Have you ever dated someone below your league?
Yes. Twice. I gave both of them a shot b/c I'm really not shallow to turn guys away immediately. I try to get to know them, and will give them a shot by dating them. In both cases, no. I didn't love them. And in both cases, no. It didn't work out. I realized that you NEED to be somewhat shallow when it comes to dating. Never date someone that you feel isn't up to your standards or ideals. Both cases, I wasn't even attracted to them and I dated them thinking that over time their personality would come into play and I'd find them more attractive because of their personalities. It never happened. In both cases I wound up breaking their hearts b/c they were so in love with me and I felt nothing. In my last relationship we were on two entirely different levels completely. Whenever I was out in public with him I KNEW people were looking at us going... "What is that girl doing with HIM?!" I know it sounds really conceited and shallow but it was the truth. I am a city girl. He was from small town. I was all about fashion, make up, name brands and always looking put together and cute. He would wear the same clothes with stains, rips, etc. People even told me... "what are you doing with him?" Even beyond the physical, on the mental level, I always felt above him. I am an avid reader, I am smart, and whenever he had to do public reading he would stumble like he had a 2nd grade reading level and he was so slow and uncoordinated, it just always got to me for some reason. I actually wound up having an emotional affair on my last boyfriend because at the end I was so unhappy, so miserable, and so tired of being a "mother figure" to him and I wound up leaving him for my current boyfriend who is SO my league and I've never been happier, more in love, more attracted to, or more compatible with anyone in my life. And it's really funny that people come here and preach "Oh we're all in the same league, the human league." Well I dare any of those people to go date someone who is so completely a polar opposite from them, someone so unattractive, and see if they would be happy.
My girlfriend is way out of my league?
I just started dating this girl who is way out of my league. She is incredibly beautiful, super fit, has a great personality, and has a lot going for her. She literally gets asked out by guys all the time but she always turns them down and for some reason she likes me. I don't understand why she likes me because I am fat, have bad acne and I have no job and only one friend. I spend all my time playing video games and she comes and hangs out with me after work and plays games with me... and does what I want to do. When we go out I can feel people staring at us. People never believe we are dating. How do I deal with this? What would you think if you saw an amazing girl like her holding hands with a boy like me out in public? Why do you think she even likes me?
Good public places to cuddle with your girlfriend?
uhmmm let me see the park the movies your parked car (dont try that while the car is moving) a restaurant standing outside your house or hers the zoo did i say the movies...
Dating a Snobby Girlfriend, Dating out of my league?
i have been with this girl for 3 months. she's cute. i normally do not date really pretty girls. yea, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. it is not just me dog, a lot males do check out my girlfriend. i get hella jealous bro. i feel guilty saying this, but i lied alot about my life to impress her about the type of cars i own, how many cars i got, where i live, how much money i make, the school i go to. it is not her fault. i will admit because she never said she cared about money. since she's cute, i automatically felt the need to impress her with money. As much I like her, because she reminds of my ex, personality-wise - funny, playful, etc. I do not like her. we only have had sex once. she seduced me the first time, we had sex. after that when i asked to do it again, she said no, she clearly looked disgusted. she acts sometimes like her talking to me or dating me is doing me a favor. she does not like me to be seen in public with me. she pokes fun at me for being 5 ft 2, that is the first thing she goes for her in argument, that i am barely a man. she is slowly beginning to figure out everything about my life is a lie. what should i do?
My son's little league coach has a currnet injunction/restraining order for harrassment and stalking?
We asked our little league committee to utilize public record copies of the details of our 8 y/o son's baseball coach's recent (4/20/090) restraining order placed against him for stalking and harrassing his girlfriend. The board said that conduct off of the field isn't justification to prevent someone from coaching as long as their behavior on the field is appropriate. We refused to allow our son to be coached by this man and requested our son be moved off of his team. When we refused to give in, we were told that if we didn't stay on his team, then our money would be refunded and our son would be suspended from the league. They did it. We are heartbroken. My son is in tears. We don't know what to do. We are desparate for help. In the records we legally obtained, it contains personal emails that he wrote to his g/f as admitted evidence. They were so very disturbing. He can not be in front of a 46 y/o grown woman within a city block; however, they feel comfortable placing this man in the immediate presence of seven and eight year old parents. Obviously, we feel so upset that these parents have no idea who is coaching their children, but the board that is supposed to ensure a healthy and safe environment read every page and said that they can't consider it unless he shows specific inappropriate behavior on the field. We had to tell our precious son tonight (after 8 weeks of tears and hell) trying to get the board to go see for themselves and get the records. They refused. He lives for this. I had to watch him in tears vomiting b/c he was so devesated. My husband and I are just exhausted and lost. Please help us with anything at all anyone thinks we should do.
I get jealous when my girlfriend wears tights in public?
Like honestly forget style, I think she should care more about how I feel. I've asked her not to and she's made a big deal about it. I'm not trying to be mean but from what I know when a girl wears tights they attract guys and I don't like it. I don't know why she thinks "being cute" is more important than how I feel
I lost a bet and my girlfriend wants me go barefoot in public for an entire day. Do I have to go along?
Yes, I agreed but I thought I wouldn't lose and she now wants to take me to the movies where the floors are always sticky cause people are spilling stuff. At least its dark, I guess?