Anyone ever have a really bad birthday?
So today is my birthday. I turned 15 today. It might be the worst birthday of my life. My parents are in another country for work right now and won't be back for another two weeks. They've been gone for a week so far. One of my siblings is away at college and didn't call to wish me a happy birthday. Two other siblings are in another state. Both of who didn't remember it was my birthday. And my last sibling promised to bring me out for a little treat since I'm so bummed out that my parents aren't here. But now she claims she's just not up to it so she's in my parents bed watching movies. And lastly, my best friend is away. So right now, I'm all alone in my room with no one to spend my birthday with. I know that a lot of you probably have had way worse birthdays that don't even compare to mine but I guess that's why I'm asking this question. Any really bad birthdays you wanna relive?
My best friend forgot to tell me happy birthday today.. What can I tell her to make her feel bad?
Ok, ok, I know this question is pretty messed up. I'm over here asking what I can tell my "best friend" to make her feel bad for forgetting my birthday.. But honestly, i'm the one who feels really bad. It kind of hurts.. If I was hoping anyone would wish me a happy birthday, I was hoping it was her. We were in love for 2 years.. just recently decided to be friends just 6 days ago. I just want her to feel bad for not wishing me a happy birthday so she can understand how I feel.. I don't want to make her mad, just upset.. err guilty, you know? I want her to know how I feel. This will probably be a fun question to answer.. please no profanity or anything offensive. ty
Would it be really bad if I gave my best guy friend a lap dance for his birthday?
Yeah its bad to give your guy bestfriend a lap dance you should not give him a lapdance what if its filmed and then put on facebook and youtube.
I got my friend a really nice birthday present but she barely got me anything, I'm annoyed. Am I the bad best friend for being mad at her or is she for not investing in our friendship?
It can be both, it would be that you are the bad best friend or she is not investing as much in your friendship.Just because you got something nice, doesn't mean that she has to. It could be that both of you are in a different financial spot. A lot of times people hide how far in debt they are just to seem happy. I can tell you I am one of them, and I try for my friends, but there are times I just can't match it. Difference is, I am vocal with my friends about it, and we have a open communication.It could be that she is not investing enough in your friendship. I don't know how old you are, but if you're in highschool, it could be that her parents don't give her that much of an allowance, college could go the same way. If you're older then it could be that she doesn't feel the same way about you.TALK to HER. you guys are friends.
If a friend of mine didn't invite me to her birthday party but she invited everyone else in the friend group, what should I do?
It depends on the friendship that you have with that person, and on what you want to do.You can end the friendship or you can keep it - it’s entirely your choice.If you are fairly close and you perhaps have gotten that person a present, you can still continue on being friends with them.If this one instance - you not being invited to the party - is a deal-breaker (as the wording of the question makes it sound), then perhaps the friendship is not as strong as you have believed it to be.Reasons for that are numerous, such as you already sensing that it’s falling apart (and your mind is yet to catch on to it), or this friend being more of an acquaintance than a true friend, or not being friends at all with this person (and now asking strangers to provide an insight to the person whom you allegedly know).There are also purely human factors - such as forgetfulness (you not being in top 50 list of friends) or perhaps this person was assuming that you are a good friend, so you don’t need an official invitation (yes, it means you have proven to be an unreliable friend and prone to assumptions).Until you stop asking others for advice and either ask that person about it (perhaps it was a true oversight) or end this friendship because you didn’t get some cake, you won’t realize that the choice in it is yours.As you have already assumed the worst about this person, you can simply disappear from their life - you have many other friends on whom to spend your time.In terms of your comment, withholding friendship has been proven as a bullying technique in kids as young as 2 years old.When you are older, and you’re looking for a life partner or when you look for a job, absolutely no one will ask you about the number of friends you’ve had in school and what kind of quarrels you got into with them. It’s yesterday’s news.For now, if you don’t want to be with this kindergarten-level crowd, let them be: they want to leave, well, hold the door open for them; if they expect you to beg to be in that circle again, ask if you want to be with these people (by associating yourself with them, you become one of them).Being on your own and adjusting to the new environment is not easy, but this is how you build character. Since you now have some free time on your hands, you should spend it on personal development - as you need a pick-me-up, I personally recommend “The Art of War”
My friend gives me really bad gifts?
Some people just aren't that big into giving gifts. I have a friend like that, too, and while it's easy to feel hurt or offended that she doesn't put as much thought or money (despite being 7 times richer than I am--I'm not exaggerating) into gift-giving as I do, I just think it's not her "thing". For instance, I am legitimately poor, but I took the time, thought, and money to buy her a Christmas gift I thought she would like. Her Christmas gift to me: items cleaned out of her pantry and thrown into a recycled gift bag. She's very well off, too. However, she shows me the value of our friendship in other ways, putting more time into maintaining the friendship than I do, with phone calls and visits. Then again, maybe she's just lobbying for the awesome presents she knows I'll give her! Some people are just cheap. She's admitted as much and all her friends know it, too. If the friendship enriches your life in some way, then consider that the gift. You can also buy her cheaper presents. Meaningful friendships aren't about the material goods we give each other.
16th birthday blues?
ok so todays my 16th birthday and i woke up and opened my cards ( on my own) then my mum woke up and it took her half an hour before she said happy birthday. No presents at all. but luckily other family members sent me money in cards so i can go shopping. anyway my step dad gave me £20 so i used that and my birthday money and went out with friends and had a good day on the way home i thought hopefully they cooked one of my fav meals but i came home to find we were having pork which i can't stomach so i just had chocolate .. then i find out i have no cake . Then it gets better . Me and my mum were flying over to london tomorow for a day out shopping for my birthday but my mum turned round and said oh london tomorrow is to inconvenient because lauren and adam ( my bro and sis) are going to devon. So evan though we already booked the flights we arn't going, All my mates are busy tonight or on holiday so it looks like im sitting in alone any ideas what i can do to cheer myself up.
What was the most horrible birthday you have ever had?
My 19th birthday was on a Friday. I had it all planned out. Friday through to Monday I had party's to go to. It was going to be amazing.On the Wednesday before my 19th I met a friend. He wanted to take me out clubbing. I went. That night him and his cousin raped me.The Thursday was mostly spent in the police station. Going over what happened. At some point in the day they drove me around the area so I could point out where it happened. Later that night, I was taken to a center to do a rape kit. I spoke to a counsellor who I would then go on to meet once a week.The morning of my birthday I was driven home by a police officer. It was the early hours of the morning. I got home and my room had been cleaned and a pizza and garlic bread was on my chest of drawers to eat. I couldn't eat. I just went to sleep.When I woke up I had to go and collect my PEP medication. My rapists didn't use condoms. This was supposed to lower my chances of getting HIV if my rapists were HIV+.The whole day I barely spoke. I didn't want to talk to anyone. I knew if I did, I would end up crying. And I didn't want that. My phone was constantly buzzing. People wanting to know where I was. Why I wasn't answering my calls. I couldn't talk. I didn't eat. I didn't eat for two weeks after it happened. I only started eating again after I ended up in hospital. Other than going and collecting my PEP medication I didn't leave my bedroom. I couldn't. I couldn't bare the thought of people looking at me differently. People feeling sorry for me. My grandparents (who knew what happened), and my uncle came to my room at one point to give me a birthday card and presents. After 1 minute of them being in my room I had to ask them to leave. I completely broke down. I've always hated crying around people and didn't wanna cry infront of them.Most of my 19th birthday was spent in my bedroom, crying. Everytime I shut my eyes I would see my rapists and cry even more. I cut my arms and legs with a broken cd case to try to control my feelings. It didn't help. I would cry some more. My 19th birthday was the worst birthday I've ever had.
Why is my birthday a bad luck ?
I know it sounds weird but I was born January 23rd 1998, and as long as I can remember it had always been a bad luck for me, something bad happens during this period ex : last year I had a fight with my parents, the year before with my best friend and much more all I can remember is that I'm never happy on that day... and the bad luck starts a week before so today we're wednesday 16 so it means there's one week left for my birthday and I got into trouble at school cause of a misunderstanding so I just wanna know if someone has an explanation for what's going on every year...I know it probably seems lame to a lot of people but I just can't handle another year of bad luck...