Should I give him a second chance after cheating?
Me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months now. Everything was going great until completely out of the blue yesterday a girl messaged me telling me they had been hanging out together and haveing sex almost everyday for the past 2 weeks. I confronted him about it last night and he apologized and was crying saying he’s sorry about it. I feel so betrayed and hurt, I had no idea he was hanging out with a random girl when he told me he was out with his friend. He told her that we were going through a break which isn’t true and that things were complicated. He wants a second chance now and says he’s truly sorry about it and was crying when he brought it up last night. Should I give him another chance?
Second life????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
if you have no intention to be or to engaged in any of the above activities you have mentioned, then you will not be doing any of the above mentioned activities. And you will not be asked to be someone's gf every second of it. Unless you decided not to leave noobie areas and end up socialising only with newbies. The older residents have much much better things to do. No it will not ruin your PC. And as for fun, it will be up to you to decide.
Why am I still thinking about my ex girlfriend every day, when we broke up 3 years ago?
It sounds like you haven't fully accepted the end of the relationship. There's a little part of you that's hoping it might rekindle, like in a cheesy rom-com.It won't. This is real life.If there are no children involved, this is going to be challenging yet relatively simple. You should take this opportunity to move on. NOW!Delete their phone number. Put all photos and reminders of your former partner in a box and hide the box somewhere. Better still throw the box and its contents away. On significant days - birthdays, anniversaries - make sure you are too busy to brood. That person - as far as you are concerned - never existed. If you have already done all this, well done!If you need to grieve the relationship, grieve. Get it out of your system. Have a good, proper cry. Avoid drink. That makes this grieving process longer and more difficult.Now change your routine. Find a hobby that will occupy your time, preferably one that will allow you to meet new friends. Start an exercise routine and improve your diet. Live your life as best you can as if that other person never existed.Allow time to heal you. Allow at least one month for every year you are together. Date if you want, but don't if you can't face it. Any prospective date can instinctively tell if you are not over your ex, so if you are not ready accept this as a fact and don't date.Eventually you'll stop missing that person. You might meet someone new. At which point your ex will not matter.Good luck!If there are children involved, well…. You have to do as much as you can of the above, plus have regular contact with your ex for the sake of the children. You will have to meet your ex's new partner. You will have to learn to not see certain things for the sake of your sanity. You will have to co-parent and develop a new working relationship with your ex.If you are in that situation…. I'm sorry but your life is going to suck for a lot, lot longer. Especially if you were the wronged partner. But it does get better, eventually.I've been there. Trust me.
Should I think twice about dating a person if the person has a history of being overly flirtatious with numerous people online on FB, IG, etc.?
You are not judging another person when you look at their past history, you are assessing risks for your own future if you are considering attaching yourself to them by becoming emotionally and/or physically involved with them.I would not date a person suffering with addictions — I do not fault them personally for suffering them, can not condone the behaviour that is a part of the addiction, or have anger at the personality traits or life experience that has brought them about.But I know the results of adfictions and do not care to have those results in my life.That said, this person may not be ready to settle down, or may just not have met the right person. You will not know if you are the right person unless you try.BUT if you do try, I recommend you do not trust or give up your own heart too much, do not compromise your morals or beliefs, until they have proven with time and exoerience that they deserve you.W have brains and sense and judegment for a good reason.
My mom vents to me about her gf every week?
tell your mother to shut up, you are not interested. tell her she is not welcome around you unless she is a positive influence and draw the line for her behaviour.
Should your bf/gf call or text you every day?
Well if they're in a relationship and supposedly "like" each other, wouldnt they miss each other? Wonder what each other are up to? How their day is going? If they are doing okay? You would have to have interest in each other, right? I would text with my boyfriend with a Good Morning & hope your day goes well- that sortha thing. Than we would be at school and text funny/interesting things we saw/hear/think it was cool. After school, I would have activities and would get out late so a couple of texts here and there and at night we would either text but usually end the night with a long conversation about everything. We didnt get to see each other since he lived far away. You said that they dont see each other a lot, right? I wonder why they wouldnt try to communicate more. Maybe she doesnt have unlimited texting? lol. Maybe ber parents dont let her have a boyfriend and would be hard for them to talk on the phone? How old is she anyways? lol. Well, atleast you and your boyfriend have a normal relationship with plenty of communication :) She sounds like she might be a little jealous of that. ..
Should I text my girlfriend every day?
You have to find that out yourself. Preferences differ from girls of different nation, generation etc. For example, your girlfriend is a salary woman or office worker, most of the time they are not allowed to use their phone during work hours unless you are from the sales Department where everyone is on their phone.But if you mean to text her just to wish her a great day in the morning or to eat really well in the afternoon or take care in the evening, I see nothing wrong with it. If your girlfriend does not reply at all in any of your messages, you might not be that important. Coz replying just a simple "Thank you, you too!" doesn't hurt. You know, it would take up much time to say a short reply. However, you also have to be considerate. Maybe she was lowbat or for instance no internet connection to reply etc. But if you see that she has read every single of your message and did not reply, then you must not mean to her that much.Through time, you can tell if your girlfriend loves to exchange messages with you. There are some girls who loves texting with teir boyfriends, there are some who loves their boyfriend but loves to do their own thing. There are some who want to finish what they are doing first or concentrate on work or study. It really differs. You have to psychologize her on your own way. Goodluck!
Why do I think of my therapist almost every day even though I have been discharged months ago?
Because you have internalized the good relationship and all that went with it. It’s yours for life. Few people can say that.I’m always surprised when a former patient comes back and then reveals they thought about me almost every day for the past several years. It’s because it was a positive internalized experience.
Every time I approach a girl in public she says, "I have a boyfriend." Do they just say that to avoid talking to me?
Leaving out the whole question of sex etc, imagine the following scenario.You’ve had a long day at work, and you’re going to have another one tomorrow. It’s late, you’re tired, and you’re waiting on the train platform. All you want to do is get home and have some of your favourite takeaway while watching the latest episode of your favourite series.Suddenly, a large guy approaches you and asks for the time. Fair enough, even though the station clock is clearly visible. You tell him, and hope he’ll leave.Nope. He wants to chat. He starts talking to you – and to you is the operative word, you quickly realise he’s not actually interested in what you have to say. He asks you your favourite sports team, for example, and you mention a basketball team. He says, “Yeah, yeah,” and immediately starts talking about his favourite football team. You smile and nod and make “Uh huh,” noises and hope he’ll go away.Here’s your train! But he gets on too, follows you and keeps talking to you. Now about his plans for tonight; he’s going to a bar to watch the game and get wasted. Well, great, have fun. Oh. He wants you to come too. You’re getting on so well, he wants to take his new friend for a few drinks …You don’t want to go to some strange bar to get wasted with a stranger. You try to politely decline – and suddenly he’s getting angry. What, are you a snob? Too good for the likes of him?Hastily you explain no, no, you’re just tired and want to go to bed. What, straight to bed? No, you’re going to watch a little telly … You should come to his place! He’s got a huge TV and plenty of booze, you can watch the game together … Or he could come to your place …Somehow, you manage to extricate yourself. You even manage to avoid giving him your number, so that he can call his new BFF for a few drinks on the weekend. Maybe you’ll see him on the train tomorrow night? You really hope not, although you can’t say it …The problem is, you seem to be a magnet for guys like this. Every other week you’re approached by someone who seems to want to be your new BFF. Some seem to be nice enough, but too many are like this and even the nice ones … well, you’re just not looking for a new BFF. If you had a line you could use really early in the conversation and which would stop it before it really got started eight or nine times out of ten – well, wouldn’t you use it?
I dream of my ex girlfriend every night?
According to psychoanalytic psychology (the branch that includes dream analysis) it is likely that you still possess a subconscious desire for her. In the subconscious are the "id" and "superego." The "id" is a concept for the part of our mind that harbors our innermost desires that are socially unacceptable or destructive. Therefore, since you can't fulfill the part of your id that wants her in any way while awake (since you have a girlfriend), your id fulfills that desire in your dreams. This is just the psychoanalytic perspective, so take it with a grain of salt, it is by no means the "correct" answer, but definitely one to consider. To treat it, granted it doesn't go away naturally, I would suggest taking psychoanalytical therapy (the kind with the laying on the couch and talking like you see on TV). Here, they will do something called "free association," where they have you talk without editing your thoughts consciously, so they can access your subconscious mind (your "aware" mind edits and filters your thoughts and actions to be socially acceptable. This is why you don't punch a man in the face that annoys you all the time).