My friend takes credit for EVERYTHING I do?
I had that kind of "friend" once. The thing with this kind of people is that they are not your friend and they only take advantage of you. Whenever you have a pair project again refuse to pair with them and stop showing them your work. If they ignore you just do kinda the same. Stop talking to them as much. This kind of people are not good to have around.
What does this mean if someone wants credit for everything?
what does it mean if someone is always hungry for credit? for an example, when I first met my boyfriend he would always brag about how much he helped his ex's meet their potential and how they still call him after they broke up with him for advice. He even brags about how much he has done for me and him mom... when in all actuallity we did for our selves.. he is very annoying with he acts like no one has a brain except him... he underminds my choices like he can only do well for me... I want a boyfriend not a daddy from him... if a wanted a dad I would look to a more experienced older man... he keeps saying that I will need him if I leave him... I love him and all, but I am very annoyed by his big head
What is the best way to handle someone taking credit for collaborative work?
This question demands a loaded answer with perspectives.I encounter many people who feel threatened or were made a jackass of, when they suddenly realize they have been played and they want to make sure they get their due - at the same time want to be goody two shoes. You cannot have the cake and eat it too. At least most times.Advice 1The corporate world is capable of creating this big illusion that people are doing a great job that is going to change the way the Earth rotates. Do not fall for that illusion. In smaller scheme of things, people try to take credit. In bigger scheme of things they lose.You should have been cautious from the start of the project. You should make sure you have a clean list of what you did, how you approached it, whether your approach was diligent and aiming for efficiency and you must make a good note of it.You must frequently update your bosses or whoever involved as to how things were achieved by you in the best way. That way, the situation in itself will not pop up.Note: That said, you should have really approached it in the best way. I assume we all know that we cannot advertise something that we haven't done.I disagree with people who advice others to take the high road, because it depends. If you are competing for a promotion and if you feel (going by facts) that you have done a great job, then go ahead and beat the drum. There is no self righteousness involved here. People who think others are petty doing this, would probably behave more petty if they were in the same situation. If your colleague behaves like this, then wait and watch how others are reacting. Some people know an attention grabber from a distance. If they are very impressed with him/her, you have to play one up to impress them i.e., beat the drum equally. If they are not very impressed with him/her, you have to look for chances where you can show them in a subtle manner that you have done the right thing. Chances exist where people evaluating this are smart enough to realize that you have a lot of integrity and someone is just a credit-grabber. Look for these signs first. Then you can decide if you want to be the beauty or the badass.If nothing works, go back to Advice 1 and evaluate perspective. Is this credit really worth stooping for?
How do you professionally handle a superior that constantly takes credit for his staff’s ideas and contributions, flat out claiming to have personally done the work someone else has done?
It’s not a good situation because if they are your boss they hold a lot, maybe all, of the cards. Also, there is a risk of hurting your relationship with your boss, so you have to be prepared for that possibility.That said, you could start documenting all your requests, or getting them in e-mail form. Make sure all your updates on what you’ve been assigned and what you have done are also communicated via e-mail. You want a pretty clear document trail of who did what.Look for opportunities to highlight what you did. This could be your annual performance review, which in most companies is viewed not just by your manager but also by HR or your manager’s boss. Or if you want to escalate, you can take it directly to your manager’s boss.A couple of other suggestions that have a lower risk of escalation but also less chance of working:Make sure you are a good team member yourself and always give credit where it is due, and hope your boss learns from your example.Wait for karma to take its course. In my experience, I find that managers who take too much credit for their employees’ contributions do so because they are not very competent themselves and need to hide behind their staff’s knowledge and work. Chances are, your manager’s superiors already know about this.
How do you deal with your boss constantly taking credit for your work?
First of all, don’t work for such a cheap manager. Ever. Yes, that might be too high price to be paid, but if you don’t believe in your own values, who else will?Now assuming you are not in a position to really do much about it, find a way to make the idea fly…really soar high. Work hard to get it favorably considered by the company. That will create two awesome opportunities for you - your manager will need you more then ever before because only you know the idea so well that he/she can’t do without your active participation for its successful completion. Secondly, if and when the idea eventually is a success, and your manager gets promoted, he/she is likely going to create a place for your own growth as well. Think about it — most people wait for a chance for anyone to believe in their ideas, and here your manager loved your idea so much that he is willing to call it his own! What better endorsement and recognition do you want? Consider it as a bakchanded compliment and rather than settling scores, find the sunshine in this opportunity…as they they, success is the sweetest revenge :)
My boyfriend takes credit for EVERYTHING.?
Anytime we do something together or I come up with an idea for something he always takes the credit for it. At first I didn't care, but it's just become sooo annoying. I've tried gently bringing the topic up with no luck. He gets mad and he calls me a liar. Just the other day we were talking about a nickname I gave one of our close friends, and he'd tried taking the credit. Both my friend and I pointed out that he was wrong, but he got all sarcastic saying we were lying. It's not so much that I want the credit, it's more along the lines that he calls me a liar over it. Any advice on how to handle this?
Wife takes credit for husband's accomplishments?
I know a woman who has very little employment history. Her husband is an executive in the finance industry and she constantly makes comments like "we struggled and had to work cashier jobs, fast food jobs, etc to make ends meet". She will also say "we bought this house, we made such and such money last year". These are all things her husband has done, not her (except the fast food thing). So, why does she constantly try to take credit for things her spouse has accomplished- while she is a housewife?
What is the word when someone takes credit for someone others actions?
When someone disavowed another's actions and christened it as their own, that someone was not only encroached upon another's rights but also poached from the benefit of another's actions. Poach: 8. to take without permission and use as one's own 2. transitive and intransitive verb encroach on something: to encroach on somebody's rights, territory, or sphere of operation in order to appropriate or remove another person or thing To stop this opportunist or troll from getting away with this one again would be another question. What I would do first is document to the person in charge by email, work order or scheduling the status of my plans of action as a progress report. For example: (Emailed to supervisor) 'As being a part of the science team, later today we are going to try my idea (I’m so excited) of seeing if temperature will make a major difference.' Some large companies have company guidelines from poaching innovation from individuals. Eating someone else’s lunch on their dime will generally have negative repercussions in the long run.
How come I do not have a credit rating score?
To make a long story short.. I HAVE NEVER had a credit card, I have never had a CAR LOAN. etc... I Have NO DEBT AT ALL. I OWE NOONE ANYTHING... I Never have charged anything. I have always saved my money and bought what I wanted to include cars, truck etc. I do not want a house so never bought one.. How come Now If I try to check My credit score I get a message saying there is no record of me? I cannot start my Social Security ON LINE as the SS office says they cannot verify who I am.. BUT I DO have tax returns, income records SS number etc. just NO RECORD of loans etc. so I have no score.. HOW CAN I GET A CREDIT SCORE TO PROVE I AM SOMEONE.. NOT A REPORT I CAN GET THAT I JUST CANNOT GET A SCORE...
Credit Card: Disputing A Charge. Is There Any Downside To Doing So ?
If you're disputing a charge because it was fraudulent, for items not received, or after you've tried working with the seller to fix the problem, dispute away! It's your money and you shouldn't suffer losses caused by others. However, if a pattern begins to appear, or your number and frequency of disputes are above average, you can expect an increased watch on your account. Credit disputes impact the credit card company's bottom line; they require customer service staff, and the bank isn't allowed to collect the amount owed while the dispute is under investigation. Banks charge the merchant a transaction fee when the charge is initially made at the store. When a charge is disputed, the bank has to perform a second transaction to get the money back (the bank may charge the merchant a 'chargeback' fee). If the investigation is decided in the merchant's favor, the bank has a third transaction to deposit the amount of the original charge. This third transaction is free, and the bank may have to refund the fee for the second transaction (the one where they took the money back from the merchant). The banks could care less if you are a "questionably honest person". Their only concern is collecting money from everyone involved, even if it means being cardholder-friendly so you'll keep using their card. If your credit card account is not a profit maker for the bank, they don't want you as a customer.