How do I politely ask my neighbors to stop asking me for money , visiting all the time, and asking for rides?
My downstairs neighbors are nice enough people, but they come up all the time wanting to borrow money, (they do pay back SOMEtimes), always want me to drive them somewhere, (they have no car) and just knock on the door and sit down to visit any time of the day or night. They watch to see when I come and go and run to the car if I happen to try to leave when they want something. Ive tried telling them a couple of times, even thought of writing a letter, Ive told them a few times my car isn't good (it's on its last legs, truthfully), that I don't feel well ( not a lie), and they still persist. Im about at the end of my rope. There's no way to break my lease, and they aren't moving either. I am trying to be nice, but Im a private person and just do not want to "neighbor" like they do. Ive explained this to them, to no avail. I dont want to hurt their feelings or make them mad. Like I say, they're nice, but I feel are taking advantage, and/or being too dependent. They're in their 30s and should be capable of going about their life without me catering to them every day. They seem to be becoming more and more "familiar" and it's adding to my already limited stress threshhold. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thanks.
What's a polite way to tell your neighbors they are too loud?
Purchase a nice, upbeat greeting card. Nothing funny or corny.Write a gentle message inside. For example:" Hello, neighbor. Just wanted to mention that the noise level from your place sometimes reaches our door. We have no desire to interfere in your life, but would greatly appreciate it if you would consider toning the music down (or whatever it is that is bothering your household). Thanks. Have a good day.Signed ______.Do not mail the card. Place it in their mailbox or other location where they will find it, obviously hand delivered.This lets them know you wish this to be 'just between us' and gives them the opportunity to be more thoughtful of their neighbors without 'loosing face'. Don't ever mention the card to them in person unless they bring it up.
How do I ask my neighbours about something politely?
When I want to speak to one of my neighbors, I generally try to catch them outside. It’s neutral ground. Besides, it’s basic courtesy to exchange at least a greeting when you see each other. If you want to add a brief chat to that obligatory greeting, it’s easier and less confrontational than ringing their doorbell and accosting them in their home.On the rare occasions when I need to ring my neighbor’s doorbell, if I’m asking a favor, I also try to bring a small and insignificant gift. This is usually either a few lemons from our tree or some home-made cookies.
How do I politely ask my neighbour to stop slamming her doors?
I know…it is so annoying. Apartment or duplex, correct? I learned living in a downstairs apt. that people didn’t know the etiquette. You remove your shoes when you come home, etc. I think the best way is to write a short note and say, “Hi neighbor! I’m sure you don’t realize it but these walls are so thin, that when you close doors you have to do it differently than when you live in a house. Every sound reverberates and is exaggerated….” They should get the idea. Most people are reasonable. It’s a tough one, especially when you’ve got kids in the equation and they’re going in and out constantly. I’d rather live in a tiny house than a spacious apt. if I have to put up with that! Good wishes to you.
How can I politely ask my neighbor to quit talking outside on his phone?
What most of the other respondents don't realize is that one person's private property rights end at the property line. If he's annoying me, it becomes my business. I am likely older than the person that suggested you were annoyed because you are young, and I can tell you that unchallenged inconsiderate behavior fosters even more inconsiderate behavior. What I would do probably wouldn't work for you, but then I'm a certified martial arts instructor and I'd be able to defend myself. You're in the right. Good luck.
How would you word a note politely asking neighbors not to call the police due to noise from a birthday party?
The easiest thing to do would be invite them. But if you are not that friendly with them, send something like this: Hi! We are your neighbors at (the address). On (date), we will be having a party to celebrate our mom's birthday. To make it special, we have hired a live band. We are asking your forgiveness in advance for any inconvenience the noise level may cause you. We will try to keep it at a minimum, and promise that it will all be over by (state a time). If it truly becomes a problem for you, please let us know before contacting the authorities. We will make every effort to work something out. Thank you for your consideration. Sincerely, (your name) Don't bother with the cookies, if you don't know them well enough to invite them, they may not trust your food.
How do you politely ask your neighbour to reduce the volume of their TV?
Hey! Good morning.. hope you are having a great day.I have no intentions to disturb you but would you mind lowering the television volume a bit ? It would be a great help as i have to study/sleep/whatever.Thanks! Keep having the great time..
How do politely ask my neighbor to stop blasting rap music in the morning?
The fact that you are choosing to tell your neighbour about it before complaining to the board or your landlord is polite enough. talk to some of the people that live in your part of the complex to see if they are annoyed by it as well and then confront him together and just be like I'm sure you don't realise how loud that is but its just a bit disturbing this early in the morning. your right to be polite about it though, making an enemy of him will just make him want to do it more, I'm sure he probably doesn't realise how loud it is. move on to complaining if he doesn't comply and the reason why I say find more people first is then he'll see how good of a case you have if you were to complain. hope that helps
How can I politely tell my neighbor that his dog is too loud at night?
Obviously, your neighbour is not providing his dog with sufficient exercise. Is the dog tied up all day with nothing to do? This is a form of abuse. Does he take care of dog? Play, interact, socialize him? Having a dog requires work and lots of it. I wish more people did research BEFORE they got one. Tell him that you cannot sleep and offer to walk/run dog if you want. That would do so much good for everyone involved.