What do guys “never” tell girls?
We also get upset sometimes (not too often) and most of time we are just like “koi ni chohd” but sometimes we really want you to say at least a sorry.We are emotional too but our tolerance level is much higher.Don’t try to check our whatsApp photos, It will always contain so many non-veg pictures.Unlike you, we can’t share so many things about you with our friends. Because we know that they will use those things to make fun of us.Too much make up can be a turn off thing (it applies for me). Your soft lips especially with light shades lipstick can be too much seducing.We respect your individuality and freedom. But If you give someone more attention especially in front of us. Then really it makes us angry a bit.Please don’t ruin our match. We love sports.Don’t say veg biryani a biryani. I hate to say it biryani without meat. You must say it just pulao or rice.We have so many problems to look after, So we expect you to not make it more difficult with senseless arguments and fights.Never assume anything, Please ask us, We will tell you honestly.Yes we stalk your profile regularly on social networking sites.We even save some pictures of you for forever. Even we makes double back up in case of any data lost.You can’t even imagine our loyalty.We even ignore some hot girls around us in front of you. Too avoid jealousy.If we say we care about you. Then we means it. Otherwise we hate to agree on everything.We loves to be sorted in our life and sometimes (not too much) expect the same from you.Yes we do watch porn.We don’t promise everything but we always care about your happiness.I would like to share one thing on the behalf of my friend. His girlfriend broke with him after 10 months by just saying “I don’t feel that way now”. So be sure before committing to us.Don’t hurt us to the extent at which we don’t even want to see your face. Yes of course, we can be so rude.Last One: It can be easy for you to move on. But for me It would be the most difficult thing because I can’t even share my pain with anyone. But If you really want to move on then please let me know. I promise you that I will never see your face again.
BF looking at pics of women online…NEED HELP - Guys (& Girls) advice…PLZ.?
Well , in a nutshell yes , you are over reacting , but it would not be fair just to say that as you have a right to be in your own way , a little bit. anyways , what he is doing is natural and harmless really , unless he actually promised to not do that stuff...but that would be harsh to make him promise that if you know its in his nature. nothing in a standard relationship says you cant look up megan fox or even pornography....yes you cant cheat , but watching porn isnt cheating , hell some couples LOVE to watch porn together. BUT this is your personal taste , maybe not many men can be like you , but it is just a compatibility thing. try to learn to be ok with it , and realize almost all men do it and it wont harm u or your relationship. but WHY DOES HE DO IT? several reasons . for one , when he is in the mood , your not always available so he will turn to porn and for most humans you cant always be available for him. also , no matter how good looking you are....you cant have every look , so he can sample any women he wants online to nourish his wide variety in cravings. if he wants bigger boobs , smaller boobs , naughty girl you name it...also it sometimes is just fun to watch pornographic things alone since its so easy and you dont have to put more effort into your lover. that is kinda lazy but its not bad. Lastly , do not care freak out about this , and think it out logically...and even , casually and gently ask him , why do you do it? comfort him that your not upset , but are just curios. do NOT make him feel like he is doing something bad , cause he isnt and it will make him less open to you and hide the truth and other issues......you ARE good , he does desire you and love you. porno is nothing compared to the way he loves you , he doesnt have feelings for them/it. he can enjoy both and you both can be happy.
What should I do if a girl I like talks to other guys?
Alright man.I am going to break it down for you a couple of ways. All intended to help you, I promise.Girls will always talk to other guys. Will she do something with them if she likes you and you make her feel special. probably not.So, the more you develop a relationship with her the more she will begin to focus only on you (in the doing something with other guys sense…you will be the only one).However, you have to be a man about it. If you are not making her feel like a woman and being the leader. You will not gain her respect, especially if she is the type who talks to other guys and has guy friends in general.So what does that mean?It means that you have to be confident in everything you do. Be assertive not aggressive.Don’t be apologetic when you do something but at the same time don’t be offensive.Be brave and bold when you make moves on her. That means be smooth but don’t hesitate.When you make eye contact with her, be calm but take the time to really look at her. Make her feel special.When you take her on a date (which will happen all the time because you are a confident man who deserves it!) hold her hand. without hesitation just go for it when you get out of the car or whatever. When you feel it do it!Don’t be afraid to validate her. If there is something she says that you didn’t find funny or didn’t like. Let her know, but don’t insult her. For example, if she talked about cheap beer and how she is so in the mood and you didn’t agree with it. Tell her “cheap beer is not my thing tonight…looks like we are going to have to get a divorce (cheeky smiley face here)”. Same thing for the things she says or does that you like. Let her know she passed your mark in a good way.Finally, don’t break your personal rules for her. Go out of your way to do nice things that she likes but not something you don’t agree with.If you follow these steps. You will maintain sanity in a relationship, get her to be closer and more focused on you. And get her to respect you, and ultimately that will make you enjoy her more.Hope this helps!
How come only creepy guys are attracted to me?
i'm not trying to act coinceted? ): what i consider creepy. - (first of all, what i mentioned above) -like today, me and my friend were at the beach. we sat down under a pavillion and these like 40-year old guys were asking us questions and then told us to 'come hang out with them soon' -__- that's a lil creepy for me. -a guy that at first seemed fine, so i talked to him for a little bit. but then after a while i didn't really like him, so i told him that, nicely, but clearly. he still texts & trys to talk and gets mad when i dont answer him, and stares at me in school... :/ -those like 20 year old who whistle & stuff to me & my friends from their car when we're walking down the road... -a guy who says he loves me a day after i meet him. i guess it's just that the unusual kind of scary behavior creeps me out. but how is that coinceted? & im not saying I'M normal either? just saying i want a decent guy who doesnt do these ^^ things.
Please can you give me your opinion on this?
i have been on a couple of date with this girl and they have gone really well although so far the furthest we have been is kissing on the cheek. we have another one planned tomorow. i was talking with her today and she told me she was talking to her friend about me today. i asked what she said and she said it was good but if i want to know ask her friend. i asked her friend and she said that she told her that i am a funny guy who is in love with her. to me that makes me sound like a creep or something. what do you think about this?
GUYS - 5 reasons you are not chivalrous anymore?
Well observed. People; men and women, have lost manners and chivalry. It's a very sad part of modern living. So, I ask you this.... will you set the tone? People are mirrors, and if you stay happy and well mannered, people will perhaps respond in kind. It works for me most of the time. xxxx