How do you convince your strict parents to let you go out with friends and go to the store?
Remember, your parents are your well wishers. They don't know whether your friends are good or bad. They don't want you into any trouble because of bad friends. Let me give you an example. Last week, I was shopping and just ahead of me, in cash counter were high school 5–6 children paying at the cash counter and police walked in and arrested all of them for shoplifting and theft. They are just 15–16 yrs old and police record befre thy even started their career. Maybe, your parents are protecting you from all these. Can you imagine your life behind bars with criminals and murderers?
How can I convince my parents to let me hang out wih friends?
Most of the parents thinks the same because they care for you and love you more than anything and you know very well in teen ages parents thinks that their kids will get bad people company and will suffer from bad habits.They never let you go with your friends for outing because they are unaware of your friends and their might be some trust issues.For this you need to win the trust of your parents, that you and your friends are not doing anything wrong on behalf of them and will harmful for you and for them. Secondly, There should be no communication gap between your parents and your friend because they must know with whom you are going for outing. For this you should do the regular interaction of your friends with your parents.If they people find your friends trustworthy then they will definitely let you go.Love your parents!
How do I convince my mom to let me go to my friends Quinceanera?
I think what you need to do is try and reason with your mom on the whole affair. Why exactly does she not want you to go? Does she not trust you to behave? I think if your mom is a little iffy, try to find a way to reassure her that everything will be fine at the party. Let her set a curfew that is fair to make sure you get home at a reasonable time (even if to you it might be a little early it's better to leave early that not go at all). And let her walk into the party with you so see that it's supervised and there's not a lot of crazy stuff going on. The best thing you can do when asking for something you want is to find some middle ground with our parents. Quinceaneras are just like sweet sixteens, formal gowned parties filled with friends and family. Very little craziness goes on there. If you can help her see that and help her feel that her worries will be placated, then you should be allowed to go and enjoy yourself.
How do you convince your parents to let you go out and spend more time with your friends instead of making you stay at home all the time?
My situation was just like yours in the past. Now I'm able to spend about once to thrice a week, going out with my friends (I know it's not a lot but it's enough for me since I am working now and because I usually spend a lot if I'm with my friends).What I did to convince I parents is by "starting small". Start by telling your parents you will only be gone for 2-3 hours (to grab a bite?) and tell them who you are going with and give them a time of when you will be back. Now make sure to check the time and be absolutely back by that timing or before it. If your parents are working or out at the moment, call from your house to let them know you are home and that you have kept your promise. Now do this for no more than twice a week and make sure the interval in between is more than 2 days.It also helps if your parents know your friends. Invite your friends over, if your parents allow (if they don't, give them the excuse saying that "hey you do not want me to go out so can I just invite my friends over? I promise we won't thrash the house!" or something along this line), and introduce them to your parents. Or show them a photo and talk about the moments you had together. Bring up your friend(s)'s name(s) frequently during your talk to show that you spend a lot of time with him/her(them) and also to let your parents know more about the type of person you are going out with can be trusted.After doing this "starting small" business for a few times, daringly increase the time you spend with your friends and be sure to tell your parents the 4 'W's: Who, What, Where, When.WHO: Who are you going out with [your friend(s)'s name(s)]WHAT: What you are doing ( e.g. we are going to catch the movie "movie name")WHERE: Where you will beWHEN: What time to what time will you be with your friends, and when will you reach back home.Do this before they even have a chance to ask!! Then hear them out after (their permission or such).When you are out and you will be late reaching back home at the given time:CALL or MESSAGE your parents to let them know and APOLOGISE to them and tell them the REASON(S) why you are late.That's about what I did :)Good Luck!!!
How do I convince my parents to let me hang out with a guy?
Im 15 years old. I don't really really get to hang out with my friends due to my parents being strict and overprotective, but my friend (whose a guy) asked if I wanted to hang with him this weekend. I really want to,he's helped me with so much in my life even my bad relationship with my dad. but im afraid my SUPER overprotective parents will say no. But the guy I want to hang out with isn't a bad person -he's smart, kind, sweet, nice, wants to go to college, has dreams, doesn't drink or smoke. Respectful towards his family and everyone else. But im afraid they'll still say no. Its not like im he's my boyfriend, I don't have those feelings for him, he's just a really close friend I want to hang out with. Im a straight A student, i've never gotten in trouble at school, home, or anywhere else and i've never done anyhing wrong to displease them. So any advice? How do I convince them to let me hang out with my guy-friend? Im afraid they'll think i'll get pregnant with him or something..but I won't I know I won't im better than that..and advice? help?
How to convince my parents to let me go to the beach?
i really want to go to the beach with my friends but i asked my mom one time and she was like ok. then i asked again to make sure because my mom forgets a lot, but when i asked, i asked in front of my dad too and my dad said no then my mom said no. they said " you go out too much" when i only went out once since a week ago when summer started. and i cant go out in july so i was kind of hoping the beach wa a good way to end june before vacation, you know? my dad also said he doesnt know any of my friends and doesnt feel safe. i even told them i'd call him and do dishes and chores around the house but they instantly said no. is there a way for me to convince them to say yes?
How can I convince my parents to let me go to Disney World with my friend?
In the past, my friend has asked me three different times to go to the beach with her, and my parents rejected her every single time! I really need to get some time away from my parents for a little bit, but for some reason they just don't like the idea of me going with my friend's family to other places! My younger brother gets to do it, but why not me? I am 16, by the way. Do you think that is too young to be away from my parents for a couple of days?! I think not! Anyways the same friend asked me to go to Disney World with her, and I haven't asked my parents yet. What should I say if they say no again? Thanks I really want to go! And btw, they think that DIsney WOrld is for little kids, which I totally disagree on!