I don't like my step dad.?
I strongly dislike my step dad for many reasons. I am 13 now and my mom and dad were together for 16 years. My dad was in the army for 12. I was 8 when my mom got married again and I was 7 when my parents got divorced. My dad was drunk one night and had an afair with my mom. Then my mom wanted to surprise him on his army trip and she walked in. They got divorced shortly after. My mom got most of my dads stuff and he moved in the same town as my grandparents. My dad got married with the lady he had sex with that one night. My new step mom was one of the people you might call a witch. Eighteen times she stole our stuff and left us living with grandparents. My dad still kept on comeing back to her. One night she was cussing me out and slapped me. That was the night my dad left her. That's my dads story. My mom got married with this guy not one of my siblings liked (older brother and little sister in the middle child). He is from Arkansas and left his kids because he was broke and wanted to live off my moms job which is pretty comfortable living style. My brother got into drugs and alcohol soon after my parents divorce. He has takin away from us 4 times. Me and my brother are the bestest friends in the world. It hurt very bad to see him get arrested. I was getting very depressed because my step dad yelled at me a lot and I had low self esteem. Everytime I tried talking to my mom about how I don't like him. She made me tell him to his face what I think of him. Idomtknowwhattodo
I don't like my stepdad?
When I was twelve, my dad commuted suicide while I was at school. Then a year later, my mom remarried another guy. I don't like him very much, but I don't say anything cause I want my mom to be happy. He's very passive aggressive and it hurts my feelings. I don't know what to do. I can't just let him in my life like that I barely had time to get over my dad. I hate the idea of relacing my dad.. I just wish I was old enough to move away. Any advice?
I Don't Like My Stepdad?
When I was 14, my dad died due to drunk-driving, and it was the toughtest thing I had to go through. It had been barely over a year since my dad died when my mom got married to my stepdad. I was happy for her, but I was just starting to get better when she told me that she was getting married. It was the worst move-in possible, because my stepbrothers and I didn't get along at all, but after getting settled in, I decided that I was just gonna ride this out until I left. So I started taking a lot of honors and AP classes, and I've been making really good grades (top 10 percent of my class), so I can go to a really good college and leave everything behind. My stepdad, however, won't leave me alone. He's always tells me that I'm being disrespecful by not "bonding" with the family, even though my stepbrothers and I get along fine now. He also gets angry when I don't talk to him and just wanna be alone, because I don't want a new dad or new siblings (I used to be an only child). He says that I have no respect for anybody in the house, even though I stay out of everyone's way because I'm just trying to get myself out of here and go to a good college, so I can finally start my life. We've got into fights before, and he has threatned to hit me. I wanna beat the sh*t outta him everytime I think about our fights, but I know that's wrong, so that's why I just wanna leave. I'm 17 years old now, which means all of this happened in 3 years: from my dad's death, to me in my senior year with a stepdad I don't get along with. All I wanna do now is just go to college, start my own life, and leave my stepfamily behind. I love my mom, and I won't abandon her, but I can't imagine myself even coming back for the holidays, because I don't wanna see my stepdad or stepfamily again. Is it wrong that I feel this way?
I hate my step dad. What should I do?
Short answer: There's nothing you can do.Long answer: Dealing with parents can be extremely hard. Personally, I lost my father two years ago and my mom almost instantly (two months later) met another man online. My father died in April, my mother met my stepdad in late May, and he lived with us by September. My mother abandoned me for two months with my brother to go stay with my stepdad in Arizona, while I was still grieving. Basically, I have a lot of anger and resentment left over from this. Either way, my new soon-to-be stepdad isn't the best person, to say the least. He treats me much differently (worse) than he treats his own daughter, and says very cruel things to win an argument. He constantly blames me for things I haven't done and my mom believes him, and it's extremely frustrating. Because I broke my phone last month, and currently am unable to pay for my own (my mother is also unable to pay for a nice phone for me), my stepdad pays for it, which is kind, but he uses it as leverage against me. Anything I say wrong turns into me losing my phone for however long he’d like. Usually a few hours. He once gave me a list of things to do in order to get my phone back, so I completed the list and he still wouldn't give it back because he “"doesn't make deals with children.”Our relationship is awful, and he thinks that I like him more than I would admit. I don't, and likely never will.I’m explaining all of this to easily answer your question. No matter how much you hate someone, there is likely no quick, rational solution besides waiting it out. Unless your mother decides to leave him, you'll always be stuck with him. Just try to cope for now.
Can't get along with my stepdad.?
My mom was divorced when I was a baby, so I don't remember anything about going through the divorce. I still see my dad, but obviously we don't have that bond that some kids have. My mom got remarried when I was 7. I just can't get along with my stepdad. He doesn't even feel like family. He makes fun of me all the time, once he even flat out told my entire family that I suck at singing (which I enjoy doing, thanks.) I really really try to be patient and get along with him, but he just ticks me off with the way he acts. We just don't click. He's rude to me, and the worst thing he does is when he influences my mom to get mad at me just because he is. For example, today, everything went fine. Nothing happened. Then my stepdad and I got in a little arguement but nothing major at all. So he got all pissed off and took my phone, which isn't really a big deal because I'm not on it much. But then he told my mom that I was screaming and slamming doors, which NEVER happened. So then she gets all mad at me and I can't convince her that I didn't do that stuff. I just can't deal with him. I know I could have it worse, but I can't deal with this for the 3 more years until I go to college.
I Hate My Stepdad!!!?
I really hate my stepdad!! I guess I'm jealous because my mom is always with him and not me!! Everyday as soon as he comes home from work it is all about him. What makes me even madder is that she knows I don't like him and she is still with him. She tells everyone yeah if she didn't like him I wouldn't be with him yet like I said she does know. He isn't mean to me or anything like that I guess I just want my mom and dad back together. My dad was put into prison for killing somebody and for doing drugs about 2 or 3 months ago. I am going into the peace corps as soon as I go into college so I can get away from here. I know that my mom is in love but it just seems like to me she would at least want to spend time with me afterall I'm not going to be living with her much longer. Another thing that really bothers me is that they are always having sex. To me that shows alot of disrespect to anyone else in the house they even did it on a family vacation. Please help me I want to kill myself.
I don't want to call my step-dad, "dad"?
My biological dad passed away about 6 years ago. My mother late Ron started dating this new guy and they got married. My mom tells me to call him "dad". Honestly I don't want to, for a few reasons. 1. I don't exactly respect him. He cheated on my mom twice, and got another girl pregnant while he was dating my mom. He doesn't help pay for the bills, even though he has a job.(my mom told me this). 2. It doesn't feel right to me. No offense to anyone, but I don't believe in calling someone else dad. To me, my only dad, is my father that passed away. 3. It makes me feel like I'm replacing him. It just does. Can't explain why, but it just doesn't feel right to me. What should I do???