I am 26-year-old unemployed Indian male. What should I do?
Firstly, stop thinking about your age. We are living in a society where everything is time bound. Everything follows a timeline. According to people, you should have gained at least 3 years of work experience. Don't give a damn to any shit. And if you keep on thinking that I'm 26 and unemployed, then very soon you will going to post that I'm 28, single and unemployed. Obviously, you don't want this to happen. Let me tell you my story. I'm also 26 years old girl and soon going to turn 27. My condition was same as yours an year back. Even I used to think about all these things but gained nothing. Failed in many competitive exams. Then one fine day, I deactivated everything, facebook, instagram WhatsApp, everything which was distracting me and then worked hard to achieve my goal and finally I proved myself. Since then, no one asked me about my age, years I remained unemployed, nothing. Marriage proposals started flooding. I forgot to tell about my qualifications and how long I remained unemployed. Well, I'm an engineering graduate from an average college. Sitting at home since 2014 to 2017, unemployed. Hope you can understand my condition. But one thing which kept me going was hope and my instincts. I do not listen to anyone. I just follow my instincts. And then finally proved myself. If I would have taken a private job or any other job to remain busy and free from societal pressure, might be I will end up being depressed. It doesn't matter how long you remain unemployed. What matter is, steps you take to come out of that situation. Trust me, the one who are not following their heart and just doing job to earn their daily bread, their condition is worse that yours. I believe being unemployed is better than doing the job which doesn't interests you. This unemployment condition taught me so many lessons. Once you become employed, then you will realise that you were growing mentally and emotionally. So, just don't think about past. Free yourself from all the regrets and think about the reasons. Then dedicatedly, work towards it and after some months, you will be on track. And most importantly, keep yourself away from negativity and negative people. All the best and hope you will post some good news soon. Be optimistic.
Why do women think that once they get married they can just let themselves go?
I understand that once a woman lures a man into marriage, they have complete control in the court room, making it very difficult for a man to leave without taking a financial burden/hit. But women are extremely naive to think that a man will just stay unhappy in a situation. Women are so naive to realize that a man will cheat. Not that I condone it, I actually condone never getting married, and if you do get married and are in this situation, just get a divorce. Why does a divorce cost so much? Because it's worth it. After a woman lures a man into marriage, so often they explode, get fat, let themselves go, lounge around in sweats, etc... On top of this, they stop putting out, stop giving men sex, as if a man is just going to accept only receiving sex twice a year, his birthday and on valentines day. Seriously, so many women wonder why men are unhappy in marriage, want to avoid marriage, and cheat. Take a look in the mirror... What guy is just going to accept this miserable life? BTW, I've never been married, refuse to ever get married, tell all men I know and don't know NOT to get married, etc... So I don't want to hear "oh you must be bitter because you had a bad marriage" or some other related crap. I learn from others' experiences.
My parents think I'm a worthless and a total failure?
I'm a 16 year old in year 11. I just pass or fail my subjects at school. I do try to get better grades but I just can't get higher than a C+. My parents are constantly yelling at me, especially my father, and they think that I'm lazy and have a bad attitude. They always say that I do nothing around the house but I actually do. I do the washing every weekend, dust the living room each week, cook meals when I'm told to most of the time. I always over sleep and just make it on the bus to school or miss it, but that isn't totally my fault - I have anaemia, which makes me more tired than most people. I'm not allowed to go anywhere after dark, go anywhere more than a 30 minute walk away from home by my self, I never get pocket money and I'm not allowed sleepovers. I feel like my parents are controlling my life. There's a trip over seas for ancient history students at the end of next year, my parents said I could go, but just now they have changed their minds because I don't do anything around the house. I'm so disappointed because I was really looking forward to going over seas with my friends. I just don't understand why they didn't just say no in the first place and saved me the disappointment. I don't smoke, or drink etc. What can I do to feel better about my self and prove that I'm not failure to my parents?