Is my brother in law attracted to me?
I stayed with my sister & my brother in law for a week. They're newly married. He acts odd around me sometimes other times normal. I've known him for five years but I'm just now getting to know him better. My sis and I are close though. Could he find me attractive? Just to be clear I don't like or want him and wouldn't do anything to disturb their marriage. Also I'm a lesbian (they don't know this). He'd often would walk around his house shirtless. Would make sexual jokes (not about me, in general) Touched my knee to get my attention Touched my butt several times as he brushed past me (maybe accidentally?) He would often talk to me normally then slow down his speech so it sounded lullaby-ish or sleepy sounding. There's awkward tension when we're alone (from him). I don't know how to describe it other than a vibe.
I don't think my boyfriend is attracted to me :(?
I have been having the same problem with my guy, he is very sweet to me, does everything for me but sex is virtually none existent. I have also had the problem of a lack of general affection, he very rarely kisses me and never compliments me. I have confronted him about it on more than one occasion and he tells me he has a lot on his mind and that it's not me and that he finds me attractive but it still doesn't seem to have made any difference to the amount of sex we have, it was about twice a week but the last couple of months i'm lucky if it's once. I feel your pain as I too am losing confidence and don't know how to resolve the issue, apart from this he is a great guy. I wonder sometimes if he sees me more as a friend as he always says "I really enjoy your company"but that's all I ever get as a response or maybe it just is a low sex drive. I wish I had the answer for you, I constantly contemplate ending it as I feel as though I'm just torturing myself. I wish I had the answer for us both. You should stop giving him oral all the time and make him chase you a bit, I do find this helps with my guy. I hope you find a happy resolution
My step dad is attracted to me. Don't know what to do?
That's horrible. I'm so sorry. Definitely good that you talked to your mom. If you haven't already told him that he is damaging your relationship, and that you think of him as a father and it's hurting you, definitely do that as soon as possible. It has to be bad for you to want to move out. Honestly, I don't think anything short of therapy could fix this. Also, something that shouldn't be ignored, is that if this behavior is recent, there COULD, and I'm not saying there is, but there could be something wrong with him. Psychologically. Before my cousin's grandfather died (I mean, several years) he started developing odd habits. Doing things he shouldn't, like stealing birthday cakes. As his health got worse, he never tried anything with me, but sometimes I knew that he forgot who I was (only because I didn't see him often, and he went from seeing me as a child to seeing me as a well-developed teen), and he started being attracted to me in a sense. He died when I was 20. I know your step dad is probably not as old as he was, and that he probably is in much better health, but I really think this isn't something you should overlook. If he hasn't done this before, and if this is new behavior, something could be lowering his impulses and inhibitions. For now, take care of yourself, in protecting yourself. My prayers are with you.
Why am I always attracted to guys who don't like me?
That’s not uncommon.Many women fall for guys like that. the reason is the way you perceive those guys based on available information.They are good looking first of all. They are unattainable as well. And in the case of the guys with girlfriend is a very well known psychological nuance. If he has a girlfriend he therefore is a desirable mate.But more than that it has to do with the way you fill out the blanks. I know people like that. amazing women that are unhappy because of that. They can never love someone they actually met and truly know.Think it like this:You know some nice guy, good looking and mysterious. You can see he has apparent desirable traits. Then you don’t know him too well, you fill in the gaps with things you like.They are not necessarily true but our brain does that. It can’t just not know. So you fantasise on how he is for the things you don’t know about and he becomes more and more perfect. And to a certain point, when he does something that contradicts that view, you find excuses and rationalizations to justify that.Now, real men you actually know, you can’t do that. You get to know the faults and the bad things and there’s no room for all the good you value, because no one ever lives up to our expectations. It’s complicated. The longer you’re alone the worst it gets.I really hope you get into a nice relationship with someone amazing, for the one important person in my life that could never get that :) sincerely do.
I like this guy and I can tell he's attracted to me. I don't think he likes me enough to make a dating move. How do I get him to fall for me?
If you have good chemistry just continue your current interaction of flirting and joking around. Don't hurry to get to the next base, enjoy it.Now, if you only have a crush from a distance with stolen glances and need advice on how to approach, thats a different question.Do you like his personality, interests and life? Or are you just drawn to his appearance? The latter means you probably have nothing in common.To increase the temperature, understand what he looks for in a woman and give him that. You can even ask him in an un-needy way, if you dare:) mirror him, be upbeat when he is, be deep when he is and so on. Connect and he will feel it too...
Is he attracted to me? I ask him this question because I noticed him looking at women who has features that I don’t. He says yes and he loves my heart. It took him a long time to find me. But I think in my heart he doesn’t find me that attractive.
I’m a small curvey woman (small waist, flat tummy and rounded breasts and hips) but my husband is smitten by supermodels who have very little body fat and have no breasts.The things he loves the most about me when we are intimate are my large breasts and juicy bum.Does this make sense to you?Incase your brain hasn’t registered what I’m trying to say, men like all kinds of women because they are not robots programmed to like only one kind of woman. They like so many of them.Your job isn’t to discipline him into liking you only. That will backfire and you wont be with your boyfriend anymore. Let him appreciate other women discretly. If he stares, winks at them or talks more to other women about cheeky conversations, then you can speak to him about that.Dont scare a good guy off because you lack self esteem. Work on that separately.
Why is this guy so sexually attracted to me?!?
I just don't understand why. Don't tell me all he wants is sex that's not my question. I just don't get WHY he wants to have sex with me so bad ever since we met a year ago he always wanted to. I don't have big chest (34a) I don't have a big butt (1-3 in jeans) or nice figure. I was a virgin before him. Im 4'11 and 105 pounds He was my first time but I still don't get why he is so sexually attracted to me an always has been?! Why! What could make a guy sexually attracted this much to a girl who isn't even sexually attractive. Don't say its because I gave it up because he was attracted for 10 months before I ever even gave it up