How do I fill the void my ex left?
Your still young im pretty sure you will find someone else soon! but first you have to completely get over your ex and that only happens within time. u think that someone new will help you forget but the truth is that in the long run that only backfires! believe me im going thru something very similar... i have a bf and i love spending time with him bcus he makes me forget , but i just realized that i still havent gotten completely over my ex! and i dont want to hurt my current bf he doesnt deserve that, but i need my space to mourn my past! I didnt wait enough time for my heart to completely heal... thats what you need, take this time as time for yourself go out with your friends try new things, a different look ... god knows how many stuff you can do, but first of all learn love yourself .... and with time you will start filling up that little void.. with happiness you will see for your self... just be careful no drug addictions nor anything like that ok,,,,, YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD! :)
Trying to FILL a VOID in my life...?
I'm 24yrsold, have an okay job, support myself, live alone, have decent things w/a nice car. I also go to school parttime right now, and plan on going fulltime in the fall. I take care of everything myself, financially, emotionally, every way possible I take care of my things/problems myself. Anyway, on the outside it appears as if I have it all together. No one ever thinks I have problems, they kind of laugh when I tell them I do, or when I tell people I am not happy. Because on the surface I try to keep things appearing together and positive, no one ever takes my hardships seriously it what it seems. Lately I've been feeling like I have a serious void I am looking to fill. I don't know what it is. I don't know what else to strive for in life. I have no clue what I really want anymore, since I am kind of content with what I have at the moment. Maybe I'm just bored?People, places, things, pets, these things don't correct my problem. I've tried all of them. I need meaning, I think. HELP
Am I filling an empty void in her life?
As you said the void in her life, it is hard to get over a relationship or death. Many women do not go on dating until they feel they have closed that part of their life. My husband died, and myself with the children and the grandchildren it is hard to move on they come and talk about his birthday, paintings things who use to say. I told my grandson once what would you do if I had a friend over, he would have to leave, they feel so careful to cover for me, and protect me it is crazy, I go outside are you alright etc, they feel I do not have a life since the death which has been years. You make this woman feel good and secure and nothing is wrong with that, I believe she really cares for you, and looking for a relationship, but you know she may be hurt especially if you do not feel the same, tell her you want to be friends if this is the case and then as they say friends become lovers you need to feel secure also, and not think you are being used, be friends first, tell her that so she can have a level of honest with you and caring about her needs. Good luck!
Getting pregnant to fill a void, acceptable or no?
I understand where you are coming from!! No one should make up your mind when you want a baby No one on yahoo answers, should be trying to dictate to you when it is right for you to have a family It is upto YOU and the guy involved ONLY! Dont base what you do in life on some text on a website, do what you feel is best for you If you want to get pregnant, no one is stopping you, you can do it whenever you want and like someone else has said, many children are growing up in worse conditions e.g to crack head parents, abusive parents, neglectful parents... that is alot worse!! If you honestly believe you can do it, go ahead! I've been pregnant twice in my life, im 24 and i lost both pregnancies, so im trying again to have a living healthy child, and i get some stupid people telling me im too young!! f off!! 14 or 16 is too young not 24!! i tell them that im the one who has to bring this child up not them, and i make my own life what i want no one else! i wont stop wanting a child until i am a parent I have already lost 2 so what do i have to lose now, and dont let anyone tell you when to parent! Marriage, love blah blah.. a baby is a baby no matter how or why it was bought into the world, inside outside of marriage doesnt matter AS LONG as you love, care and look after that child right, it shouldnt matter!!
I use porn to fill the void?
Best option is to just cut off the porn. Completely. It is pretty darn addicting, and the process will be rough, but do it for your girlfriend. If you still feel the urge, you can still masturbate. But do it without the porn. You clearly have strong feelings for your girl. It is natural to miss the sex, and you have to realize that you won't get a suitable substitute. Porn exists for instant gratification, just like drugs. Doing it so often will **** your life up. So what should you do? Fantasize about your girl. I do it whenever I need to..... Well.... Let off some steam. Because if you are going to be thinking about sex, and you will, it might as well be sex with her. Use your imagination, not your computer. It still ain't as good as the real thing, but it keeps you away from Internet addiction and keeps you thinking about her. (disgusting? A little. But it's better than getting in the "must have quick sex" mindset that ruins relationships.)
How do you fill an empty void?
The best thing to fill an empty void with is love.