyone :)
WHAT DOES HE MEAN?!!?..?!. GIRLS & GUYS OPINIONS WELCOME?
i've been dating a guy for about a year & 1/2 and we broke up in august because we were both moving & neither of us believe in long distance relationships. yesterday i asked him if he still feels something for me or if he had found someone in his new city & he said this: It makes me absolutely sick to think about you with another guy. I have been needing a break from dating, and to just do what I'm doing right now which is just focusing on myself only. I feel like I have lost my want and need to have a real relationship with someone, so I think time away from all that is good for me. I still like you a lot, and selfishly want you to be waiting for me. But I also think you should be dating in the mean time. what the heck is this supposed to mean?? i really care about him, but i don't know if i can wait around for 2 years for him to be ready to commit to me. does this even sound like he still has feelings for me? what should i do? any help would be much appreciated!
Should I marry this guy, opinion needed?
This guy shares my ideology to a large extent. If i said this to the girl whom i want to spend my life with this can be the reason.I have something in my life which i promised to keep up even after the marriage. That something gives me immense happiness and made me the man i am.. I will never give up on that. As a bachelor i can do what all i want with the money i have and pursue that something but it is not possible as a married guy. So i said this in a indirect manner.I can say it directly that i have something to nurture right? Then why indirectness?Marriage is a lot responsibility for a girl than a guy.I don't want to burden her with more and more responsibility and scare her.Also there is no way someone would understand that some thing fully without seeing it. I want my partner to see things and hope that she will accept it. If she doesn't accept , well I already said her that i will do what ever i want with rest of my money so she can't stop me now. This is the case which i hope will never never occur and will try my best to make her see things well. I believe i will succeed.That something can be1.. A promise to a old friend which involves lending him a hand when ever he needs it.2.. That can be helping kids whom i promised i will3.. Investing in risky things like shares 4.. Taking care of parents and in-laws.5.. Doing a part-time job as a auto-wallah. I am sure my partner will have trouble with it.It can be anything. He already ruled out the worst case possibility for you.. So don't worry. You can't know the life of a guy in few meets.. Give it time..Take time to nurture your relationship as you are clearly happy in it.. Yes description about the guy says it.This would be my thought if i said the above thing to my partner..On a side note there is a thing about such guys. These guys are totally ok if you ask them on face -- "Have you ever slept with this girl?" but it maddens them if you give hints about it. Just be up to point. Ask him things he will answer you when time is right or ask you to wait with a valid reason.Have a great life.. :)
Do girls like guys who ask them for help?
It can depend on who it is. If it's a man who has his own abilities and is confident, being humble can be a wonderful thing to encounter in a person. I had a manager once who used to ask me for advice, sometimes on operational aspects of the project. He was all business, but him asking for help created trust between us. And yes, attraction.If it isn't genuine, it can repel someone permanently.
How can I tell if a guy likes me??? I think he does but I need opinions!?
Okay...so there's a guy. I really like him :) :) :). And he's a cutie! So I really need help. I've been looking on alot of "how to tell if a guy likes you" results on the internet, but none of it is really helping. Here are some examples of what happens: 1 - Whenever he talks to me he smiles. And he's not a very "happy" person. Meaning that he doesn't smile very often, and barely at all when he talks to someone. 2 - We were somewhere together, listening to the leader, and the topic of the lecture was "valentines day". So when the leader says "we're going to talk about a love story", his eyes flicker over to me and our eyes meet. We were just starring for a couple seconds, but then I looked away and smiled. 3 - When we're in the gym, sometimes he's not really "in the conversation", but will laugh at something I say. Or he and his friend will try to throw a tennis ball at me. I don't know if that's really "flirty"... Now, here is 1 reason I think he doesn't like me: When we're around certain people, he ignores me. And I know from watching him that he's not trying to flirt to make me jealous. I mean 100% ignoring. He won't look at me, or try to get me to make eye contact with him like he usually does, nothing. I'm pretty much invisible. And even when I try to talk to him around them, he either gives a one sentence reply and walks away, or doesn't answer at all. I'm SOOOO confused! At some points, I think he really likes me, but there are a couple times when I think he doesn't want to acknowledge the fact that he even knows who I am. Thanks for reading, PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVICE!!!
Guys.. cute girl needs help! lol?
I've been seeing a guy for a little while, and I accidentally spilled the beans.. I told him that I can see myself with him, and that I can see myself falling in love with him. I can tell he likes me a lot (besides the fact that he says he does), and I don't think it scared him away, but I think it may have taken him back a bit. How do I make amends? Meaning, how do I make sure that this didn't make him lose desire for me or take the "fun of the chase" out, etc. Should I ignore his calls for a day or two.. should I tell him I'm busy when he wants to hang out next? How do I fix this?! I really like him! Thanks :D
If she mentions another guy (girls please give your opinions too please)?
I met this girl at work (as a summer camp counselor) I think she is very nice but I have only known her for like two and a have weeks. She and I are the head counselors in our group so we are around eachother pretty much all work day. I don't want to ask her out until the end of camp b/c if she says no I don't want it to be awkward. Is that a good or bad idea? She has mentioned a guy she was seeing and that she wasn't sure if it would work out with them. She has asked me if I was with someone but it was only after she asked me if she new if someone else was with someone. (maybe she did it that way so it would seem less obvious maybe not, I don't know) Her actual words were: Do you know if Jay is married?, I see a ring on his finger. me: I don't know. her: Are you married? me: No, I don't even have a girlfriend. I can make her laugh and I think she enjoys talking with me and I think she knows I like talking to her and might even know I like her but I am not sure. So all of this is a good sign to me. Until, the other day when we were leaving working together. ( we always leave work and travel part way home together.) The other day she starts talking about how she "reconnected" with a guy she used to see but that she is not really interested in him anymore. This doesn't phase me until she starts to talk about the guy she used to date who left to travel the world and is coming back soon who she said she did like. She then mentions something about how she seems to have lots of options or something like that or along those lines. I am not sure exactly what she said because I was trying to focus on how to not seem jealous. So I think I will ask her out at the end of camp regardless as I do not feel like giving up but I want to know what other people think. I have heard two schools of thought and am wondering which one, if either, make sense. 1. She mentions other guys to try to let you down easy to show you that she is not interested. and 2. She wants to see your reaction to see if you are jealous or not. Quite frankly, I don't like either of these because one means she is not interested and another feels like she wants to play games. SO...What do you all think?
What is your opinion about a girl having a guy roommate?
I have a guy friend as a roommate, just roommate- to help pay bills for a while and he needed a place to stay. I recently started talking to a guy that was interested in dating me and when he found out I had a guy roommate he called me a whore and said that if I was willing to whore myself out for money all I had to do was ask him. I think he was completely out of line for saying that to me. I don't have a sexual relationship with my roommate and I wasn't even talking to the guy that wants to date me when my friend moved in. I was single. What is your opinion?