I'm a really good looking guy but cant get any girls?
ok so Im a really good looking guy, I've been told so many times by a lot of women of all ages and races and even by men like family members, friends, etc not in a homosexual way though, girls stare at me wherever I go and all of that, I'm also very smart i do really well in school, anyway my good looks do not even help me at all because when it comes to getting a girlfriend I fail miserably, the only girls I could go out with are really unattractive and It would never work out for me because I simply cant go out with a girl Im not attracted to , being good looking backfires on me and i get nothing not even a decent normal girl and it surprisingly started to affect my self-esteem now because i never had a girlfriend and I'm about to turn 20, also I've seen so many disgusting looking guys get really hot girls or a lot of girlfriends i've also seen the biggest losers and assholes get nice cute girls and i get nothing and it makes me feel like biggest failure and i feel so humiliated because how can a smart good looking guy get no girls but an ugly *** guy can?? It's being good looking a curse and not a good thing?? im not the best when it comes to talking to girls but im not bad either, im also a comic and very funny guy always love to make everybody laugh, that's one of my best qualities besides the good looks, I make girls laugh a lot but I still fall short, im also aware that there are other guys out there that really know how to talk to girls but they are usually so ugly! but however they get girls! how can just that one thing work for them??? Im really really confused! any help would be much appreciated thanks!
Girls, if a guy is handsome what does that mean?
Pretty much the same thing. I just think Handsome is a word that sometimes can have different connatations. You might tell a little boy that when he is dressed up for church or something that he looks handsome, but you don't tell a child that they are good looking. Good looking implies that the complimenter is attracted to the person (I think) Handsome is a general term for a male that looks nice.
If im good looking, why do girls reject me?
Maybe you're to good looking, girls wants to be able to get in the mirror as well as a good looking guy..
Do ladies assume good looking guys are players?
Honestly, yes. I'm sorry but I do BUT only if I haven't met you yet. I mean, girls don't date guys because of only good looks, charm and confidence. Maybe the girls you met don't have that special feeling for you. If you really are what you say you are then I think girls will like you. But maybe you're "blind" on other aspects. I mean, you may not be aware that you sound OVERLY confident right now. I mean you talk about yourself like you're popular and good looking and your screen name is "cute guy". And you do say you're good at flirting, maybe you flirt too much? I'm sorry if I hurt your ego or something. Like I said, I haven't met you yet so sorry. Best advice: be humble and only pursue girls you're really interested in because if a girl you flirt with sees you flirting with other girls, then maybe she'll think you're just playing with her and not taking her seriously.