How to deal with my jealous step brother?
My step brother is 17 and he gets really jealous over everything. I stayed home from school one day due to sickness. He asked his dad if he can stay home. His dad said no and he flipped out he got really mad and said it's no fair and other crap. We got our license and we can't drive passengers in our cars for six months. He drove his friends around in his car. He got caught and got his car taken away. I drove the same thing. He saw me and my mom saw me. My mom didn't do anything cause she doesn't care if i drive my friends around. He got really mad and started tearing up the house. He started calling me a spoiled brat and says I can do whatever I want. And that I got a free BMW without paying for anything. (Which i help paid for half of it) by working really hard at my business. He keyed my car and smash my window. Now i have to pay for a new paint job and a new window. What should I do?
Jealous mother & sister how do i deal with it ?.They are jealous of me for no reason it took me along time to?
see it.They get mad at me becuase my BF is good to me & they also talk about me when i have a certain job etc.They call there friends & each other to talk about what my BF buys me & where we go & what i have. i don't throw things in anyones face i hide so many things from them but i feel that i should be able to talk them about certain things. me & my BF have had arguments over this because i ask him to hide things and i get very upset about this & he says let them do it . i went through stupid things like this with friends my family knew how hurt i was about that. i love my family i will give them anything they want but it hurts me so much that they talk so much crap about me & when my BF does good things for me. i can't be blamed for the choices of men they keep choosing i tell them about these guys but they get mad and want to attack me & so i let them see for themselves & of course i was right these guys( convicts,addicts) ect were bad from day 1 so why blame me
How to deal with a jealous and controlling mother?
you have to change how you react to her and it's going to take some practice because what I will suggest will feel like you're being disrespectful to your mom if you are on a subconscious level still trying to get her approval. 1. limit contact w/ your mother. 2. end visits & phone conversations when she becomes rude & disrespectful. just end them. Tell her good bye and hang up or tell her good bye and leave. If she is visiting you then escort her off your property. 3. do not let her stay w/ you when she comes to visit & do not stay w/ her when you go to visit. If it makes you feel better or helps avoid a fight then you can pay for her hotel when she comes to see you for one, two or three days (no more than that) 4. remind yourself that she is not someone who is happy for your successes & you need to stop expecting her to be. So don't go running to her w/ your good news expecting her to congratulate you. By all means, share what is happening in your life w/ her but just don't expect her to be happy for you. 5. when she comments on your "over priced" furniture then ignore the comment because apologizing for your success demeans all you've worked for & explaining that you can afford it will just cause a fight. it takes 2 to argue & she can't argue w/ you if you don't respond. 6. when she comments on your figure you can ignore it or respond in a way that lets her know you're standing up for yourself: "when you criticize my figure, it hurts my feelings. It makes me think that my only value to you is how I look. I'm healthy & I'm happy w/ myself & my figure. If my appearance distresses you so much then you can go back home where you don't have to look at me. Have you tried that new jam at the grocery store?" or if you are visiting her: "....If my appearance distresses you so much then I can go back home where you won't have to look at me. Hasn't the weather been lovely this week?" you say this ONCE & you do not engage further. You change the subject. Anytime she brings it up after that, then you ignore & change the subject. She gets 3 strikes before you tell her that the visit is over. the less you expect of her, the less she will disappoint you.
What are the signs of a jealous mother-in-law?
She always compares my hair to her own daughter. She once said my son had hair like hers, when my son has my hair. She even said she her hair was long like mines. Which it is not.
Jealous of my boyfriends mother?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years we live together and I am 6 months pregnant; 20 years old. The problem is his mom, I am jealous of her and their relationship, he sticks up for her anytime and never does this for me and I feel like I should be the one woman in his life not his mother.Sometimes I feel like he cares about her more then me, I feel that I will never be as equally as Special to him as his mother. She is constantly txting or calling him always wondering what were doing or how he is doing and we live like 4 blocks down the road from her. She brings him food at work and to our place, and he goes there almost every sunday to watch the football game with her( i don't like football) ugh don't get me wrong i like his mom very much and we get along well but lately she drives me nuts. How do i get him to move on and start our lives? Will he grow out of this? And how do I get her to back off?