IM HOMESICK IN COLLEGE?!?
I am 18, from Texas and started college in Mississippi 5 days ago. I have kept super busy but at nights get homesick. Every freshman on the campus is going home for Labor Day except me:( I wanted to come home to my family to see them before Thanksgiving but they said no since airfare is like $500, which i understand. What should I do? Advice?
Homesick at college.....?
I am a freshman in college have been here 3 months. I have a good amount of friends and am involved in 2 clubs. (That is the most I could fit into my schedule.) My grades are okay not great but not terrible. My room-mate is terrible she comes home at 3 in the morning on school days most of the time drunk and has no respect for me in our room. She also completely ignores me and acts as thought I am insignificant. I herd that pets can help but we are not allowed to have pets in our school and my mom does not want me to have fish. So i thought I would volunteer at a local vet but I have no way to get there. The local bus does not run out of the town. What can I do to stop being so homesick and have a better college experience.
Is it normal to be homesick at college?
I just moved into college yesterday, for the first time, and I am extremely homesick right now. I come from a town where everyone knows everyone else, and although I am an outgoing person, it is quite a change. So, is it normal to be homesick, and how would recommend that I deal with it?
I'm homesick at college?
Hi, I've been at college for five days now and I feel the same way. I lived in New York for my whole life and when I moved in to my school in the midwest, I left behind all my family and friends. It has been tough - real tough - so far. Even though the people in my hall are friendly and I like my room mate, I eventually cried. Now that might not sound like a big deal, but I'm a pretty masculine guy who hasn't cried in years (and I thought it would be years before I would cry again). I'm going to pull through, though, and I suggest you do the same. Remember: college is about new experiences. Even though I wasn't very adventurous when I was at home, I am now open to trying anything. Like you, I still haven't found my niche but I have faith that in time I will. Never forget the people you love, especially family - they will never leave you!!! Some people like greek life (frats/sororities) but if it's not for you, don't give up. With a school as big as yours, there are bound to be things to do and people to meet. Meeting new people is an important life skill, one that we will both have a chance to hone these next four years. Good luck and don't give up!
Really homesick at college?
Let me tell you something, the first few weeks of college are always the hardest. You will spend 18 years in your parents house just wanting to get off on your own and now that you are you just want to be back home. This is normal, every college student goes through this. Don't give up on the dorms just yet. They will get better, I am not saying don't go visit your family. If you need to go see them by all means go, just be aware that going to college is part of growing up. This is were you learn to stand on your own two feet and yes it is a scary time but you will do just fine. It may take a couple months to get used to but college will be something you will remember for you the rest of your life. As far as the partying/drinking goes, don't do anything you will regret later. If you don't want to drink that is your choice and no one had the right to force you into it. I would say stick it out at the 4 year, you will no regret it when you start meeting people and making friends.
Is it natural to feel homesick in college?
You have to understand that everyone is different so you should not be comparing yourself to your room mates, and they are probaly feeling the same way you are. Talk to them about it. Furthermore it is of course naturral to feel homesick and it does pass eventually. Be patient.......its the first night there. Things will get better. You have to get your mind used to the new enviorement, and i know its difficult at first but it gets much better. I promise You mentioned that you are at College? Does this mean you are in America. If so , then surely they have support centres at the uni like we do here in England. Go to them with your issues and talk to them about it. It is what they are there for and what they are very used to dealing with.
How can I cope with homesickness in college?
Homesickness is common in freshman. View it as an inevitable phase, not a chronic condition. Like lovesickness, it usually passes on its own with time.Most freshman are not homesick until they get their first school cold/flu, which is also inevitable. For the first few months, they are running on adrenaline and tend to get run down.So what to do:Accept it, don’t fight it.Take care of yourself physically.Bring a “poster” full of pictures, not just electronic ones on your phone.Decorate your room with things that comfort you.Bring a favorite blanket, pillow, or stuffed animalTell your parents to visit on parent’s weekend (Usually in October when freshman often become homesick)Ask your parents to send you a care package with comfort foods.Make friends with someone more homesick than yourself, and comfort them.Call, or use FaceTime to contact friends at other colleges. Don’t lose touch with friendsCall or use FaceTime to contact parents and siblings. They are an important support system.Make friends with your RAMake friends with your college advisor/dean.Make friends with your roommates and floormatesExerciseEat right.Keep it in perspective. Freshman year is stressful. One “B” won’t ruin your life or chance at grad school. Give yourself time to adjust.Remember, it will get better with time.
What will make me less homesick when I'm at college?
Question Asked: What will make me less homesick when I'm at college?My Answer: Stay busy…very, very busy. Go to the library to study where there are lots of people around. Hit the gym, join some clubs, do varsity or intramural sports. Try not to call home too often, It only resets the homesickness clock. Do the mixers in the dorm…make some new and interesting friends. Force yourself to go up to an interesting looking person and start a conversation. Look people in the eye, smile and say hi. Remember, despite the fact they are weird, college kids are among the coolest people on earth. Get to know as many as you can. Don’t forget the the international kids. It’s nice to know people from all over the world, and you will be making lifelong friends.Do not encourage your parents to call too often, because you are homesick. Remember, they are probably kidsick and miss you desperately. Hearing your voice can reset their kid-sickness clock. Be brave. This too shall pass. In a surprisingly short while, when you go home for a break or a holiday, you will miss the freedom and independence you have at School and will be anxious to get back or visit some friends.
Back to College after winter break and homesick?
For all of winter break, I've been pretty excited to go back to school, but now that the day has finally arrived, I've gotta admit, I'm suddenly homesick. I haven't left yet - I head back later tonight - but for some reason, I've been pretty glum about leaving home. I was *really* homesick during the first 6 weeks of my first semester - it was so bad that I was considering commuting to school (I only live about 45 minutes away). I even went home for 4 days to sort everything out it was so bad. But, I got my act together and went back to school. I joined a club sports team, met a ton of good friends, and by the end of the semester - I was settled in. I wanted to go home for break just to get away from the stress of finals (yuck). The first few weeks of break I enjoyed being home, then as my friends started trickling back to school, my parents went back to work, I got bored and lonely - so I wanted to go back to college. I met up with a few of my friends from my sports team at a tournament over the holidays and seeing them fueled my desire to go back. But, now on the day I go back, I'm a little sad. It's a strange feeling because the only things I really miss are my parents, my dogs, and my own bedroom. But, I would never ever want to live at home and go to college (I like the freedom). I feel a little torn between my desire to go to school (It's weird because I have a ton of plans made for tonight, this week, and weekend) and my desire to stay at home. I also think back to the start of last semester and seriously hope that I never, ever get that depressed or homesick ever again (it was scary and miserable!). Also, last semester I would come home about once a month, just to see my family and take a break from school - but this semester my sports team is traveling nearly ever weekend from now to spring break! So, it's weird to know that I won't be able to come home until March. I'm pretty sure that once I get back to school and into the swing of things that these feelings will seem silly. It's just hard making the transition from home to school. Any tips on how to make it better?
I am off to college far away from my home and I feel homesick. What should I do?
I'm sorry you are feeling homesick. I know what a terrible feeling that can be. When I first went away to college, it was my first time being away from my parents for more than a few days, and I didn't know a soul. So, I understand what you are going through. Staying busy helped me to take my mind off how homesick I was, and eventually it got better. Make sure you put your studies first, but get involved in extracurricular activities. I got involved in a Christian group on campus and this helped me to stay busy as well as make friends. I also got to know my roommate really well and tagged along with her and her friends some. Having a good group of friends I could count on helped me through that time enormously. I am praying for you during this transition.