I want my boyfriend to touch me?
ok so me and my boyfriend have been freinds for a couple of months but we started dating and it is going great we are both so happy and i love him and he loves me , we kiss and make out and we hang out a lot ( were neighbors) but he told me that he doesnt want to touch my butt or boobs because he doesnt want to hurt me, told him that its ok to touch me but he still doesnt. and i want my boyfriend to touch me, what should i do and please no stupid answers. thank you
I want my boyfriend to touch me?!!! HELP?
Okay so me and my boyfriend are both 13 and we have been out for 2 months now. I love him so much and he loves me as well. He has had his first kiss and has kissed quite a few girls but I have not had my first kiss yet and I want him to be my first. He hasn't kissed me yet and he knows I want to kiss him as we have told each other, but now that I think about it, I really want him to touch me a bit; like my butt and hold my waist and rub my thighs. I'm one of those girls that gets awkward when talking about this sort of stuff:/ when I meet up with him some time I really want him to kiss me... I alway imagine these perfect scenarios in my head like we just get the sudden urge while looking at each other and laughing together and then we stop and stare into each others eyes and then we stand up, holding hands, he lets go of my hands and puts his hands on my waist say I love you an then just pulls me right up close to him (like stomach to stomach (or groin to groin)) and kisses me and puts his hand up my top (just holding my waist and m back, not like touching my boobs haha) , holding me and softly touching me..... Haa okay :) HeLp :s how do I get close to that perfect scenario? P.S: please don't judge me i know I'm young and 'I can't be in love' but I'm just looking for some advice not a lecture Thanks
I don't want my boyfriend to touch me?
Every time I walk somewhere with my boyfriend he wants to hold hands and every time we sit down next to each other he will put his hand around my waist. I mean I am okay with it every once in a while but every time is just so much. I always feel so embarrassed about it, people look at us. And I don't particularily enjoy it, I only put up with it because I know he likes it. I am hanging out with his entire family tomorrow for the first time and I just know he is going to try to touch me and I am soo scared. So like how can I tell him I don't want him too without coming off like I don't like him or something. Thanks!
I want my boyfriend to touch my boobs, what should I do?
When you people are in place where no one can see you, grab his hand and hold tight for some time while talking.Then put his hand on your breast by your hand and look in his eyes with love.If he is getting it , bring those hands under your bra and let him get carried away with your best assets .And if he is shocked, shut him up with a kiss and bring his hand near your vagina, and other hand on your boobs under bra.Trust me , then you are going to get best nipple arousal of your life.
How do I get my boyfriend to touch me more?
We are 16/17 and we have known each other for a really long time and he asked me out after prom and he's a really really shy guy and he won't touch we have kissed a couple times now and they were ok but I want to make out with him and I want him to hold me while we are kissing and I want him to touch my butt I'm not sure yet if I want him to touch my boobs but I know that we will not be going all the way and no clothes will be coming off any time soon so that is not a problem but i still want him to touch how do I let him know that it's ok without just looking so slutty just grabbing his hand and putting there
How can I tell my boyfriend that I want him to touch places?
You can either say it out-loud, or in a more subtle way. Imagine you’re on the couch, making out. Try touching him near, or on, the equivalent place you want to be touched, and see if he follows along. (Example, if we’re kissing and you grab my butt, I’m sure as heck going to grab your ass, too.)If he doesn’t seem to get that clue, use your hand(s) to guide his, wherever you would like it to go (or in the general area). Put his hand directly on your breast. Continue guiding his as needed; hopefully he will get the idea and take over (although he may still be nervous about touching certain places…depending on how private they are…)
How can I hint my boyfriend I want him to touch me in places?
There are several ways to hint. I will list 3, starting from the least to most obvious.Wear clothing that is nice to touch in the places that you want him to touch. Usually velvety and smooth fabrics are nice to touch. Lace too. Touch those places yourself first, then invite him to feel how nice the fabric is.When you find a good moment, hold his hand, then gently put his hand where you want it to be. Put your hand over his hand and apply the motion and amount of pressure that you find pleasurable. A good moment can be any time when you are alone with him. If you are both shy, a good moment might be when you are kissing, or when it is dark.Whisper into his ear exactly where you want him to touch you. Be very specific. If he is surprised at first, just repeat your instructions again, slowly and calmly.In all 3 cases, remember to show him that you are enjoying his touches. You can use facial expressions to do that, or make sounds, or just tell him directly how great you are feeling. Ultimately, communication is very important, just as everyone else here has said. Even if you are shy, or your boyfriend is shy, you should start learning to communicate effectively with each other. Good luck!
I want my boyfriend touching my ass. What do I do?
In public? Or in the bedroom? If it’s in public, Well if you have a boyfriend who doesn’t like to talk about things like that, the subtle. When he has his arm around your waist gently guide his hand down to your behind and tell him how nice that feels and how much it turns you on. He’ll get the message. If it’s in the bedroom and you’re being intimate, just push his hands down there and moan like there’s no tomorrow. He will know right away that he’s doing something right and keep doing it.
Why doesn't my boyfriend touch me?
It might mean either he has lost interest or is insecure. One way to find out is to beef up his ego men are simple this way make him feel like the man and express interest in being physically close to him maybe rip his clothes off after some time of hanging out with him and stroking his ego. The other reason could be chemical maybe his sex drive has shown down. If he has never been into touching you it might be something else like a psychological issue.
Is it ok for my boyfriend to touch me whenever he wants to? Sometimes he’ll just lift up my shirt and touch my breasts at home. I’ve told him not to, but he still does. Am I overreacting?
Girl. I feel you, I FEEL YOU. I was seriously shocked I hadn't written this question myself and had to double check. There is nothing worse than being all relaxed on the couch after a hard day at work, ready to get your Pinterest on, when the claw comes out of nowhere to “fiddle the dials.” Or you are dozing so peacfully and suddenly your man pulls a reacharound and decide to pretend your boobs are dough that needs to be kneaded. I hate it, so much.Okay here's the thing. Most hetero guys love all of our soft bouncy bits. They want to touch, bounce, and play with them. Which is cool, except for the fact that they're attached to our body. Same issue with my boyfriend. He didn't get that it actually HURT when he did some of those things, or that it was extremely fucking annoying to have my nipples played with when I'm trying to do something else.After multiple conversations he still wasn't getting the picture. He thought I was over reactin. Society and porn had been telling him for years that girls boobs are to be played with, at that women thrust their bosoms forward in orgasmic exctasy when properly stimulate. What are my humdrum complaints going to do against THAT picture?So what's a girl to do?Balls.These soft squishy penduluma were put on this eath to protect women from unwanted nipple pinches everywhere. They are vulnerable. They are weak. And in today's sweatpant society they are oh so exposed.Flip them. Not hard, you aren’t aiming for pain, but the extremely uncomfortable experience of having a sensitive area constanl stimulated in a not so pleasant way. Hook a finger under them and make a quick “"come hither” motion with your finger. The balls will flip upwards and then bounce back down, not a painful feeling, but not a great one either.Shocked the heck out of my boyfriend.He demanded to know why I had started doing this. I spouted back everything he had said about playing with my boobs.“What? It's fun!”“Come on it doesn't hurt.”“We’re dating! You're my man!”“They're just so bouncy!”Kept it up for a few days. Guess what my boyfriend doesn't do anymore?That tip aside, if he REALLY continues to not respect your bundaries you need to have a serious talk with him about how uncomfortable it makes you feel. If he doesn't care, well then you know he doesn't care that you are upset and uncomfortable and what's the point in being with a man like that?