Does it make me a monster for hating my mum?
no it doesn't make you a monster, lol. i wouldn't say i hate my mom totally (because when i'm around her i do but when i'm not i don't) but i STRONGLY dislike/can't stand her and want to be far far away from her. yeah, my mom has an illness too, she has multiple sclerosis and treats my little brother like he's a prince/favorites him but then denies it and makes up excuses whenever someone asks her about it. i hate it when ppl blame their behavior on their illness, like they have NO control over their own actions whatsoever
OMG I HATE My Mum !! !! !! !! !! !! !!?
I am 15.....Seriously we argue about 5 times every day.. I think she just loves to argue!! She makes me feel guilty about going out with my friends on saturday, and when I say everyone goes out she says I'm lying. I only go out with my friends one day a week, if that!!!!! She always says the next day, "you had a day off yesterday, now you have to work" and she constantly tells me I don't work hard enough, even when I am working really hard!!!!!!!! It's so unfair, my best friend has a really nice, understanding mum. She tells me I am stupid and calls me a ***** when she gets angry and swears at me (which is a lot).. My Dad has been noticing how horrible she is to me lately, and has told her off a couple of times lately, but it keeps happening again. I cry more than once every day, and I can't concentrate on school work and I dread going home after school to face her and the arguments. Will someone please give me some advice?? Were any of you like this with your Mum's??? I really need help I feel so desperate... i can't even stand to look at her.... she is soooo fake aswell....... argh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why do I hate my mom so much?
Yeah me too! Im 16 and I feel like my mom never pays attention to her own kids. All her attention goes to her boyfriends children. I remeber growing up she would always tell my siblings and I “my kids come before anyone else.” Even though she’ll go out of her way to put all of her love and support on her boyfriends children. She’s seems pretty biased towards her kids too.I’m the only one with a different father (who is deceased). I pretty much get the short end of the stick in my family. I try my hardest to get the recognition I deserve but there’s never luck. My sibilings all share the same father. And it seems like it’s easier for them to have a happy family because their father is with my mother. When I’m around their family I feel like and outcast most of the time. Their family would greet them with love while I sit there anxiously wanting to leave.My family on my mothers side is very religious Christians. And I haven’t even told them I’m an atheist. They probably couldn’t even imagine my childhood. My mother once had a boyfriend (who is in jail right now) who constantly abused me and my younger brother. He would hurt me and burn me and sometimes drown me. There were times I wished my mom would come home from work to stop him but she was also weak. At the time my mothers boyfriend had a friend who touched my in places a 7 year old shouldn’t be touched. And I look back now and think where was god when all this happend.I’m a athiest who hates her mother.
I really hate my mom. Is that ok?
It’s important to understand the nature of your hatred towards her. There is always a reason for our emotions, especially something as strong as hatred. I personally deeply resent my mom and have so for over half my life. My mom wasn’t giving me the attention I desperately needed as a teenager and I then started to resent her and that resentment has gotten worse of the years. What I can tell you from personal experience is not to swallow it or suppress your emotions. Don’t listen to the painfully misguided people who have attempted to answer your question. They do not have the experience or insight, rather they probably had very good relationships with their mother and cannot understand anyone else who does not. Believe it or not, a lot of people resent their mother. There are just so many letdowns and disappointments which inevitably lead to resentment and then if not addressed, hatred. What I wish to tell you is this: be with your hatred and do not express it towards her in a hateful tone or manner. Express it diplomatically and as a mature adult. Sit with yourself and your feelings - pain, sadness, hurt and hatred. How you handle your hatred is the dictating factor in where you will end up.
I hate my mother. What should I do?
"JUST FIGHT WITH PARENTS VERBALLY"my intention here is not just fight ,but just make your parent aware of their their problems. don't think it's your problem, it's their problem. sooner or later they will realize it , before that you will be the sufferer .so tell them openly about your thoughts to them ,every emotion ,every hate, every problem ,everything what you have collected in your mind till now which tells you to hate your parents. make your parents realize it. may be they are aware of it. after this ,your mind will be free to find other solutions for it. you stuck here bcoz you want solution from the side of your parents , why you want this, becoz actually you love your parents, but condition tells you to hate." NO PROBLEM" it is life, just release your matrix of emotions ,tell your parents everything. over all , they are your parents ,they will definitely find some solutions. otherwise, you are free to think over other solutions.at last, jot down your every thought,.........synchronise your mind..........and pour it ,,,,,,,,,,,aggressively.......
I hate my mom, but love my dad.?
I really hate my mother she goes against me in everything I do, like I need braces and my dad finna get them and she mad at me and him and I’m like why you mad? He buys you everything you want. Me and my mom do not have a good relationship at all, when I’m grown she will not have any contact with me, if she dies I will not attend the funeral... is this bad that I feel this way towards my mother?
My mom hates dogs! What should I do?
Labs probably are not the ideal dogs to change a dog-hater into a lover, unless you go for an older, calmer dog. Young labs stay puppies for a long time - they need a ton of exercise to keep them out of mischief! I live with several dogs. Visitors always comment on how, despite the number of dogs, my house never smells like dogs. First, I stick to short-haired breeds. I do have one lab who sheds, and I get him shaved in warmer weather. Second, I keep them all properly groomed as needed and hose them down after a muddy walk. Third, I only allow them on one couch - the rest of the furniture is off-limits. Fourth, and most importantly, I vacuum like crazy - the floors, the dog couch, and their beds. Once you make a routine of it, it is not that much work. It helps that the house is all hardwood - if you have a carpets, be prepared for more work. Finally...dogs do NOT belong outside all day while you are at school. Most dog - ESPECIALLY labs - are extremely social and quite fond of their people. A lab will not do well outside all day. Keeping a social, human-loving dog outside all day will only create behavioral issues.