Me and my best friend drifting apart?
I think that she is sending you a message to find other people to hang out with. People change and hanging out with a guy will change her perspective and make her more jealous even if she shouldn't be worried. Find some new people to make plans with and have fun. Don't create any drama and if she comes back around and wants to hang out again then it is all cool. If not then you have moved on too and won't have missed too many steps. Some people really do change between junior high and high school Some want to get in trouble and drink and do drugs and have sex, while others just want to get good grades, and have a more tame life. Both paths are normal in America, but one leads to more problems. You sound like a good girl and need to find other good people to hang with who enjoy your type of fun.
Me and my bestfriend are drifting apart :(?
Me and my bestfriend are drifting apart :( we have been best friends for around 4 years now. Since the 2nd term of grade 10 there came a new girl into our class, my bestfriend showed her around the school and also were all her classes is. I did not have a problem with that. A week after that they started getting a bit closer. It got me thinking. It's the 4th term already and they are super close almost like they have known each other for years '_' but they have only known each other for around 2 terms. Last term she held a party at her house, I didn't want to go because of 2 reasons. And I was busy that night anyways The Monday after that my bestfriend and her sang our favourite song 'I take you to the candy shop' together. It broke me cause they were so happy and just hugged each other.... And it's a song me and my BFF would usually sing I told my bestfriend twice about this, that we're drifting apart. The 2nd time I told her she said:'I can't help it but I get more along with her than you' It made me feel so bad about myself that I cried myself to sleep that night. Thinking about all this that's going on. A lot of my friends in my class came up to me telling me that they can see I'm hurt and that I'm drifting apart with her. There was around 8+ of my friends who told me that they can see it. Nothing is the new girls fault. My bestfriend has just changed into someone else :( sometimes she would not even wait for me when we switch classes she would only
My "best friend" is drifting away from me?
I have been best friends with her since we were 15 and we are in our mid 20s now. Well im starting to get upset because this past year I feel like she has abandoned our friendship. I have ALWAYS been there for her like a good friend should. When she had no were to go I took her in (multiple times) when she needed rides I would pick her up. Iv been her shoulder to cry on. Everything! And now she just ignores me. She is busy with work but on her free time she is always at the bar with this new friend of hers. When I call her or text her she ignores me. I dont understand it. I have tried talking to her about how I feel and she just apologizes to me and says she just busy but how is it shes not too busy to go out and hang out with her new friend but she's too busy to hang out with me? What should I do? Should I just drop her as a friend or wait around until she wants to be close again? She does this a lot but I always end up there for her again because I love her like a sister. Advice ?
What do I do if my best friend and I are drifting apart? We don't have any of the same classes and he never sits with me or my other friends anymore at lunch. He assures me that everything is okay between us, but I feel as if our friendship is gone.
Rather than feeling sorry, angry or depressed about this…sit back and think a bit. And then read my next few words carefully and repeat them to yourself.This happens. People ‘Drift’ apart. Friends Fade and move away. Neither of you are TIED to the other. One Door Closes and Another one opens somewhere else.I don’t know how old you are, but I guess that if you’re asking this question, you could be as young as High School. It’s not necessarily anything you did. He or she changed. And your relationship changed as a result.You will change also. Every time you meet someone new, every year you get Older…you will change a little. Just keep your eyes on who is still in your circle of ‘Friends’. Is your Circle CLOSED, or is it OPEN to New People? Maybe someone new also wants to be your friend.And don’t worry about the ‘Besties’ thing. Friendship is like the Weather: It’s something that happens to you…you don’t have control over it. The trick is to recognize the ones who are there.
My best friend and i are drifting apart what should i do?
Oh, I'm so sorry hun. Listen, I had an amazing friend who I trusted more than anyone in the entire world. We met in the fifth grade. We had always gone to other schools, and it never bothered us before, until she met this girl. She started dating that girl and I had been shut out, and all we did was costantly fight. I went manic depressive, hurt myself and everything. But then one day I called her, and we ended up talking... pretty soon we made up, and to think that I thought we would never make up. Bottom line, identify the cause of why you are not talking, and confront her instead of playing the stubborn game hun. I know just how you feel and I wish you the best of luck, and remember, if you need someone to talk to please contact me. Always here to help and listen to someone in need. Good luck sweetie.
My best friend and i are slowly drifting apart.?
okay so i know what you're all gona say... you were never best friends to begin with but that is not true. so me and this girl have been friends foreverr. we've never had a fight, but recently she's started hanging out with other people and so have i. i really dont want to lose her but im starting to get mad when she spends every single weekend with this other girl. both of us aren't really outspoken, so we dont get mad at eachother, and if we disagree on something noone says anything. gosh i dont know what to do.
This girl and I used to be best friends, but we're drifting apart. What do I do?
You sound like you really want to get back together with this friend but what is your reason for wanting to get back?You told her about how much you missed the talks you both had and yry she seems not intetested.Now that is a red flag she lost interest on your relationship and doesn't want to continue any longer but since you asked....I advice you try1)Spark her interest with things you both enjoyed doing in the past for fun.2)Keep a list of this and never repeat your mistakes again.3)Be open and respect her-don't act like a jerk and think you will be talked to Now if Option 1,2,3 doesn't work.Option 4 certainly will 4)Forget the relationship and move on;you tried your best and it isn't yoyr fault it ended that way.Good Luck
My best friend and I have been drifting apart. How do I re-ignite our friendship?
I did experience this situation before. To become close with your former Best Friend again, your former Best Friend and you need time and commitment to build a relationship. If one of you are not committed to building a connection, just let the flow be because it’s useless when one of you keep giving in and the other take it for granted such that she doesn’t appreciate your efforts. The thought of being close with your former Best Friend does sound pleasing but challenging as to how do you start this connection between you and your former Best Friend.Probably you could try to bring up the common interests you guys used to share a lot with. Go out for hangouts. It does not have to be based on the things you can try to rebuild the connection but you can also bring up the various things you and your former Best Friend used to indulge in. See if she’s really genuinely into those things you used to share with. If her heart isn’t there with you, it’s a sign that she isn’t with you.The most difficult thing is being willing and accepting to let go of the things we greatly believe in. It takes time to move on. You have to readily prepare yourself mentally if you’re gonna be rejected. If the connection fails, meet some new people out there and find those who really click with you and geniunely want to be your close friends. Just keep your cool, man
I feel like I'm drifting away from my friends?
Okay so I'm 13, in 7th grade. Middle school starts in 7th grade for us so everybody came from different elementary schools. In the beginning of the year, I had a small group of friends to hang out with at lunch and chat with and I had my best friends. But as we have gotten farther through the school year, I feel like i'm losing everybody. My best friend hangs out with this girl I really hate, and I tried to make a new group of friends but that didn't work. I'm friendly with people but I think that the reason I'm drifting away is because i'm not outgoing, i'm boring. All my friends have all of a sudden turned into spunky, funny, teenagers that always have something to laugh about and I'm sitting here trying to think of something to say. All the popular people are so loud and funny and social and I feel like a recluse! I've tried being friendly with many people , but it just is not working, we just become friendly. I'm never asked to hang out anymore, like today at this afterschool club, my two friends were planning to go with some other people to hang out and they were talking in front of my face. They both are really kind people and have no bad intentions, but i feel that I am not wanted. Please help me, I am beginning to feel alone.