How to stop liking a girl who's your friend?
If you really like this girl, but there is no way you two can start a relationship, then I'm afraid there really is no easy way out. I've had more than a few girls who I have liked, but we couldn't be together for various reasons. Don't think about her in a romantic light, because you will just prolong the feelings of attraction, but it's ok for you two to still spend a lot of time together if you feel you can handle it.The most important thing to remember is that most people fall in "love" very easily the first few times, and it WILL eventually pass. Don't sacrifice your friendship to get rid of the feelings, but don't let them run rampant either. It IS possible to stop liking someone romantically, but it takes time.
Liking my close female friend and how to go about it?
Feelings suck, and as a guy i'm doing my best to ignore them and just move on to greener pastures. She's my only close friend that's a girl right now and I don't wanna lose that, but i'm used to girls treating me like a sexual guy--even if they arent interested. Our friendship began with that kind of spark that normally leads to things y'know? But she had a bf at the time so nothing ever came of it--i think due to effort on both our parts. It was obvious we had a thing for each other and she was so sweet to me, would give me hugs, say she missed me, call other guys my name on accident, all that good stuff. She's single now, but I'm so far in the friend zone that she won't even hug me or thinks its "gross" or "awkward" when we touch--these words have come out of her mouth! I laugh it off but honestly, what goes through a girl's mind to make her act towards a guy like that--when she used to act so sweet and flirtatious?? Yea it's my fault for her losing interest, but she only treats ME like this--she's her normal, flirtatious, ditzy, touchy-feely self with all of the rest of her guy friends, most of which are mutual friends whom she has no interest in AT ALL. Why is she treating me so differently, like she'll get herpes if she touches me even just a little. It really pisses me off to the point where I stop talking to her to gain my respect back but then she starts blowing me up wondering what i'm doing, etc. I dont think she's trying to make me jealous, but rather wants to be my friend but is trying to not see me in that light since nothing ever happened. Am i right? Do girls do this?? Or is this just one big stupid game. I need insight.
Why my best (female) friend is so angry and hurt with me for no reason? Come on, it's not that long?
Me and this girl are best friends and do everything together. I had some feelings for her, i think she kinda liked me too because she would get jealous when i flirt with other girls. Our friends tease us about being a couple. Any who she's kinda seeing someone now but doesn't seem too into him..she wont label them as a relationship and when i ask about em she goes "meh..he's alright". I made a joke and said "you should date me instead"..she goes "date you? haha, that would be weird". Anyways, im so very jealous, but I don't show it the least bit..I act happy for her. Recently she's been acting like she hates me..like HATE..when I come around she looks like she wants to punch me haha. She acts like I did her so wrong, but ive done nothing at all. She also seems really depressed. All her anger is directed towards me..every little thing I do seems to piss her off, shes fine with her other friends. I ask her whats wrong, why you taking jabs at me, why you so mad at me, etc..she goes "im nott im just tired' or "im not I just have stuff going on"..even though its so obvious its only towards me. She has a look of sadness/hate in her eyes when she looks at me I just see it, im her best friend and I can read her so well. When I tell her she's pissing me off and is being unfair she just shakes her head looks like she's about to cry? She won't talk to me. What do you think it is? There's no getting through to her she's so stubborn and won't tell me
I have started developing feelings for my female friend. How do I deal with it, without ruining my friendship?
If you have feelings for your good friend you have to tell her – with words! Consider that trying to merely show her your love is the worst thing you can do because probably she won’t get it. She won’t interpret your attention as a sign of love. That’s why being extremely nice to her – buying her presents, taking her out to dinner, writing songs for her – won’t show her anything but that you’re a friend. Maybe a great one, but still just a friend. Moreover, every step you take towards her without expressing enough sexuality, will bring you closer to the friend zone. This is how you don’t end up in the friend zone in the first place: Look her in the eyes when you talk to her – Don’t shy away!Touch her (when appropriate)Be honest! If you tell her what you really think there is no chance you enter the friend zone.Here is an example of what you could say to her:“I’ve been feeling attracted to you for the last few months. You’re my best friend and you’re the most amazing person I’ve ever met. I just wanted to tell you how I feel, so please don’t feel awkward about this. Don’t get me wrong – I enjoy our friendship and I hope nothing is going to change to the negative. I don’t want to pressure you. I’d be incredibly happy if you felt something for me too. But if not, I hope everything is going to stay the way it is now. I just wanted you to know how I feel about you.”The best thing you could say is, as always, the truth. Remember: Vulnerability and honesty is sexy. Regarding her rejecting you:Don't be pushy and needy. Adopt the mindset Fuck Yes or No. Like Mark Manson wrote in his great blog post:"Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you?"And he's completely right. Because you can't attract every single woman. It's impossible. So don't lose your time with dating around women who are not 100% interested in you. Or even worse - don't lose your time trying to convince a certain woman to be with you. If she's not interested in you, it's her loss. ;)Now, your “job” is done, you can’t force anyone to fall in love with you. You did all you could do. All the best!This answer contains parts of a blog post I've written. Check the whole post for other tips here: How to Tell Your Best Friend You're In Love With Her
Do guys feel something when they lose a female friend?
we are college students i don't know, maybe i'm sexist but it seems like guys don't care if they lose a friend. i made a close guy friend during summer and we been close friend and stuff. but i started liking him so i confessed. and he said he doesn't have the same feeling but he still wants to be friend and all. he tried contacting me saying let's hangout. but i feel bad so i said go hang out with your other friends... he has lot of girl friends, and i guess i didn't mean anything to him. we clicked and we got close so fast and it hurts me to lose him. but i'm doing this for him so i can let go and he can be free. but it seems like he doesn't really care anymore after i said no... i know guys have feelings but when u have lots of friend, losing one friend doesn't mean anything... he's not a jerk type of person i just wish that our memories are precious to him as i treasure them
How do I tell if an affectionate female friend likes me?
Back Story: Knew this chick since I was in the 7th grade Started liking her last year Told her I liked her and she didn't have same feelings Told her I'd stop talking to her to get over feelings We start back talking and I eventually catch feelings for her again I tell her, again, but decide to not remove myself from her again She tells me that before I left last year she was in the beginning stages of "liking" me, but me going cold turkey stopped it I felt like an idiot Current Story: She has started giving me more attention Comes to pick me up out of the blue We hang out and I end up spending the night(no sex) We hang out again the next day She wants to buy me stuff(food and such) She tells her mom she doesn't have any money I say I don't want her buying me stuff period and especially if she doesn't have money She says she has money and to not tell her to not buy me stuff She is affectionate and such but has always been like that I think she's awesome and I really like her, but I'm not sure how to tell if she likes me or not. I'm trying to "go with the flow" and stuff, but I also don't want to flow my stupid self right past an opportunity.
How to get over being jealous of my boyfriend's female friend?
Basically, my boyfriend of a year has had this female friend for four years. Four years ago, he had a bit of a crush on her. They don't see each other as much anymore, but she'll come over to his house randomly, and they'll hang out. When he asked her out four years ago, she told him, "Not to feel bad because all of her guy friends want to go out with her, but she has to reject them." She wanted to take him out to eat, just the two of them. He told me about it, and I told him I don't want him going out anywhere with her because that's too much like a date and it's pushing the limit for me. She's mainly just a family friend, so she'll go over to his house and visit, and it's not really something he can control. When I told him I felt like she had no respect for the relationship, he agreed and told me that he's not going to let her do anything, his feelings for her are long gone and he loves me too much. I trust my boyfriend very much, it's her I don't trust. Last night we got into a really bad argument, and I kept talking abotu her and how much I don't like her, and he started defending her. "She's my friend, they don't say bad things about you, why do you say bad things about them?" He told me he was sorry, that he wasn't taking her side and he will always put me before anyone else(excluding family.) I get so jealous. I can't stop obsessing over it. I don't even want her to be friends with this girl, I feel like they're closer than we are, that she's better than me and I hate feeling like that. I know he loves me but I just can't stop being jealous over it. She's never done anything to me personally, and while there are things I don't want her doing with my man, I know it's not right of me to constantly talk bad abotu her. I don't know. I just want to stop being jealous. Please help.
Does anyone know a song about two friends liking the same guy or a girl liking her best friend's boyfriend?
ma soeur - its a french song skater boy-Avril Lavigne or Cascada the boy is mine- Brady&Monica when it was me: Paula Deande you should have lied -stephanie mcintosh everytime you lie- demi lovato I Gotta' Get Through This- Daniel Bedingfield more like her-miranda lambert