Is it normal that I want to cuddle my mom sometimes?
I'm a 16 years old teenage girl. I know that I have to become an adult and stop being my mom's little girl, but sometimes I just want to be able to snuggle and cuddle my mom. Whenever I hug her I wish I didn't have to let go, ever! It pains me, on an almost physical level, to end the hug. When I was a child, I used to crawl into my mom's bed and snuggle with her for hours. I miss that so much! Do I REALLY have to give that up in order to become an adult? If yes, I wish I didn't have to. My Mom is the most important person in my life. How easy it was to show her a few years ago! Sometimes, I just want to throw myself into her arms and say "Screw being an adult, I AM you child and I always will be. What am I supposed to do? Is it normal to feel this way?
Is it normal to sleep naked with your mom?
I share a bed with my mom and for as long as I can remember we have both slept naked. I'm 16 now and I'm starting to realize how attractive my mom is. She sees me with homers a lot and I just tell her it's morning wood and sometimes when it's really cold we'll cuddle together and I always get hard and I'm sure she notices but she just pulls me closer and my penis will rub against get vagina. I like to touch her boobs while she sleeps too. She's only touched my penis a couple of times and it was when we were masturbating together so I don't think that's too weird. Is this normal though?
How old is too old to cuddle with your mom?
So I just really love my mom. She's the greatest and she's my best friend. She's the only person in the world who loves me besides my dog lol. I love to cuddle with her. Like just randomly go up to her an hug her, sit right next to her on the couch, sit on her lap, etc. She doesn't mind it. But when my friends come over and they see me hugging my mom every ten minutes, they make fun of me. I'm sixteen, and my friends say they hardly ever hug their parents. They say they grew out of that. They say they can't even imagine sitting in their mom's laps. Keep in mind though that they are all normal heights for a sixteen year old girl and I'm about the height of an eleven year old. I just don't think it's weird at all. So I was wondering, what are your thoughts?
Should I tell my mom that my dad makes me cuddle with him in his bed at night?
I'm 14 and my parents are recently separated. I love my dad and get to see him every weekend. He's been very upset lately because of my mom leaving him, but he's doing things I don't like. He's making me sleep with him at night, and cuddle with him when he goes to bed. He doesn't touch me inappropriately but he rubs my legs and my side and back and he usually cries. I hate it, it makes me want to disappear. My sister and I will be watching a movie in the living room and he'll MAKE me (I tell him I don't want to, he just gets mad and it sets him off and he'll hit us and break things.) come into his bad and cuddle with him. I wrap myself up in my own blanket so I don't have to touch him because he's in his underwear and he says that I think he's disgusting and it sets him off. I love my dad but I think he IS gross. I found stuff on our computer that I'm embarrassed to even say, but it's people doing gross stuff with animals and my dad has tons of these types of videos. My little sister accidentally watched the first 30 seconds of one and I think I should tell my mom so she can talk to her but I'm scared of what she'll say. I know this is all really personal but I don't know what to do. There's a lot more like, he drinks a bottle of alcohol every single night (the kind that comes in a velvet purple bag) and he drinks beer and tomato juice while we're driving. He thinks my sister and I don't know but I do.
Is it weird for a teenage boy to cuddle with his mom?
Weird? To me, NOT at all.To other’s perception, MAYBE. But I will say, never mind what others think. They know nothing of that particular relationship dynamics.The relevant question would be: Is the teenage boy feel uncomfortable with the cuddling with his mom?If the answer is NO., then everythings fine, cuddle as long as you want with your mom.If the answer is yes, means the teenage boy is no longer comfortable with the cuddling, and the teenage boy feels weird, then stop cuddling with the mom. Anything beyond that would be inappropriate.Children cuddling with their mother is natural and normal, until the time kids eventually outgrow it. The period of that particular development is not fixed and greatly varied for each mother-children relationship, earlier for boys and much later for girls. I, myself, felt the need to lock my mother into a long tight embrace after missing her for sometimes when I was already in my 30s.I am sure the mothers would have wanted it even more when their childrens are already grown-up. However, once a child no longer feels confortable with a cuddle, then it would be felt as intrusion to the child’s person when it is the mother that would insist on a cuddle.As long as a child is comfortable and does feel weird, however old he is, it would be fine.
My mom walked in on me and my girlfriend cuddling and now she thinks we're having sex?
If your mom doesn't trust you, there must be a reason. Trust is something that you have to earn. If I were you, I would ask my mom to talk. Not in the heat of the moment, though. Set aside a time when you are both cool and collected. Tell her that you really like this girl, and you promise that you aren't having sex. Tell her exactly what happened, and don't lie about anything. If she still doesn't believe you (she probably will believe you), then tell her she's being unreasonable (which she is), and just refuse to break it off with your girlfriend.