Recurring dreams about another man... how can I make it stop?
Before you fall asleep, try focusing on your husband - his good points and such. Dreaming about the other guy could stem from the romance novel because in a way a relationship that never happened is always perfect. You never got together and then broke up - it always stayed a fantasy. And at times fantasy is better than reality - now we are adults, have bills to pay - it's not like our stress-free days of high school. Maybe the novel is bringing back a fantasy you had long ago. Don't feel guilty or horrible - you weren't thinking about him - you weren't controlling your dreams. Maybe when you read the novel, you can imagine your husband as the hero. If all else fails, you can look in to lucid dreaming - which is dream control. That is too much info to post here so I will just refer you to a link: http://www.dreamviews.com/whatislucid.ph... Good luck and go easy on yourself. I have a feeling if you do, they will go away.
Why do i keep having recurring dreams of i & my Ex getting back together?
Ok, first of all, my dreams usually come to pass. Been that way since i was a kid. Most times i tell myself that my thoughts provoked my dreams but to my amazement, they come to pass in a few days or months. There was also a particular time i was being given messages in my dream to deliver to people. Well that's another story. The thing is, i just went through a very tough breakup. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he believe he wasn't making me happy any more. I had fought to get us back together but didn't succeed. He always appeared indecisive. At a time he would want us back & at another he would say i am better off without him. So at the end i gave up. We were in a distance r/ship. 6-7months before our breakup i had recurring dreams of him hurting me so bad. 3 dreams in a week. He was cheating on me in those dreams with other girls. One of the dreams was so real. My heart bled and i cried. When i woke, i discovered i was crying out and my left hand was placed on my heart as in the dream. My heart was hurting. I did not tell him about those dreams because i didn't want him to think i didn't trust him as that was not the case. When we broke up, the pain was as they were in those dreams. His reaction was same as in the dreams. well, in the end i discovered those dreams foretold what was going to happen and as usual i had ignored them. Now i have accepted our breakup but yet i have had 5 dreams (4 in a week) of us being together. In one of them, he was apologising in a video chat. In the other, we were in a gathering and i was telling my gfs that i was glad we made up. I was happier than ever in my life. The others were him holding me in his arms and apologising that he was sorry for all he put me through. One of them was so real that i could smell his cologne. I so hate these dreams. I try to overlook them but they keep coming. It ain't also easy based on the fact that i'm so used to having my dreams come true: the recurring ones especially. This makes it a bit difficult to completely move on. I don't wish us to be back together any more. He was the one guy i loved so deeply but i have decided to turn the page. Any help on why i keep having these dreams?
I am happily married and I keep having recurring dreams about "the one that got away"?
try to fix the problem by: 1-saying that these r dreams no more and they r funny 2-if u try 2 think about it during the day try 2 think about other thing. 3-make ur self stronger than that hunny lsn give ur self daily 15 min. before u sleep by saying he is nothing and it's just dreams and my husband is amazing no 1 like him he is my only love i was sullfish when i fill in love with that guy ***and belive me time by time once by once day by day these dreams will start not 2 efect u and u will start to forget that guy and fill in love with ur husband good luck my lady xoxoxo DON'T FORGET ME IF U WANA ANY THING JUST WAIT 4 UR SISTER ANSWER:the princess
If you see your ex again and again in your dreams, does it mean he is missing you?
I have seen what others have written and in no way am I trying to trample over what has been stated. When most people give advice it is from a place of sound logic and there is nothing wrong with that. I am going to come from another perspective on the matter. I do believe that dreams come from the spirit realm and logic can not help comprehend them much. Depending on how much you are in tune with your soul, your dreams will mean something in your waking life. Most of us are taught to disregard dreams but they have been essential to me understanding or decoding my life. I do believe that if you are not the one interested in reconnecting with your ex that a) they could miss you or b) there are unresolved issues between you two or at least on his end. On the flip side, if you have been contemplating over your ex than it is you that may need healing. In this high paced world, sometimes we forget to slow down and listen to our hearts so those feelings come through our dreams. His conscious self may not even be aware of how his soul feels. Dreaming of someone repeatedly denotes a strong connection. Now, whatever that connection may be is up to you to discover. If I were you, the next time he comes to you ask him what he wants from you. You may be surprised. Love, light and blessings to you.
I had a dream about my old crush. What does it mean?
That means she's dreaming about you as well at the moment. Kidding!.Well I don't know whether you like this or not, but I wish it happened to me. Because I never had that experience.As to answer the question:This kind of a dream cannot be specified into a certain group. Sometimes we see what we want in our dreams. In this scenario you want her. One day you'd want to ask her out. The dream says that you like her. And you miss her.So.... You like her huh?Ask her out. If not, keep her as the crush untill you want to ask her out. But remember this. A dream is not telling you that she's the one. But give it a try. Of course, no pushing.Besides I don't want to be the reason for someone getting a bad.... (Nah... I'll keep it to myself.)Still, no pushing.Luck! Badass!.....