My life is boring and I have no friends?
First of all, we've all had that feeling like everyone's watching you when you're out of your house and everyone judges you or just stares at you and think that you're a loner. Guess what, they don't because none of them cares about you and none of them knows who you really are and they're definitely just thinking about themselves. In this generation, we live in a world where people are selfish and greedy and all they want is money(ahem..not going to call out names here(MAYWEATHER) haha xD joking).It doesn't matter if you go out alone and it's actually good. Going out alone actually gives you a lot of time to think things through and work things through with yourself. More like, getting to know yourself better. Doing stuff outside and keeping a positive attitude draws people close to you and you can approach anyone(make sure they look friendly) with a smile and make a new friend. Like, you're out and having a walk and you stumble on someone who's walking their dog and you initiate the conversation with a compliment or a joke like the common stuff, "your dog is adorable. How old is she/he?" start a conversation. Fun people are always the ones with friends, why? Because they're always the one starting things like a conversation, a game or a joke. Be simple and always have a positive attitude. Simply, smile at people more and you'll find yourself smiling inside as well. Hope this helped :) God bless!
I'm tired of not having friends.?
I'm a little shy but I'm pretty. There seem to be a lot of people who like me at school. There is this group of girls in my gym that are always nice to me. I really want to join their group in gym but I feel octward like I'm bothering them because I'm not very close with them. There are a lot of other people I talk to to in school but I don't know how to talk to them out of school. What should I do. asking for phone numbers right away is octward for me. Should I ask for aim. Would that be weird. Please Help I'm tired of always spending weekends alone.
I'm tired of having no friends?
Hey.. It'll be about a year soon since I moved from my hometown. I had lots of friends there, but I am homeschooled. So I never had that many.. Moving here was so hard, and I sure don't have hardly any friends at all especially since I do online school. Hang in there, I know how you feel. I can't help you exactly, but I can tell you stuff that helps me. 1. MUSIC... I would probably be terribly lost if I didnt have music. It's the bestest friend ever. 2. Sports. Sports help me bc I love them, but they're a great way to make friends. Or any kinda activity if you don't like sports. 3. Art. This one is pretty self explanatory 4. God. So you might not be religious, and I respect that. I'm just telling you what helps me and seeing if maybe it will help you. Just go out there and live life, you don't always need friends. I get what you mean about being a normal teenager. I for one, don't have any friends to hangout with and I'm homeschooled. I am anything BUT normal.:)
I'm tired of having no friends? No social life?
(Sorry. This is gonna be long because I like to say things, so you have been warned.) I totally understand being socially anxious and depressed. You might be feeling worthless and pathetic, but everyone has a place in this world and no one is useless or unworthy of happiness. There are a lot of people out there just like you, so try to seek them out. Trust me, you'll find them. You're probably a really awesome person, you just haven't given anyone or yourself a chance to see it yet :) I'm socially awkward and so are my friends and we know it, we laugh about it and accept ourselves the way we are because we're just figuring it out. Try to find someone who likes the same things you do. If you don't have anything in common with anyone, find out what other people like and discover new things or maybe you could introduce them to the things you like. Whenever you find yourself around people, just observe and listen if you don't want to talk. When you do talk to people it always helps to be polite and respectful (unless they're being mean to you) mostly people are nice and if they aren't that their issue (and bad parenting). Of course in order to make friends you have to actually talk to people (yikes!) Here's a tip about people: They LOVE to talk about themselves. Most conversations are like 70% listening. Just keep coming up with questions to ask and they'll answer and if they ask you about yourself just say "I don't like to talk about myself, I'd rather hear about you." works like a charm, or do talk about yourself if you want to, you might say something somebody can relate to. Or if that's too much for you there is this magical place called ~*~*the internet*~*~. (Have you ever heard of Tumblr.com? I highly recommend it.) When you feel depressed also helps having someone to talk to , you're problems seem really huge when you keep it all inside, but once you talk about it, they don't seem so bad. I hope that helps somewhat c:
Im 17 and I have no friends?
I had close friends in middle school,..but we went separate ways cuz we went to high school. Everybody had a bunch of friends in high school but I never made any,..like I have a group of friends to hang out with at lunch but when its me with someone alone it gets awkward and I just shut down. Plus, I try to be friendly and ask for their numbers and I try to text them but they usually dnt wanna text me. I'll be a senior this year and I'm soo scared. My mom says she thinks their something wrong with me. I think I'm depressed I just stay home and go online or watch tv all day. I haven't hung out wit a friend since 8th grade. Advice please?? And please don't stay stuff like "stop being shy, or don't shut down, or be more social".....any actual ADVICE on people liking me? and how do I stop being shy? What kind of stuff should I say to start conversations??
I'm tired of this freaking boring life?
Calm down, i feel you. I feel the exact same way as you, im 14. I want you to know this is just a phase, things get better. I feel so empty, But i know that i'm still young and i still have time to make my dreams come true. I dont have the best advice but i'm a good listener. Anyways, Do you have any plans for the future? What are your interests? Do you have any goals? If no, then try to look all over the internet maybe you'll find someone who will inspire you to become like them. Trust me if you have a dream, your life will get exciting. You will take risks to reach your goals. If you already have a dream then keep following it. Just fill your life with new stuff, try going out just for a day, appreciate things around. I know you're tired of hearing this but you need to find yourself a hobby and push your *** in a club, this will get you friends trust me, and it'll make your life more full and happy. Get a pet, you'll be less alone. Start a youtube channel, it will get you friends for sure. Find an occupation, like cooking or cleaning the house or growing flowers in your backyard. Try a new healthy lifestyle, try being a vegan for a while. Get out and visit new places. Talk to people in your school and ask your friends to introduce you to their friends. Party! Be fearless! Take risks and challenges! Break the rules! Live your life! And remember, you'll get better, i promise. You still have time, just get out more and visit more places and talk to people more, get inspired by other people and live your life.
No friends/i do nothing all day..?
Okay ... please help, i only made this yahoo account so i could get some advice, cause i'm kinda of sick of having no friends,and no life... so i'll try to keep this short as possible. i'm 90% sure I have social anixety... and i have had for awhile. i haven't made friends since 5th grade, and i'm in 9th now (home school) and i was homeschooled half of 6th, all of 7th, and now 9th... and the only reason I want to be home schooled Is because I'm so uncomfortable , and embarassed for no reason at school... people don't even talk to me, or look at me, and i get nervous. i don't want to explain it all or else that'll make this long. All i do is play games all day and go nowhere... and i'm even too scared to tell my mom.. I've ben planning on telling her for 2-3 weeks now, so i could go see if i have it, and get medication, but i don't tell her.. mostly cause what differnce will that make? I'm still homeschooled and have no way to get friends (schools almost over, so no public school) my parents asked me if i'm going to go to public school when we move to washington (live in FL now) and i said yes, and that's probably when i plan on telling my mom.. but that's like a year or so from now, and my life is so boring :( the weird part is even that, i have like 15 friends from my 8th grade on my Facebook, one really old friend from 5th grade on there, and some people i talk to daily from games i played the rest of the 110 people are like some people from nevada? which i've never even seen before.? So I have liek a bunch of strangers i've never seen or heard of before on my facebook, because i'm embarassed to not have any friends on there. what am i going to do..? i've ben wanting to get help for like .. a year now, and i don't know how, and i never get anyone to help me..