How do i become more supportive of others!?!?
i recently noticed that i have the strange ability to make people feel insecure about themselves, even to the point where they don't have confidence in their own dreams... i feel bad about this, since i know it isn't right to make people doubt and question their competence. what can i do to have the opposite effect on others? i try to be supportive, encouraging, and to give direction when people are confused or wrong by saying things like: "great job," "keep up the great work," "i think you're doing very well," "let me know if you have questions," or "it's okay. now you know/we all make mistakes sometimes," but i still end up making them feel insecure...is it because i try to work for them instead of with them??
Confidence Comes From The Support Of Others?
Of course it does. Compliments, cuddles, conversation, loving, caring all give support, feeling supported makes you more likely to be supportive and therefore give yourself a feeling of wellbeing & confidence!
Is it normal to feel love some days and not others for spouse?
I have been with my spouse for three years. He is a wonderful loving supportive husband. The thing is some days I think he is the best thing ever, and on these days he usuallys looks his best, (wears nice clothes, good color shirt for his coloring etc., his hair is cut shorter showing less gray etc., then on other days when he does not look his best, he is so much less attractive to me and I don't feel the love as much. He also never gets tan in the summer and is sooo white, so he looks ghostly, he burns and does not tan. I know this is so shallow and I try so hard to overlook how I feel, but I can not help it, it is always there.... Are most relationships like this? Or do you always love your spouse day in and day out and find them attractive no matter what if they are the right one? I have tried to tell him what looks good & he does not want to change his lifestyle for me. Like dying his hair,why is it okay men would not want a woman w/ grey hair but woman can't want the same
Why do I feel ashamed of being happy?
you have probably been around people who havent been thouroughly supportive and have made you feel bad for being you and told you to go to bed or stop showing off or some other negative experience... dont be ashamed as being happy is the best feeling in the world..i think its others not you that need to be ashamed for not letting you be happy...take care marc