Why do guys stop talking to you after you have hooked up with them?
why do guys stop talking to you after you have hooked up with them even though yall have liked eachother for a while? and what do i do or say to them when they do that?
Why did my guy friend stop talking to me?
HiOkay I had a similar incident. I found a guy via a group and common interests. So we start talking. His girlfriend breaks up with him and he gets and internship abroad. A good break for him to recover. Yes with time, I value him more than I knew. I would know of all his dates and he would know all my weird crushes.Two years later, I found someone. I mean I started dating someone. I decided to inform this friend about the fact that I like someone, subtly. Miscommunication happens and he assumes that I am telling him about my feelings for him. And he said that he knew I had such feelings since long ago. That I was just taking long to speak it out in the open.So, it was my fault for slowly revealing the news and I had to break it to him that I never had such feelings. He stopped talking to me. And told me somehow rudely that he is busy and that I should not contact him . You see, it was the time of demonetization. He was a banker and the pressure on his group had increased dramatically in the whole country. So I accepted that he might be busy. Even if not, things had complicated so much that it was okay for him to distance himself.This went for around 3 months until I faced breakup from my first relationship. I broke up and texted him about what I was going through. He replied, after so many weeks. It was a bittersweet moment because I had just broken up but a really important person had just come back in my life.We start to talk again slowly and he helped me pull myself up from depression. With no one else helping me. So one day I asked why has he not expressed earlier if he had such feelings. His reply makes me respect him so much. He said,- that he had such instances when friendships turn to relationships, but that way he had always lost the friends and that he didnt want to risk it with me.If your friend really is in for your more than his feelings, he would come back. If he would have been behaving okay, then I might have had asked you to consider your feelings. But sounds like he went desperate. Right now, you have to save your dignity and wait. If he was true for the friendship, he will be back. Just give some time. And even if you talk, always make it clear that all you need is a friend. Keep it crystal clear before him. Good luck.
How do I get this guy to stop talking about sex?
Message him that you can no longer have any contact with him because he refuses to stop talking about sex and you hope in the future he treats other women with more respect. Then delete him & block him. If you don't block him, he will beg you for another chance. That will last about 2 weeks and it will start all over again.
What should I do if a guy suddenly stops talking to me with no explanation?
From experience, ask a few times why. If you’re in contact with his friends, get one of them to talk to them/have them talk to you. After that, move on. It’s really not worth the pain.I was talking to someone for a handful of time. Everything was absolutely perfect. Best relationship I’d ever been in, even to this day. [In fact, I don’t date anymore and this is partially due to having that to compare new relationships to (which isn’t good), but mostly because I’ve realized I like being alone.] We “fought” once AKA I yelled at him because I’m moody, we didn’t talk for a day, and then everything was fine. Then one day, he just stopped talking to me. Now, I messaged him, of course. Concerned about what I’d done at first, then about him, because I knew he struggled with depression. Then I gave him his space for the latter reason. But after a week, I got super worried, and messaged his best friend. His friend said the boy was fine and that he’d talk to him the next morning. The next morning, I got a text from the boy saying he didn’t want to be together anymore, he didn’t have the nerve to tell me personally (or rather over the phone/Skype, since he lives about 2.5 hours away), and that he didn’t have an explanation. I was absolutely miserable for months.Fast forward almost a year later. The friend was killed in a car accident. It pained me, someone who’d never gotten to meet him in person, so I couldn’t imagine what it was like to lose a best friend. I reached out to the boy, and we ended up talking again. Then he disappeared again, and I had no one to reach out to.Then we talked again. Then he disappeared again. This happened for THREE YEARS. I’ve just recently in the past couple months come to terms that I do not deserve this treatment. Although he explained why he did it over the years, it does not make it any better. Just last week, I told him I’d moved on and I’m happy and that I hope he finds happiness, too. I’m moving past my hard feelings, and everything is fine between us, even though we only briefly talk ( a few messages every couple weeks/months).Don’t let the cycle wrap you up. Don’t let someone treat you this way. I can’t tell you not to let it hurt, because it may. But don’t get hung up on it.
Why Would a Guy Stop Talking to me After He Found Out I'm a Virgin?
Hes just intimidated by you:P "all he wanted was sex" Urm. No. This guy found out your a virgin and actually it scared him, maybe he doubts his bedding skills and as a courtesy he did not want to ruin your first time. Maybe he was looking for a good time, but if he took the time to talk to you ALOT and tried flirting with you. AT least he tried!!! So what nothing happend between you. Think of this as a learning experience, Stay true to yourself but dont blurt out your virginity. Try to find somebody who accepts you for who you are, somebody who could be the one. THEN and ONLY then reveal your Predicament. IF THERES A REASON FOR YOU BEING A VIRGIN: -If your saving your self. FAIR ENOUGH. Most guys will love this, most guys want to be your first but 1/3 will be scared off. -But if your just struggling to put out. Lower your standards. I know this is not what you want to hear, but actually near to no ones first time is what they wanted it to be like. Most the time it hurts and they don't enjoy it. I suggest you just... Put out. If you want to become better just gain some experiance. I hope i helped:)
Why did Aquarius guy stop talking to me?
I will try to keep this short. I met this guy six months ago. We started hanging out, meeting each other once a week. We have kissed on the first date and all, and it seemed to go fine. Then, 2 months later, he stopped talking to me. Out of the blue, at a point we went really good. It wasn't until 2 months after that, I found out that he was interested in someone else. Well, that other girl stopped talking to him and shortly he contacted me again. He admitted to everything and said that he wanted to be my friend but it wasn't the "I just want to be friends" speech. I told him that I don't want to be used as a rebound, and he didn't plan on doing that. We went on again to see each other weekly. Well, one night a couple of weeks after that, we got really hot (nothing happened, I didn't let it), and he got frustrated with me because he felt comfortable and wanted to touch me, but I was obviously not comfortable with it. So he told me he would take a physical and a mental step backward. He told me to step forward to him when I feel ready. This was just before finals back at our college campus. Well, it's summer now and we live an hour away from each other. We saw each other twice only being that all of a sudden, he stopped talking to me again!! The last time we spent together, it went well. It was chill, there was no tension, just two friends enjoying the time. We didn't kiss or anything. I did tell him he acted like an *** a time before (he was saying really rude comments the week before that, but I made jokes about it). We were laughing. We had a cute nonsense text conversation a couple of days after when he suddenly stopped responding. And then he only gives me "maybes" and eventually stopped returning anything. I have been the one to initiate every conversation for the past 3 weeks, and I haven't seen him for 2. What just happened? I told him his mistake last time was that he never told me there was someone else. So I think if there was someone else again, he would say something. The reason why I feel this way is because we are not in a relationship, so he is not bound to me. But I feel for this guy. I am a Gemini-Cancer cusp. Sorry this is long.
How do I get over a guy that suddenly stopped talking to me?
Yeah the exact thing happened to me one moment you guys become really attached and he makes you feel special for while and you look forward to his texts and whatnot. Hes really sweet, charming, sophisticated and a funny guy. Then time passes, he suddenly becomes more cold and distant and well…dry. Like he doesn't care about you at all, until he finally stops talking to you. And you know what hurts the worst? The thought that you actually cared about him than anything else and you trusted him even if it was for a while. I even asked him once if i could trust him and he just smiled warmly and said, “Of course, I'll love to make you happy.” I'm sorry to say this but eventually everyone that comes into you life can't always stay they just teach you a lesson and their gone. You gotta accept that and remember that not everyone can stay. People change I guess you gotta move on and focus on things that are actually worth your time. Don't forget him, just accept he had changed, maybe you never did anything and its just him. And thats okay you could try talking to him but if he shows he doesn't care about being with you, that's a clear sign its time to move on :) be strong I know it hurts but its just a bad day, not a bad life.
Why does every guy I like talking to stop talking to me?
Wait up.Stop.Now take it from someone who has been where you are. Many times over.I have been rejected and ignored. Men had stopped interacting with me without any apparent reason.And i thought, maybe it was because i am too ugly? Or because i am too clingy? Maybe too aggressive? Perhaps a bit too dramatic...And then i stumbled upon the golden truth: I should never have given a fuck to it and I should never have invested so much time in self hatred and i should never have tried to change myself... ... because people who are meant to stick with you, the real people, stick with you despite of your eccentricites. The rest are what they are TEMPORARY. You will meet a lot of those in your life. You will get rejected over and over again and you will reject many people too, for your own reasons. Doesnt mean that you should change yourself.Getting rejected is not your fault. If someone likes you just for your looks, then that isnt very promising. Yes, there are certain men who only acknowlegde you if you look a certain way...and those are the very men you should avoid. You cant let those bastards make you hate yourself.
What causes the guy friend to stop talking to you?
8Most will probably say, because they might be afraid of omg falling in love ohhh or something similar. Ill saySometimes you really are annoying as hell girls!Im not pointing at anyone, im not saying im perfect, i could be very wrong, you could be very right, maybe you arent annoying, maybe youre alright. What he h*ll do i know. But from my experience with talking to female friends that, shocking news, i really dont want to sleep with them even though theyre attractive and im not gay, they can truly be ridiculous.Recently i stopped talking to some girl because, well, she not only would stir the whole conversation to something uselessly sexual, saying how great she is, then jump to self deprication. I couldnt have a normal god damn conversation. Everytime “oh i am with this 30 year old and i think he might want to sleep with me and i want as well” or “oh i need cigarettes but im poor ;(((“ or, yeah you get the point.I really dont care, and nobody thats over 20 should ,in my opinion, about complaining all the god damn time about stuff.I stopped talking to some other girls because theyd just bring up from time to time “omgggg school sucks so badly, i hate it so much” or “omggg i have to meet my stupid mom cuz she forgot her keys”.I hate spoiled people, no matter the gender. Maybe your “guyfriends” stopped talking to you because guys dont really care about all the things girls care. We dont care that some chick talked behind our back, we dont care the clothes might not look “perfect” on us, we dont care about a lot. Some guys care, i dont care about those guys.There are lots of reasons why he might stop talking to you. Maybe he just forgot. Maybe hes busy. Maybe, yeah, maybe he might like you. Who the hell knows. Guys are as difficult to understand as everyone else is.
How should a guy tell another guy to stop talking to his girlfriend?
Has your girlfriend asked him to stop talking to her?Does she want him to stop talking to her?If she hasn’t or doesn’t, it’s not for you to intervene. You don’t own her and you don’t get to choose to whom she does or doesn’t speak.If she wants him to stop talking to her and she has expressed this to him, he’s not respecting her boundaries and she’s asked you to intervene, now’s the point at which you can step in on her behalf.“Look, my girlfriend has decided she no longer wishes to talk to you. That’s her choice and she has asked you to stop. You’re now disrespecting and abusing her boundaries by continuing so I’m asking you to stop. Take this beer back to your friends and tell them we’re just old friends catching up so you don’t have to go back with your tail between your legs. Cheers.”