Help....BOY AND FRIEND TROUBLE I NEED ADVICE QUICK!!!!!!?
Hallucinations are issues that individuals see and hear that are actually not relatively there. absolutely everyone could have them, given the applicable circumstances, no rely how youthful or previous they are. you have not given sufficient suggestions as to what's relatively happening so as that i will choose no rely if or not she's having hallucinations. If she is, in certainty, clinically depressed, sleep disadvantaged and has different matters, there is an danger that she is additionally having hallucinations. it is totally candy of you to agonize on your buddy. however, you're allowing her issues to electrify the type you experience. this isn't healthy for you in any respect. She desires extra help than you may desire to probable ever supply her. She should be in medical care. i don't think of there is relatively something which you, in my opinion, can do. If she would not want help, you won't have the ability to tension her to get help. perchance you may desire to show it to her mum and dad? Then, back, that may not do any reliable. If she has this many issues, they could understand the situation and doing some thing to help her. relatively, in case you believe that she's mendacity to you, you may desire to objective bringing that up the subsequent time she says some thing suspicious. i would not even propose for her to get help. enable her admit that. tell her which you care approximately her, and which you like a extra effective existence for her. Then, tell her the type you experience approximately her habit. Remind her which you care approximately her back. you won't have the ability to alter different individuals. you may in basic terms exchange your reaction to them. perchance you may desire to spend much less and much less time round her. you won't have the ability to enable her issues to dominate your strategies in case you have matters of your man or woman that could desire to be addressed. perfect of success to you.
Best friend trouble..need advice.?
Absolutely nothing. This often happens as you grow older and start meeting men and forming more serious relationships. Try to realize that she is in the 'honeymoon' phase of the courtship. Being with her new boyfriend is exciting and probably all that she thinks about. For the time being, you are having to take a back seat to him, but trust me, one of two things will happen: 1) They will break up and she'll need you for support (if this happens, don't trash him, b/c if they get back together, then you'll feel like a fool) 2) They will continue their relationship and get engaged down the road. After the newness of the relationship has worn off a bit, she will want to start hanging out with her bff again. When I met my husband, I was the same way. I wanted to be with him all the time, and some of my friends felt abandoned, but now we're as close as we were before (maybe more so). In fact, my two best friends were my maids of honor at my wedding. This is a test of friendship. Try to understand that your friend is flooded with 'love hormones' right now. Hopefully, when you meet somebody great, she'll be understanding too. One more piece of advice -- give them their space. Don't be the third wheel hanging around them when they need their 'romantic time'. Find some new interests or other people to hang out with. Trust me, eventually you'll start seeing more and more of your friend. Love & Blessings!
My friend is in trouble I need some advice as to what to do.?
Okay here is the deal, my friend Jenny (not her real name) has a friend called John (this is not his real name) He lives across the other side of the UK from us in liverpool. She has met him via the internet and has become close friends with him. Me and my friend jenny often have a good laugh and a joke. On the popular social networking site facebook there is an Application called Social interview and a question appeared directed to her asking "would you slap her if she was doing something stupid" i replied yes so this guy called john starts saying how he will smash my teeth in, of course i really don't care he doesn't even live near me but that's another story. And it's all by coincidence that no one has actually never met him. He won't buy a webcam, someone went to meet him in london and on the day he conveniently got arrested. so yet again no one has seen him and it has just started to make me think. Then the other night i decided to go through jenny's facebook profile and see the sorts of things he is saying. He is suggesting to have sex with him when her status reads " I am bored and don't know what to do" and keeps saying how Jenny is Johns Girlfriend when they are not in a relationship. I confronted her about this matter earlier and she said oh it's not true he is Lovely and really nice, well i decided to do some research on cyber pedophilia and here is a little extract i sent to her.... "They work very hard to gain a victim’s trust and confidence, while driving a wedge between the victim and his/her friends and family members" Well her reply was i trust him with my life. And i have said to her is it not convenient how you have never met him and as soon as anyone arranges it he always has an excuse. I have told her that he could be a sexual Predator and she was having none of it so i just don't know what to do about it. I really care about her, almost veering off to loving her and I just don't want to see her hurt. It may be the case where he is not a pedophile just someone who no one has met but the evidence is there! I just don't know what to do, so i set up a yahoo account and here I am. Please help me i know that that was a long paragraph but it just sets the scene for you, many thanks for taking your time to read this all advice welcome.
I need advice on a friendship problem?
So basically I am 13 years old and I need some advice. I am looking to join a friendship group but there is someone in the group that doesn’t like me and I think I know why. So I’m friends with her best friend and I was in class with the person and I heard her talking to people about how she’s starving herself so I spoke to her best friend who is also my friend because I was worried about what I’d heard . My friend then went and spoke to her about it and told her it was me that told her and ever since she has been rude to me . She could also not like me because I’m friends with her best friend I’m not sure. I know u will tell me to talk to her about it but if that is the reason she doesn’t like me how to I explain why I told her friend because it was none of my business and what if she starts asking why it came up in conversation. I just want to join the group but I won’t be able to if she still hates me . I know that what I did was wrong but I don’t know what to do about it now
Friend problems, advice needed?
That is jealousy/insecurity Your best friends (is it just 1 or 2?) could be jealous about lots of things, is it mostly one girl? Jealous or Insecure Causes: Look, Hair, Shoes, Body or relationships Sports, Grades or other activities They can think you do anything as good or better than them They can imagine (make up) You are richer, prettier, have more friends; popular I doubt your friends are just jealous over this 1 action.. Have any of your best friends been acting strange for a bit? Sometimes only one girl is mad then she makes everyone get mad at you. I might be wrong though I am asking. Did problems exist before this? Is there a chance someone from the best friend group was already bullying you or being mean (signaling problems) Even if you were just ignoring it. Now it is getting more serious. If it is someone you need to deal with it soon/now or it gets worse.
I'm having Friend Trouble, need advice....?
ok properly i understand that's problematic because of the fact your human beings are possibly all mad yet somewhat i do no longer think of human beings relatively even observe which you switched to the favored human beings, they are able to of course tell who you're greater delicate with. except of coarse the folk your commencing to hold close out with now are all snobs, then they might observe and commence asserting stuff. i think of what you should gain although is how your terrific buddies are feeling approximately you purely leaving them. You gave them the identify of "terrific buddies" and that's some thing you should stay as much as and not purely ditch them for brand spanking new human beings all the time. that's merely no longer worth it. talk to them and not purely completely decrease them out of your existence is the least you're able to do. good luck. yet what i think of you should do is to believe your gut because is the element that's fairly much consistently proper and to ask your self, "Am I extraordinary out with them because of the fact i desire the identify of being ordinary?"
MAJOR friend trouble! I need advice!!?
Being patient is a good start. Understanding the new dynamics in her life now a boyfriend is there, will help. It sounds like she is not secure in her sense of self with the new guy around. It is too bad when people change from being open and accepting to being self centered, but you can't control that. One thing for you to work on is to not be 'needy' of her attention and respect. By having your own life, and feeling good about your self, you create no extras pressure that she can pick up on and react to. So you can keep loving her, while you accept that she may possibly never come back to being they kind of friend you had before. She may not be very self aware, and so to express your observations soon, could further push her away. What you will find is that if you stay steady in your positive feelings for her, and don't get caught in judging her more negative behavior, your heart will be free. And by keeping clear in your heart, you will be attractive to good people, and new ones will gravitate to you, even if she does not. So you will be fine no matter what.