My best friend is being really mean to me?
Wow, she seems extremely rude. Sometimes people change. I'd suggested writing her a letter and giving it to her and walking away. At the end of the letter put "And I'm going to ignore you when you bring this up unless you act like an adult and speak without harshness." If she throws something at you like "Well you just want attention" then just ditch her. She's really not worth your time if she decides to be rude to you.
My best friend is being mean and rude!!?
My best friend has been really rude. I have known her for 6 years. She has always been a little rude from the beggining but still a really good friend to have around. I thought maybe she would get better but she hasn't. She's always been putting me down and acting like I'm and idiot. She also teases and embaresses me in front of my friends. She also thinks that. I have to be around her every second of the day and have no other friends. One day she was talking to someone after class so I went ahead and went to the next class. In the next class she got really mad and was like "why didn't you wait on me!!!". Really rudely. I told her that she didn't always wait on me and that I thought it was ok. She also always puts me down. Almost everyday she says something rude about my outfit or my hair. She is reall making me lose my self confidence. Also I think she gets a little jealous of me because I'm a all A student. Every time I make a good grade she always says somehing like "well at least I actually studied" or "well it doesn't even matter cause these grade don't even count". Also a few times she would run away with another friend saying "we don't hang out wih nerds!!!!!" Really rudely. She is a really nice person when we are at her house or just me and her. Then she always talks about how she's sooo glad we are friends. Bu around other people it seems like she hates me and tries to make me look stupid!! I've tried giving her some space but she always get mad at me for "leaving her" or "ignoring her"!! She also tells me that I'm stupid on a daily basis or your sooo wierd or whispers to other friends behind my back saying things like "omigosh look at her hair it's so frizzy!!!" I try to act nice and go along with it saying thing like " I know today has been a bad hair day". She also bullies me by hitting me and pushing me around saying "did that hurt"!!! Then trying it harder and harder. I know sometimes people do this just to be fun but she does it a lot and I can tell she is trying to be mean not funny. How do I tell her I don't want to hang out with her anymore. We have been friends for sooo long. I do have other fiends I could hang out with but then she always gets mad!!! Any advice is apreciated!!! Thank you in advance!!!
What does it mean to dream that your best friend is angry at you and doesn't want to be your friend anymore?
It means you subconsciously or consciously (only you know) are afraid of losing her and others because of an insecurity about yourself. Youre wrapped up in thinking that she doesn’t or won’t like you because of something you think you are doing or will do. You probably feel slightly insecure about your relationship with her and feel she might drift away from you or turn on you easily.Or, you may have actually done something bad to her and your subconscious is worried that it has affected her. But I feel like if your questioning why you had a dream where she was angry you obviously don’t think you’ve done anything ill willed so my bet is on the first option.Just try to relax and let your guy’s relationship flow naturally. Don’t feel anxious or try to push anything in it. Be open and honest maybe even tell her about the dream and see how she reacts. Either way, I’m sure everything will be fine afterall, it was just a dream. :)
My "best friend" is being so mean to me lately!?
I think that's terrible how gossip and jealousy has killed your friendship. There's no other way to fix it than to sit with all of them and *gasp* TALK it out. No arguing. Let each other talk while everybody listens. Take turns. It's important that everybody is there in your little 'talk session' so nobody says bad things behind anybody's backs. Be ready to hear anything good or bad about you. Ask them what they don't like about you or if they have a problem with you or anybody in the group. I know it sounds really stupid, but trust me -- this is the only way to get your friendship back on track. I know you are a mature person since you still tried to be nice despite their negative behaviors. If that doesn't work out so well, you can always try and ask your school guidance counselor to set up a meeting for you to facilitate the 'talk'. We were lucky enough to have school retreats / recollections where we open up our ill feelings towards each other. We tell each other in class what we don't like and what we want to change. We have to be completely honest. This form of communication is so important and so crucial especially at your age when you're very moody and still learning about how to build good relationships with your friends.
I don't really like my best friend anymore?
Ok so I've been best friends with this girl for 4 years. Let's call her christy. We've had a lot of fights. Some of them occurred because she was being b*tchy or being "bossy". During the most recent fight a few months ago she was being a real b*tch. I didn't want to be her friend. But on Facebook she told our friend to tell me she's sorry. I said okay and my friend said that Christy is making me apologize as well so I did but I honestly didnt want to and it wasn't really my fault. Right now she's nice to me, but I just don't like her as much as I used to. For some reason with other friends I'll be happy to talk to them but when it's Christy sending me a message or something I'll be like "Oh great it's you," in my head. On Facebook I get really annoyed by her. Like how she would post personal stuff about what's going on between us and her siblings can see it. For example. "[Tags brother], me and [tags my name] are having a fight!! You were right!"(her brother thinks im like really mean to her and doesn't know she can be mean to me as well) or she posts on my wall saying "even though you can be so negative and PMSing I still love you and you know that!! <3 <3" Ugh. I always feel "happy" if a friend or mine says they "love" me but I'm just like wow when it comes to her. Shes been really getting on my nerves ever since we've been on vacation and having Facebook as the only communication. I've always liked having her as my best friend an thinking no one could ever replace her, but now I like talking to other people online and stuff. Is it normal to want to get away from your best friend for a change? I'm okay with all my friends except for her now for some reason. She hasn't done anything wrong and stuff at this point but I still feel like I don't like her as much anymore. Before when I annoyed with her I would keep it in my head and still like her for some reason. O_o
A beautiful girl wants to be best friends with me forever, she made me promise about that. Does this mean we can never be a romantic couple? Can I ask her to be my soulmate, without breaking my promise or hurting our friendship?
What do you feel? Physical attraction, because of her beauty? Or do you feel an emotional connection?You have to be honest with yourself. I've been in your position before. Trust me, I know how it feels. But in cases like this, fantasizing makes it hurt more.If you're only attracted to her for her looks, then I doubt the two of you will work out as a couple even if she does become your girlfriend. Why? Because as the saying goes:"Beauty is only skin deep."You might start the relationship going crazy over her looks, but that passion will run out. You might be able to brag to your friends, "Check out my hot gf.", but soon that will get old. And what then? Will you just throw her away like a flower you've grown bored of?On the other hand, if you feel an emotional attraction to her, then that's a little more complicated. It all depends on you. Do you feel like you can stand being friends with her, knowing she won't ever see you as a boyfriend?My advice is this:If you feel you're just attracted to her looks, go on and promise her you'll be best friends forever. You'll find that over time your friendship will replace your feelings. Not only that, to be a girl's male best friend is priceless. Once you know how it feels, you'll understand.But if you're attracted emotionally, well, let her go. Enough said.
In my dreams, my best friend is always rude to me and doesn't like me, but there's no indication of that in real life. What does that mean?
Dreams are our semi-conscious mind trying to make sense of the processing of our subconscious. Feelings are translated into a symbols which we build into a kind of story, albeit a disjointed and often nonsensical one. Thus, a baby (in dreams) isn't a baby - it is a new endeavor. Our mind may connect it to familiar imagery - make it a baby we know, perhaps our cousin’s baby - but it's not about your cousin’s baby.Thus, a friend is not a friend. A friend represents aspects of our personality that we see as separate from us but that we admire or may be willing to embrace. Of course, some of this depends on how you view your friend (the general interpretation assumes you trust and respect them).If they are rejecting you, perhaps this aspect of your better personality believes you are doing something wrongly. Perhaps doing the right thing means you will need to remake who you are. Think about what behaviors and traits this person represents to you. Then ask yourself what this trait(s) requires in order to live within those principles. If that seems disconnected with your life, ask yourself what you would need to change for it to be so - maybe you should consider rearranging your life. It if you don't want to be like this, it may be a value that you feel others want for you, but that you can reject.