Am I entitled to any of my Father's ashes?
My Father died on Aug 25, 2008. I am in Ontario, Canada. My Step-Mother knows I want some ashes and have been asking off and on for 2 years. I have recently heard rumors that she intends to open them on a cruise (she would have taken with him) and spread them. I'm not asking for the whole bunch or even half. Just enough to fill a vial that I can wear or keep for sentimental reasons. He is my Father and I feel I have the right to have some! However I don't know. Am I legally entitled to have any in Ontario, Canada?
My mother took away my car, its under her name, but i just bought new tires for it and a sound system, what should i do?
Hello! I am a 20 year old full time college student with a part time job. Recently my mother decided to take my car away after a friend dropped me off at home late with a couple alcoholic drinks. I understand minors in possession are wrong, but i was not driving. I have just put 700$ worth of new tires and a spare rim on the car as well as a new radio and speakers installed. the car is legally under her name but my God parents are the people who put a down payment in order for me to first get the car. along with all this money I m not getting back, She claimed me on her income tax and got a significantly larger amount of money for me being a full time student. With this extra money, she went out and bought herself a preowned truck. I have only been living with my mother again from mid January to april 4th 2018. before hand i was staying with my god parents after coming home from university in early 2017. What should i do? is there anything i can do? I am hoping to finish this semester off and keep my job but things aren t looking so great right now because i am now homeless. send advice my way!
How does a Muslim wife feel when her husband comes home with a new wife? They will be staying in the same house. The wife will likely have to move out of the master bedroom to make way for the junior wife.
It is absolutely an immoral phenomenon, but…This question refers to the correctness and validity of polygamy for men. If we accept that the polygamy is allowable for men (and not for women), we can answer to the so called wife that her husband has acted according to his and her religion. Thus, following Islamic doctrines, you, as a man, can have four wives, but women can just have one husband. The holy Qur’an states:وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ ۖ“If you fear that you may not deal justly with the orphans, then marry [other] women that you like, two, three, or four…”سورة النساء/3But if the so called wife does not follow Islamic doctrines, she can refer to the law. In lots of countries, you have to follow monogamy. So she can start divorce proceedings.Polygamy for men is not specifically an Islamic rule. The prophet Ibrahim (pbuh) had two wives. The prophet Jacob (pbuh) had more than one wife. So it is a paraIslamic question. Thus, even Jews and Christians should answer the question.We have to consider this fact that according to the true religion of Islam, for men marrying more than one wife at the same time is under some conditions. One of which is that he must be fair to his wives. If he cannot be fair, he must marry to just one wife. The holy Qur’an states:فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا“… But if you fear that you may not treat them fairly, then [marry only] one, or [marry from among] your slave-women. That makes it likelier that you will not be unfair.”سورة النساء/3On the other hand, if a Muslim wife stipulates at the marriage ceremony that her husband must not marry another wife, he could not get married to another female.I should mention that it is absolutely immoral to bring another sexual partner home, even if that action was not against one’s faith. Islamic rules do not confine to jurisprudential ones. All Islamic rules do correspond with moral codes.
Husband charges rent from wife!!!! Have you heared this befor?
The house is owned by the mother in law, living in the same house. I married my husband almost a year ago - he is insisting on me paying rent to him - not just living costs- rent and grocery bills (we split 50/50 ) on top. I pretty much pay all my bills myself (clothing, car, contracts i had prior) Am I Brainwashed or do you think - this behaviour is normal ? Btw. I have a Teenage Son brought into the Marriage.
When a Muslim woman's husband dies, what happens to their children?
I will tell you about my aunt. She was married off at a rather early age because our family was much more conservative back then. In the next few years, she gave birth to a daughter and a son.She was basically living the life of a normal house wife in another city. Then one night, some robbers broke into their house. They killed my uncle and took away some valuables.After that incident, my aunt came back and started living here at my grand father’s house. She was given full financial and emotional support by rest of the family. It took us a few years to get used to the new kids. But eventually, they also “assimilated”.After a few months, my aunt announced that she wanted to resume her studies. So, she was provided the necessary finances from my uncles (her brothers). Thus she managed to become a lawyer. The picture below is not of hers but this is how female lawyers dress in Pakistan.These days she is living in a separate home which she built with her own income. She did remarry and has another daughter from her second husband.This may not be what happens in every case but I think this story will give you a good enough idea.
If my aunt get a mortgage and her name & my name is on the deed, when she passed away what about my credit?
Is your aunt really going to get a mortgage or is she really going to co-sign for you? That makes a difference. The mortgage documents and the deed documents are completely separate. If you are on the deed, but not on the mortgage, then you have no obligation to pay the mortgage, but you risk losing the home to foreclosure. If you are on the mortgage but not on the deed, you are obligated to pay the mortgage but you have no rights to the property. So, lenders require the mortgagee and the owners be on the loan and deed documents to limit legal issues. All three of you will probably have to meet the lenders credit requirements. If all three of you are on the mortgage documents, the all three profiles will be affected the same way (late payments, foreclosure, etc). However, if you can't meet those requirements, your aunt can take out the mortgage in her name alone and the deed will be recorded as she being the sole owner. So if she dies, you lose the home unless you can qualify for a refi and take over the home. The lender isn't going to care WHO actually makes the payments, as long as the payments are made. If all of you can be on the deed, I strongly suggest the deed be recorded as Joint Tenants with Right of Survivorship. That allows the deceased's ownership to be passed to the survivors without going through probate (or needed to be in a will). Joint Tenants in Common means your share of the home is completely separate from other owners. If you die, your share goes to your heirs, not the other owners (unless they are also your heirs). You can sell your share to anyone without the other owner's knowledge or permission.
How do I handle a rude unprofessional teacher?
Ok here's the deal. My son has ADHD. Now he is normally on medicine but we had to miss an appointment because my husband's aunt passed away. When he is off the meds sometimes he can be talkative and unfocused. So one day I get a letter from the teacher saying stuff like "Has he ran out of medicine?", "I can tell he doesn't have any because he was very talkative today". I write back saying how we had to miss the appointment because of death and that when we tried to reschedule the earliest date they had was about 3 weeks away. She writes back the next day being very rude. Saying things like "I don't think you are trying as hard as you say you are", "You NEED to try to schedule his appointments 2 weeks before he runs out", "You knew in advance that he needs this" etc etc etc. This tbh PISSED us off! Next us and her agree to a conference date and a few days later she says she can't do it then (which was a day SHE picked). Then today, I go to pick him up for a dr's appointment (for ADHD where I had to sit there 3 hours hoping he would have time to see me as a sit in IF he had a break) and she sends her assistant to me with him and his PEP (which I thought you are supposed to review with a parent) saying I needed to sign it. I ask the assistant how was he she says "Oh just being him" ok 1st-A child doesn't HAVE to be on meds if he has ADHD. It is a choice. It seems like she just wants her job to be easier. We deal with him just fine because it wears off by the time he gets home and on weekends and the summer we don't give it to him. I refuse to believe that other kids who don't even have any kind of problem don't act up in school. So telling me how I NEED to get meds is BS. 2-Can't a teacher get in trouble for not reviewing a PEP with the parent? 3-When I go to pick him up and he hasn't had the best day and I ask How was he, they say "Oh just being him". What the F#$* is that supposed to mean? So because that day he wasn't on his best behavior he was being "him", basically saying he's a bad child?!?! What can I do? It's like she's avoiding talking with us after her rude letter. I want to talk to the principal but she is one of those who believes her teachers first so I don't know how far I'll get with her. I would LOVE some other teachers/principal's ideas on this if possible.