If my girlfriend talks to other guys do i have the right to be mad?
Listen bro, did you ever have a time in your life when you were a kid and your parents told you that you weren't allowed to do something such as see rated R movies, play with matches? When they restricted you from doing something you probably felt (like most normal people) the urge to do it! People want what they can't have, especially something that is forbidden. By you showing to your gf that her seeing this guy gets you upset is only going to make it more fun for her to do it.The more she shouldn't be seeing him the more she is going to want to. So, YES, you have the right to be mad, you have a gut feeling that something fishy is going on, and you want to protect a girl whom you've invested time in, so its only normal that you are mad. This might sound crazy, but the solution is to bahave indifferent, don't mention anything negative about him, don't ask about him, or tell her not to chill with him. If you ask her ''so what did you do today'' and she responds '' I chilled with (the guy)'' you respond by asking ''oh pretty cool...change subject''. This my friend is the solution, anything esle will only make you look like an obsessive jealous bf,and insecure because you think he's got something you don't. But since you are confident that you can get her and girls better than her you shouldn't get to you too much.
Is it right for me to talk with a guy who already has a girlfriend?
Keep the distinction between a friend Girl and a Girl Friend clearly in mind. It would be better for you to check with his girl friend whether she is comforatble with you being around.If she is hyper sensitive, you better avoid the couple.If they jointly approach you for friendship , accept it. If she comes on her own, ask her whether she minds your talking to him. Some immature girls are over -possessive and will make a song and dance if their boys talk to other girls. They end up mostly spoiling the bond.Another way to test this is : would you be comfortable if he was your boy friend and she was the one making new frienship with him?
How do I tell a guy I don't want to talk to him?
Girl, your concerns are valid. Even if he doesn’t like you, sending you late night messages is inappropriate.Tell him how you feel. There are a couple different options here.Firstly, you could take the indirect route, and send him a message. Say, “hey X, I like hanging out with your club, but I have no interest in dating you. I’m sorry.”Secondly, you could take the direct, confrontational route. (This is obviously more difficult, but having adopted it recently in my own life, I urge you to take this opportunity to practice. It feels really good afterwards.)“Hey, X, I love being a part of the club, but, to be honest, your messages are making me feel a bit uncomfortable. I’m afraid I don’t see you as anything other than a friend.” The politest, and fastest, way for you to get him to stop bugging you is to get his attention before or after the club. If you feel unsafe around him, make sure one of your friends is also waiting for you afterwards.I want you to be straightforward. We, as women, have a hard time saying no. It’s because we’re told from birth to be über-considerate of the feelings of men who’re attracted to us, and so we try our best to let everyone down easily.BUT if you say, “sorry, I’m just not that interested right now,” he hears: oh great, now I just have to wait! Or another favorite of mine, “sorry, I have a boyfriend,” he hears: oh great, now I just have to wait!You want to convey your message in a clear and concise manner. You can still get this point across without being unkind.Most likely, he will brush it off and pretend like he didn’t like you, or act shocked. That’s alright, just prepare yourself for it. You can do it :)
Is it right for me to tell my girlfriend to stop talking to other guys?
Going anonymous on this one for obvious reasons.Back when my wife and I were first dating, she cheated on me. It was rough, we broke up, didn’t get back together for years.When we started fresh, I had one condition for the relationship - that she not have any communication with the guy she had slept with. If she wanted to be friends with him, she could not date me. She had apparently long since having stopped talking to this person, they never spoke since, we got back together, and we’re married now.I don’t do anything to enforce that rule - she hangs out with whoever she wants to hang out with, I’m not keeping tabs on her, I don’t invade her privacy, go through her phone, etc. I never attempted to dictate my wife’s actions, I only expressed my position that if he came back into the picture that I would not stay. I leave her to make her own decisions.Does my situation justify what you want to do? I have no idea.Now, here’s the deal… I think it’s fair to have circumstances that you can and can’t accept in relationships. That’s setting boundaries. But you can’t try to control another person. In situations like these, a slippery slope between setting your boundary and trying to exert control on another person. You can draw a line and say “if you do XYZ, I won’t date you”, but you can’t say “don’t do XYZ”.And yes, we are married now. What worked for me was trusting my partner.Trust is earned, but it is also reciprocated. If you treat a person like you don’t fully trust and accept them, you create incentives for them to be dishonest with you. On the flip side, if you treat a person with trust, you create incentives for them to be open with you and to honor that trust.I can’t tell you what’s right for your case with the context given. There are people here that will tell you you’re wrong or being controlling for feeling the way you do. There are people who will tell you to just end things. I was in a similar situation with my girlfriend years ago and we’re married now. It’s all in how you approach it.
What do guys mean when they say " I don't wanna talk about it"?
Well then they don't want to talk about it. *Most* of the time when a guy says that, he means it, and it's best to let him say what's on his mind in his own time. If he doesn't don't keep asking about it right away. Wait for things to cool down between you both and be patient. If he doesn't say anything within a day or two, then ask and say something humble. Like, "You know, I know you said you don't want to talk about this, but I think it's important that we get this out in the open. That's just me though. If it's all good, then fine."
My girlfriend won't stop talking to a guy I don't like?
My girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 weeks, although we went about as an unlabelled couple for about 2 months before then. She recently met a guy through one of her close friends, and they started texting etc. I told her I had a bad feeling about him, she wouldn't listen, saying he was just a friend. Then the other night he sent a text saying he liked her and it was a shame she had a boyfriend and **** like that. So naturally, I got mad, and texted him back off her phone telling him to stop talking to her, as I know what his intentions are, and that I will only warn him this once. He seemed to back off after that. Then I find out they are still texting, and I told my girlfriend to stop talking to him as I am uncomfortable with it and he has already proven to be a potential threat. Yet she continually refuses, saying that I need to trust her and that I'm too controlling etc. which is not the case, I trust her and let her talk to and hang out with her guy friends, as she has quite a few, it's just this one guy that I don't like, and she knows I have a good reason to want them to stop talking. I feel like if she really cared about and respected me and the relationship, she would stop talking to him. But she won't, and tries to turn it around on me whenever I try to explain why I don't want them talking. What should I do?
How to talk to this guy in my math class?
Ok, well there's this guy in my math class who sits in front of me. ----------------him me And he's kinda cute. And I want to know how I should talk to him. I don't know anything about him except for that he played football since he wears our school's football sweatshirt and he's on jv basketball because I saw him at a game. But the main problem is that we only have like 5 minutes at the end of class when it's not dead silent because the teacher is teaching, then we learn a new section then we do our homework then 5 minutes before the bell rings we stack our chairs and wait by the door. I don't know what to say, how to say it...help? advice? would it seem weird if I just talked to him? I don't want him to think I'm coming onto him or anything.
Do girls love calm guys who don't talk much?
Almost all girls feel safe and even confident around them.Shy guys coulr be every girl’s dream conversationalist.They hardly talk, and they’re really good at just listening to the girl.Girls like that.They definitely love a cute shy guy who can just watch us, smile to himself and listen to everything they have to say.Girls are intrigued by a shy guy. And even the smallest gesture by a shy guy can make a huge difference to a girl, especially if she likes him already.Most of the girls wants:1. A guy who can protect her2. A guy she can depend on3. A guy who can pursue herNow these three things that every girl needs may seem simple, but this is where almost every shy guy fails. Do you realistically think you have the bold presence of a guy who can protect the girl from any trouble when she’s with you? Do you think she can depend on you to sort any issue out for her? And if you’re so shy that you can’t even have a conversation with her, can you really woo her and impress her by pursuing her when she’s playing hard to get?Well, shy guys fail miserably in all three requirements. And that’s where a perfect shy guy who is every girl’s dream loses a great girl and ends up becoming her friend instead of her boyfriend.
Is it ok too date or talk to more then one guy at a time?
ok like i never done this. epically talking to two guys at the same time. i was talking to a guy, but all of a sudden he kindof stoped talking to me for a while soo a old friend was trying to talk to me at the same time. I like the 1st guy alot but i knw his not ready for a relationship. n the old friend is annoying but i still like him in a way. but idk if im ready for a relationship. i dnt want to get these guys the wrong idea. eventhough i told my old friend i dnt want a relationship but he thks i could change my mind with him. but i dnt thk soo idk?!
I like this guy, can't talk to him.I don't even know what to do anymore! HELP ME!?
I'm not going to read the whole thing because it's too big of a block (paragraphs are good), but if your problem is pretty much stated in your question there here is my advice to you: If you can't talk to the guy because you get too nervous around him to do so, then it's possible you don't like him the way you think you do. Generally, someone you really like you find easy to talk to whether you get nervous or not. Of course there are exceptions to things like these, but, from what I've seen, people who can't talk to other people don't like each other as much as they think. In that case, you probably just admire him. If you're positive that, no, you absolutely like him just like you think you do, then you really do need to just try your best to talk to him. Now, this doesn't necessarily mean walking up to him in the hall and striking up a conversation. It could mean asking your friends to invite him to hang out with you sometime, or volunteering to work with him on something in class (whenever you do have one with him). As far as convincing him you're not a stalker goes, your best option would be to stop trying to force contact on him. That means no more notes and no texts unless you have something important, helpful, or really interesting to say. I know that can be hard, but if he's under the impression you're obsessed with him, then notes and texts aren't going to make that any better. If I think of anything that would be more helpful to you, I'll let you know. Until then, good luck. ^^