Is it OK what my ex husband is doing for my mom?
Many years ago my mom was in a car accident. When she got out of the hospital the doctors told her she had to have some one with her to take care of her for 5 days until she was able to take care of herself. It would have been very hard for me to get off work so my husband Jason took care of mom for the 5 days. Mom fully recovered thanks in part to the great care Jason gave her. Mom is going to have surgery soon and she wants Jason to take care of her again for a few days when she gets out of the hospital. The problem is Jason is now my ex husband and I have remarried. I told mom that even though we had a friendly divorce I didn’t think I could ask Jason to do what she wants. She said I will ask him myself and she did and he readily agree to take care of her. I really have mixed feelings about this. I know Jason will give mom great care. It is almost impossible for me to take the time off to care for her and hiring a private nurse would cost way more money the I have. My current husband is upset that mom is asking my ex to help her but at the same time he does not want to do it. Should I just be grateful that mom will great care after her surgery and that Jason will do if for free because he really likes mom and she likes him and that is what really matters
How should I feel about what my ex husband is doing to my mom?
Many years ago my mom was in a car accident. When she got out of the hospital the doctors told her she had to have some one with her to take care of her for 5 days until she was able to take care of herself. It would have been very hard for me to get off work so my husband Jason took care of mom for the 5 days. Mom fully recovered thanks in part to the great care Jason gave her. Mom is going to have surgery soon and she wants Jason to take care of her again for a few days when she gets out of the hospital. The problem is Jason is now my ex husband and I have remarried. I told mom that even though we had a friendly divorce I didn’t think I could ask Jason to do what she wants. She said I will ask him myself and she did and he readily agree to take care of her. I really have mixed feelings about this. I know Jason will give mom great care. It is almost impossible for me to take the time off to care for her and hiring a private nurse would cost way more money than I have. My current husband is upset that mom is asking my ex to help her but at the same time he does not want to do it. Should I just be grateful that mom will great care after her surgery and that Jason will do if for free because he really likes mom and she likes him and that is what really matters
My husband talks bad about my mom?
So my mom, with 5 children, including me has had a real tough time in life, everything from rape, beatings starting in her honey moon, homeless with all of us and so on. So the first three are grown up, and my 2 little sisters still live with her, one is 17 and the other 14, she has had a few boyfriends since my fathers in jail, that was since we were little though, never had a father figure. I don't know what to do, her boyfriends don't live with her but they do go to her apartment, there have been 3 so far in the past years, should I be worried for my little sisters or let her be, she deserves to be happy now that were big and.can take care of ourselves, but why does my husband call her a bad mother, and words that kind of mean she's a "....., person who has one man, and another?..." should I be on his side or hers, I don't know what to say anymore, and its ruining our marriage...... I've always thought there is only one iriplacable mother, but there is a replacable man....
Dream about my mom having sex with my husband...?
I dreamt that I heard sex sounds coming from our bedroom, I walked to the room and opened the door, finding my mother on top of my husband having sex... what does this mean?
My mom *really* insulted my husband, what to do?
My mom is the queen of the dirty minds.. She doesn't trust any man and she raised us to not even trust hugging our brother. WTF! Ok so my husband and I are temporarily staying at my parents because of a Job issue with me. We have a 1 month old baby.. My husband and I always take turns on feeding and changing the baby. So this morning the baby had a soiled diaper and my husband took her to the room to change her. My started telling me that men shouldnt change little girls diapers. And that I was being an irresponsible mother for letting my husband change her. Well the baby was crying because she hates to be cold and my mom was in the living room really upset already thinking that my husband was doing something to our daughter!!! Ok so I go in the room and the baby had pooped twice and he had ran out of wipes, and she had also peed on the changing table... Totally normal and my husband was being a great dad being patient. But he heard my mom saying those things and he started crying because he loves his daughter and he was abused when he was little. He would never hurt her!!! He took the keys and left the house... So im here crying because I feel really bad for him because he is a 1000% devotated and caring father and my mom insinuated that he could sexually abuse our daughter!!!
Any moms who have boys or anyone my husband said I need to stop letting my 5 and 6 year old sons in the room when I chagne, shower, or pee,?
My son is 7 and he still comes and talks to me when I'm on the toilet, brings me a towel to the shower when I'm ready to get out. And he even knows about my period and brings me a pad out of my bag if I'm in need of one. It doesn't faze him one bit. Body's are natural and boys or girls they need to understand the normality of it.