Feeling LONELY :( !!!!!!?
I'm not trying to be religious or anything but most of the people I've given advice to have told me that they stopped feeling the loneliness you'd described when they turned to God. But my advice to you is simple; stop hooking up. I know it's easier said than done but think of it this way; your self-esteem can be knocked down to rubble just because of a hook-up. I don't recommend you to have a boyfriend because, and this is true, if you're not happy single, then you won't be happy taken. I think that what you need is to get out more, on your own. It may feel pathetic and lonely, but after a while doing things on your own will make you realise that you don't need to depend on anyone else but yourself to secure your happiness. Take up a hobby. Be it painting, shooting guns at a shooting range, throwing pots, riding horses, etc. Take up something you know that'll make you happy. Do something that you know won't need more than just you to accomplish. It's all about what makes you happy. You should also try having an endorphin rush :-) Learn to play an instrument. I suggest a guitar, since it's one of the easiest instruments to play. I picked one up last month and I started shredding like Hendrix ;-D kidding. There are probably other things you can do but you'll probably find that out on your own.
How can I stop feeling so lonely all the time?
I am so sorry that you are feeling that way, lets help you by telling a good story? Nah, you have already had a better number of good things told.Listen up, you lucky one. Yes, you!Being lonely is the best feeling once you start enjoying it. You only feel lonely because looking at those people who are full of fun hanging out with friends? Might or might not be. Those are already struggling with loyalty, dishonesty among those who have failed them.Having mentioned rich, so what? Fuck ‘em. Learn your passion. You must be interested in something right? why dont you join a Community? Library? You will find the like minded. Its just that searching in a wrong place wont get you anywhere.Yeah, Genuine friends. I can’t guarentee genuinie one’s the friends whom i used to look upto, fought with the whole world for them are the one who will leave you sooner than you know.Sometimes, i feel its better to be alone basking in your own solitude and sense rather than beleiving or rather expecting someone to be with you.But, its always a lesson. Make friends from all communities, make mistakes. You dont know from where you'll get a gift or pain? But thats what life and experience is. Which will make you stronger.Hope it helps you. Cheers!
How do i stop feeling so lonely and lost?
why do i feel so lonely and lost? I am a 21year old girl. I have spent my life being perfect. I have just finished a degree and obtained a first class, have got offered scholarship in the subject i love, i've never had problems making friends; when i leave the house, there seems to a million faces to say hello to that i know, i have close friends too, i have a family that love me, and i know this will sound quite conceited and i don't intend it on being so but i am also quite pretty and guys ask me out a lot, although, i have never said yes because i was always too consumed with studies. My life from the outside seems perfect. I have so many people around me and yet i feel so alone. I feel lost within myself. Even when i talk to friends or family, i nod and smile, but in my head i feel like i am a million miles away, an island of my own making. these days it pains me to smile because i know it is lie. Nobody seems to know me or understand the real me anymore. And my biggest problem is that i don't even know myself anymore. Why do i feel so lonely? and how do i stop feeling this way? this sense of numbness is shattering me. Please help! Thanks :)
How do I stop feeling lonely and isolated?
I'm a very shy, timid student with 0 friends and nobody to talk to at home. Students at my school know my name and that I'm smart, but that's it. I like to refer to them as my classmates, people who I go to school with, not really "friends." The teacher said that we could work in groups on an assignment, so the other students chose their groups. Nobody( and I mean nobody) even ask me if I wanted to work with them. Nobody at all. It would be nice just to hear someone be kind enough to ask me and show that they kind of care, but nobody did. I felt very abandoned. If someone is sitting near me and then they suddenly go and sit somewhere else, it feels like there's a needle going through my heart. I don't want to feel abandoned by people. At lunchtime, the other students are sitting together socializing, and I'm just eating alone. I try my best to laugh and feel happy around people, but deep down, I'm really sad and feel empty inside. As you can probably tell already, I'm a young teenager. Is there a way I can stop feeling isolated and abandoned?
How can I stop feeling lonely in hostel?
I can very well understand your feelings as I too suffered from similar loneliness when I was pushed into a hostel years back. But I promise you hostel life will be awesome once you find out the real fun. First you should socialize and try to be friends with your hostel mates. Ultimately you will find that one friend who will be your partner in crime. If outing is allowed.. Just go to new places nearby…eat at different hotels..Hostel life will teach you more. It helps you to find more things about yourself. Cultivate your talents. Sing..dance and enjoy yourself. When you feel lonely and depressed never try to learn because in my case it worsens. Cheer and enlighten your mood by doing interesting things and then have a good study. Seeing any drama series like Big Bang or Friends can help you spend your time.DOnT worry dear.. YOuR hosTel LifE will RoCk sOon...
Why can't I stop feeling lonely?
Loneliness is addictive. It's this constant thought that you aren't being fulfilled. This longing for something, someone. This idea of how that particular entity will come along and everything will fall into place. We all have that longing, to hold someone's hand, to feel that warm feeling in our soul, which makes everything acceptable and life worth holding on to.Sometimes it depresses us, sudden pangs of sadness swallow our minds, leaving us drifting in endless thoughts of wishful thinking, the ifs and whatifs. It's an unending cycle. You know it. I know it. But doesn't really stop us from doing it. Because our mind tries to make us happy, keeping us absorbed in this thought process of how soon something will come along. Soon your wishes will come true. Soon your questions will be answered.But the thing is,those aren't answers that someone else is supposed to answer for you. You have the answer to your question, because only you can understand it. And trust me, we are alone in this world. But the thing is, everyone is. So you are neither better off nor worse than anyone else you may know. We are all troubled by the same thoughts in life.It's just that some people have better answers to their questions.So I would say, find your own answer. Your quest begins with you and ends with you alone. Only you can make yourself happy. Others can only help. It's your life. If you don't have a clue about what makes you happy, start thinking about it. It's never too late to ask the right questions.And just know that it's okay. And it will be okay too.
How to stop feeling lonely and depressed?
i have been feeling very lonely lately i feel ignored by my parents and none of my close friends have texted me back i even wrote a facebook status asking for advice and no one commented i just started school and i had been gone for a year and when i came back no one is talking to me i am overly stressed and becoming depressed..how do i stop feeling this and who do i talk to? i feel like crying this minute i have a therapist but it never helps i just want a boyfriend or a friend but nobody seems to see that im here..i feel invisible.. i used to like this one guy but now he has a gf... i was over him because i thought i could meet a nice guy at my school, but they all ignore me and act as if im not there i get picked last for everything at school who knows what rumors were going around while i was gone... im sorry to waste your time but i need someone..anyone... 2 great songs that describe how i feel are "i'm with you" by avril lavigne and 'Invisible" by Skylar grey thanks 4 ur help bye