Why don't White guys approach Black girls?
I'm not ghetto or high maintenance. I'm not loud and dramatic. I'm a college girl and I'm pretty conservative with my outfits. I believe a woman can be sexy without showing skin. I listen to almost all type of music ( except country and rap). I'm not "loose" and I'm still a virgin. Just to get that out of the way. Not all black girls are ghetto or whatever the media presents. So why don't white guys approach black girls? Does it matter if she is dark or light?
What do guys think about girls with short hair?
I think it looks great! At the end of the day, it's your hair and you can do whatever you please with it. I am a boy and I have had long hair since I was about in 10th grade and only cut it short since then one time. My little sister (well, she's an adult now) has had short hair almost her entire life of varying lengths, from pixie-cut short, to a bob. For about a year she tried growing it out to shoulder length and even had a pony-tail, but she got sick of it and cut it again. She also has zero trouble finding boys to date her. (He record is 3 boyfriends in one year.) Nobody whom you should care about will question your gender just because you have short hair. Also... when a woman has shorter hair, it says to men, "She's low maintenance and practical." Which for a long-term relationship, is something men are definitely interested in.
I'm a reasonably attractive woman. Why have no men sent me messages on my online dating profile?
I think the other answers are brilliant but I want to add just a few things to reinforce them and share what worked best for me. I dated strictly online for over 3 years and eventually married a person I met online.Use proper spelling and good grammar. Have a friend proofread it.For your photo, choose a photo that CLEARLY shows your face. It should be a RECENT photo, especially if you've undergone changes in your weight. You must be as true to your actual appearance as possible. I know this is hard, but it's the very first thing they'll see about you. We tell ourselves that looks don't matter, and they don't matter in the end, but they always matter at first.Your profile should be detailed, friendly, open and engaging. I just hated profiles where dudes were like, "SWM, ISO SWF. DTF?" Just, ew. [Sidenote, any profiles like that should be ignored. This isn't Tinder!]Don't wait for them! Online dating a purely a process of taking risks - not like gambling or Russian Roulette - but putting yourself out there. You must MUST be able to risk rejection to find love. I don't know what platform you're using, but perhaps you should make the first move.Someone once said to me, "engage with EVERY SINGLE PERSON you're matched with." I was using eHarmony and they used to have two ways of getting to know someone: the long way, which was a four-phase Q&A; and the short way, where you message each other on the site and then move forward. Chatting with every match proved to be a lot of work, but if I hadn't done it I would have only engaged with the dudes that fit my exact specifications. My hubby is quite a bit younger and was in a different stage of his life; we would never have looked twice at one another on the street.Be fully committed! Make a decision to give this a try and give it 100% for a specified period of time. Try to say 'yes' except when you have a legitimate reason (the guy is creepy or purely incompatible), but don't say, "eh, I'm just not feelin' it."Online dating is hard. It's not as organic as meeting someone at church or at a club. It's challenging. But more and more people are finding love with it every day.Good luck!
Which charger setting to charge my car battery: "conventional/low maintenance" or "no maintenance/deep cycle"?
I have a one-year-old Die Hard car battery that I want to recharge with a 10-amp wall battery charger. The charger has two settings: "conventional / low maintenance" and "no maintenance / deep cycle". Which one should I use? What do the settings mean? Thanks!
Have you ever rejected an extremely handsome guy?
Nope. Never RejectedDo you know why? Never got a proposal from a extremely handsome guy :DAs a person, am too casual on the way I dress up. Other than official meeting, one will never find me with hair made or a lipstick, no eye liner.The look I keep myself I only attract people with my kind of vibes. Average people, low maintenance people be it a friendship or romantic encounter.Most of the time I am deep into my books, zero awareness of surroundings. So much so that I have told multiple times by people after they leave my team or organisation that they have crush on me. While they were right there in front of me and I would not even know of it.So even if some extremely handsome guy liked me, I didn't knew of his feelings to reject him.I believe you don't get rejected, you only get right options once you stop knocking on wrong door.
Why do rich and allegedly intelligent men marry gold-diggers?
How many of these so-called ‘gold diggers’ are women who are not:actresses, orknown for their good looks, oryoung enough to be their daughterfamousHow many?Almost none!These rich and ‘allegedly’ intelligent men seem to never marry or date the simple, housewife who doesn’t look after her appearance but instead chooses to make soaps or candles at home or mows the lawns in her free time or volunteers at the church or works in a library or stays with her kids all day long instead of partying in tonnes of makeup and high heels.Why are people surprised why they marry such women? They want to marry a type. you want high maintenance? You pay for it. Simple. and these men can pay for it. They know it.Every Tom , Dick and Harry wants a high maintenance woman and expects her to ‘love him for who he is’ and not want anything in return. What nonsense.Rich men like the shiny, glamorous woman with every hair strand in place. So these men are a kind of gold digger themselves.If Amber Heard is a gold digger, then Elon Musk might just be the biggest idiot to have walked the face of Earth. Right? Why can’t he see what Amber Heard did to poor , innocent Johnny Depp? Poor guy was in deep love and the woman turned out to be a gold digger!! Boo Hoo!So then you can safely take out the word ‘intelligent’ from your question. And maybe THAT is the reason why they marry gold diggers. Because intelligence is lacking in them.Didn’t like what i said?That’s exactly the problem with calling women gold diggers and acting as if men are brainless idiots who cannot use their brain and end up getting fooled all the time. No one is forcing them to marry or date these women. They are with them because they want to be and they see things about their lives more clearly than you do.
I am hot, but not a girlfriend material. Why is that?
Hello. I am apparently what guys call me "beautiful," "hot," "sexy," :gorgeous". Im not bragging, because personally my look doesnt do me any good. I am not shallow, snobby, nor stuck up as what many people think of pretty girls but rather very chill, laid back, friendly, cool and fun, and friends with everyone around. I feel like all guys just look up or admire me, as if I am a goddess or something. I dont want admiration or infatuation from many guys, all I want is a serious, long lasting relationship with one true love. However the only guys that approach me are jerks or creepy stalkers while the rest are too intimidated to talk to me. (I guess thats the reason according to other yahoo answers) Everyone thinks I am experienced with guys and have a lot of guys wrapped around my fingers and I also act that way (flirt & play mind games) to meet their expectations. But to be honest, I never had a serious relationship before. I am 19, and in my whole life I only had 2 hook ups and no sex. One guy I deeply liked, but never showed my feelings to because of shyness, only approached me for hook up, and left me when he found a girl he actually liked. I feel like guys are only attracted to my physiques, and never look at me as a girlfriend material. They never try to like me as what I am, but rather how I look. They only want to sleep with me, which is definitely not what I go for. It makes me feel so insecure and have low self esteem. Right now I am so desperate and lonely for someone I can be with always and rely on. I always tell myself that one day a perfect guy is going to come along and sweep me off my feet but now I am not so sure, seeing who I thought was my perfect guy being in love with another girl. What should I do?
Are men really incapable of controlling their sexual urges?
I'm just curious. Many times, I've seen men complaining about their wives/girlfriends, "She complains too much!", "She's too high maintenance!" and all this bullsh*t... but then praise the sex and refuse to leave her. Why? I also saw this comment somewhere: "This is why I am single. I want to f*ck women very badly still (am 32) but I just cant put up with them anymore." Why does he want to f*ck women "so badly"? Is it a lack of self-control? Is it society that tells men they should be incapable of simply masturbating or is it just this insatiable desire to put their dick in a woman that I will never understand because I am a woman? I haven't been sexually interested in anyone for years. I've had zero desire to have sex with anyone, and I'm perfectly satisfied with masturbation. What's stopping the dudes who hate women from doing the same? Why is the alternative (treating women like **** and calling them useless whores and all kinds of colorful language but then still ******* them and putting up with them) preferable to just being content as a single man? Also, the reason I say "men" in general is because a lot of these guys try to speak on behalf of the entire male gender, and there seems to just be this general consensus that, "Yeah, I need to put my dick in a vagina." It's just a weird concept to me, so I'd appreciate if anyone could explain what this "desire" feels like and why it can't be controlled, or if you think these dudes are just weak-willed.