My friend is leaving... how do i deal with it?
That's really sad. It's always hard to have a good friend leave, especially if you've known them for such a long time. Try not to think of the bad part, think of the good part. It's not like she's going to another planet. =) You can still email her, send her a letter, talk on the phone. I have friends who live in Europe it's hard not to see them everyday. I haven't seen them for two years, but I still keep in touch by emailing them. Of course, don't try to get over it in a day or 2 because that's not good either. I've always heard that in order to accept things you might have to be sad for a while, and that's okay. But to not be sad for 2 year, just like I said, try to think of the good things like still keeping in touch and maybe visiting. Good luck! =)
How do you deal with your best friend leaving?
I'm in the military and I've made of a lot of new friends but my best friend just got orders and will be going to Japan for three years. I'm still waiting on orders and I know Ill be gettting them soon but the chances of Japan are a million in one. I know it sounds crazy that ive only known this person for 1 year of my life but this is for real like my best friend ever. Ive never been this close to someone, we talk about everything. I know with all the technology; facebook, skype, texting we can stay in touch but I'm just not sure how to deal with it. Its the first time ive had to do something like this.
How do you deal with your best friend leaving you for another friend, especially while you have just lost a loved one to cancer?
Too many things to grieve about at the same time.Best friends are often so only a part of our life. Then comes someone new.I'm sorry for your loss and can only suggest you to focus on yourself, recover from the loss of your dear one and let life take you new friends. The one you lost in this hard moment of your life was probably not good enough to be considered “best”.
How do I deal with my best friend leaving me on read?
So I moved 10 hours away from my best friend this August, but still stayed in contact with/texted with her. Recently, I sent her something I found funny. She read it but didn t reply so I just assumed she didn t have a chance to text back. Fast forward two weeks, and I ve sent other assorted messages without bringing up the whole left-on-read thing and she still hasn t replied. I m not sure how to handle the whole situation since I can t see her face-to-face but I still want to maintain the friendship.
How can I deal with my best friend leaving for college?
I'm still in high school, a junior to be exact. But a few years ago I was moving from my hometown and left my close friend there. I was worried about how things would go but I think the key is just keeping in touch. We talked at LEAST once a week on the phone. We would send each other pictures, write each other letters and draw silly stuff. When you're on the same page with somebody, like feeling the same and both wanting to keep in contact then things are made so much easier because that's what a friendship takes 2 people..not one or one and a half. Another thing is be open to each other meeting new people. Be happy for her when she meets new friends but don't feel jealous or upset if she starts to get close with other people. That doesn't mean she's forgetting you, so don't take it to the heart because she's probably always going to have a place for you. My friend took it to the heart and it caused a huge thing to come, to the point where she started to act different and was so jealous and angry. We're rebuilding our friendship now and its been difficult to get close again but its doable if we both stay on the same page. The best thing you can do now is just talk to her. Tell her how you feel and let her know how you'll miss her. Make her a card and write her a note, telling her everything you want her to know like some of the things you'll never forget, how much of a friend she is to you, and everything like that. Spend as much time as you can with her and take lots of pictures. Don't worry. Don't worry about her. Because she's going to be fine and will be your friend even when she's gone. Don't worry about yourself. You just keep busy with things and try to hang out with other friends, you'll do alright. Things will work out, you'll see! :) Hope I helped and good luck to the both of you!
How do you deal with leaving friends temporarily?
It depends if they're leaving me or I'm leaving them. Sometimes there is no healthy way to deal with it and honestly I can get really jealous and depressed. Although it's temporary you don't always know how long you're going to be apart and it sucks. Something I find really helpful is to surround myself with other people. You're not replacing them you're growing as a person. We're all unique individuals and cannot be replaced but to make the pain of them leaving hurt less I'd try to distract myself by being silly and having fun. I'd do my best to stay away from anything potentially harmful because at the end of the day I want to feel better not worse. Watch funny videos, programmes or movies, eat your favourite food, sing your favourite songs and more. You can always contact them if they mean that much to you.
My best friend is leaving for the army what next?
Cody, I have been in the U.S. Marines for 5 years, and you can believe me when I say it's not going to be easy. You should write him a lot of letters when he's in Boot Camp. After that you should be able to see him when he takes leave, and for the Holidays. Try to keep in contact over the internet. A good friendship should never be separated by miles. I still have close contact with my best friends from home. I'm in Afghanistan right now, but here I am helping you out hehehe. Just keep in contact with him, who knows you may one day find yourself next to him fighting the Taliban. -Matt
Why do we leave friends to deal with their conditions be it good or bad?
A lot of things have been running through my mind , maybe I have started to understand the meaning of a lot of things , or it could be that I am dealing through it myself or it could be that I have been watching people suffer through this for a long time .A wise man once said “TALK !!” But , apparently people these days do not seem to talk their heart out neither with friends nor with family members just because they are being afraid of being judged by them or may be the anxiety that they wont understand .Talking about things , sharing the darkest secrets should do wonders to your mental health as well as physical health ultimately .But everybody knows all the bull I am talking here but here is the irony “ NOBODY TALKS “ There are no clear reasons to as why people are afraid of sharing there feelings with the ones who matter to them instead they prefer sharing them to strangers who know nothing about the whereabouts of the situation may be they fear judgement or they do not find words to articulate their feelings to their loved ones.We do not bother much about the people around us and let them suffer the way they are but we expect that the similar situations come to us there should be a bunch of people sympathizing and empathizing us . We are totally into a business of “ Dont Give and Take more “ .So my advice to the people facing these kind of situations is that at least TALK to the people around you . You never know when it gets too late and you wot even see their face again . Do not expect immediate results out of everything you do , but yes this might help you in making things a little less burdened on your heart . The thing is you may not find the solution to each of your problem but you will fell relieved and half of your problem will get solved as it is . But here is a catch : BE BRUTALLY HONEST . Here people make a mistake as they only tell people the things they feel are good to share and obviously they make it a little fabricated , this instead of helping you can make a fool out of you .Listen to the people the way they want to tell you , let them decide how to move forward , don’t put unnecessary advice's on their minds , they are already suffering don’t wait for them to come to you instead take a step and listen to them .Do Good Karma and you will achieve good .Thanks !!!Hope you Help :)