How do i stop fighting with my brother?!?
Me and my brother never stop fighting...we stopped for a week, but just recently, he punched me in the arm because i accidentally squished his fingers. it is already green and purple! stupid little things set him off, and then he sets me off!!! it's a never ending cycle!
How can I stop swearing, fighting and just be nice to my brother?
Get professional counseling to help you find out the root cause of your behavior towards your brother. You are to be praised for a good start here by recognizing and admitting you have a problem. That is a step in the right direction.If you are addicted to drugs or alcohol, also get help in getting drug and alcohol free. Both of these change people’s personalities for the worse resulting in hostility and violence. Getting rid of them may solve your problem.Perhaps you can arrange to set aside time once a week to go to a cafe or lunch with your brother, and the two if you just talk and really get to know each other? If that works out for you guys, maybe you can find a common interest or hobby you can share - just the two of you. Fishing? Bowling? Going to ball games? Card games? Dirt biking? Watching ball games on TV together? These are just a few possibilities.Remember, when your parents are gone, your brother is the only one you can count on to watch your back for you and vice versa.I am very pleased you want to try to work things out with your brother. I hope the two of you will develop an excellent relationship over time. Best wishes!
My Mother and elder brother keep fighting. What should I do to stop this?
Taking anyone side always would be injustice .You should first consider the reason why they are fighting and who ever is wrong you should sit and explain that person correctly where they are wrong.Also one thing you should explain both of them shouting and fighting does not leads to any conclusion.We can always sit and discuss problems without yelling. The most important thing here that we should keep in mind is “We should just not be a good speaker but also a good listener.”When we are explaining all the problems we have with the other person , we expect them to listen it all. It goes the other way too.May be their is something in us also that needs to be improved along with the other person.When we point one finger at others, three fingers points us. So we should first correct ourselves and then find faults in others.Also remember one thing in life “You want to live happily or you want to win”
My mum and older brother are always fighting! Help?
My brother is 18 years old, he's the favourite child (I'm 15 years old) so he's very spoilt. (and for those of you who say there's no such thing as a favourite child, my mum even said to my face that she preferred my brother to me.) Him and my mum are constantly fighting. My brother always goes out with his friends without telling mum where he is, and he just walks out the door, so mum doesn't even know he's gone. He treats her like crap and calls her names like B*tch. He takes money from her but doesn't deserve it. He spends at least $50-$100 of her money a week on junkfood and playstation games. He doesnt have a job, and failed his VCE (although he passed year 12). He never tells mum anything, and when mum asks him about his day, he'll just grunt and go into his room and play guitar. He has no respect for her. Every conversation he has with her is arguing and fighting. He says he's proud that he treats his mum like sh*t. I tell mum to stop giving him money. But she doesn't listen to me. I'm getting sick of all these arguments, and as a result, my mum ends up crying. And because she's crying it puts me in a bad mood she senses my bad mood and says that I'll turn out just like him and treat her like sh*t too. She creates these biased opinions on me and my actions... I just need someone to talk to. Dad doesn't do any parenting. He spends his days at work and outside doing housework. What do you suggest I do about my brother and mum? I'm really getting sick of it all and I don't know how longer my mother can take it. I'm almost about to suggest kicking him out of the house. He acts like a smart-**** with no shame at all. Just please... I need someone to talk to, some advice. The arguments are becoming longer and louder. Mum burnt dinner tonight, leaving me with an empty stomach for the night, because she was too busy arguing. Please. I just need some advice.
How do I get my toxic and rude big brother to stop swearing everyday?
First you ask about why he behaved with you on daily basis . When you converse with him present yourself with respect and care. And ask the reason of his misbehaviour with you. Ask him anything hurt him by you. Talk to him with patience. You converse in this manner as you convince him that you both are brothers and live with love and care and understanding .
How do I stop my brother from being a jerk?
I have experienced exactly the same with my younger brother. I confess that he not only was a jerk like yours, when 16 years old, but that he is still now in his 30's, although for the opposite reasons. He is still the smartest "ass" i know, but he hasn't been capable to deal with the effects of the infamous Murphy's law. Life always presents you the bill sooner or later. It will happen to your brother too. He will experience events where his alleged superiority won't be of much help to overcome them. He will need external support, ironically and possibly by those same people that he is despising right now; and it will not be easy for him to accept it. My brother didn't and he took a downhill path. Maybe i could have helped him, if i only wasn't living 6,000 miles away from him. I certainly didn't have the chance to try.My suggestion is to stay close to him. He is 16 and some angles of his character might get smoothed naturally in time. But the important thing, in my opinion, is that you and his beloved ones will be there when he will experience the first disappointments with himself. It is important that he will not start surrounding himself with bad companies, because when you feel superior, you look for challenges and bad people seem to be the closest thing to someone matching your superiority because they do things and behave in a way that contemplates submission of others.Try to find something he might be interested in, encourage him with the help of his friends to develop this interest and challenge him on the fact that he is not that superior on those fields; let him realize that he has to work hard to get to the level of others in those fields and if he feels bad about it, gently remind him that that's exactly the way his friends feel at school towards him. Try and let him understand that working your way up is more rewarding than sitting and waiting for your talent and your genes to work the magic for you.Best of luck.
How to get your older brother to stop bullying you?
Be sincere and bring this up with your parent. If she doesn't believe you then when he does leave a physical mark then you can always show it to your mom and prove it. It honestly sounds like your brother is really jerk. You really can't do much to him without getting to much back to you. If he is choking you then tell your mom, if she refuses to listen then you may need to consult with someone else because that can be serious. The key at school is not to worry too much what other people think but get a group a close friends that will back u up. It sounds like your brother is kind of messed up and probably should get help. I'm a little worried about his violent tendency and lies he says that might mean its a sign he is growing up to be a spouse abuser. When talking to your mom bring it up at a time where you two are alone and mention it he does it all the time. If she ignores it, bring it up again the same way he does it again and mention it. Do it every time and eventually your mom will realize you wouldn't be making it up and be pursuing it this hard.