Me and my girlfriend have nothing to talk?
ok well me and my girlfriend have been going out for the past 4 months almost and i really love her but when we talk she has to start the conversation and it usually doesnt last too long.. well we're in high school and our school is really gay and dont like any touching wat so ever so i only get to kiss her maybe 3 times a day which sux they are really strict on well everything and we hardly have anytime to just talk becuz we're always dealing with our friends having problems... and it gets in the way of us having a good relationship and i dont have my license yet so i cant really take her out or anything but i get them in a month... and well everytime we talk on the phone idk wat to say and at school we dont have much time to spend with each other and we only have 2 classes together and lunch and im tired of not having much to say to her... i cant always tell her wat im feeling cuz i kno for a fact she would get mad... plz help
My girlfriend and I have nothing in common?
I've never been in love before until her and I started dating. I'm her first kiss, she's my first girlfriend I've fell in love with (I've had a lot) I'm so comfortable around her, we've been dating for 4 months and known each other for around 8 months. We both love each other, we're much different from other relationships, we are comfortable on literally everything together. We are going to lose our virginities with each other soon :). But the thing is, we don't have many things in common, like we don't have "everything" in common. We have small things like we want to travel the world, we like some of the same movies and music, but not much, she has a best friend that's a guy and she has everything in common with him and that gets me super jealous :(. Is it bad we have nothing in common? Do you think they would be a good couple rather than us being a good couple? Be honest.
My girlfriend says we have nothing to talk about. She’s feeling distant. What can we do to rekindle our relationship?
I see many relationship questions like this on Quora every week:“My boyfriend doesn’t call or text me much anymore. What should I do?”“All my partner and I seem to do is argue with each other all the time. What should I do?”“My boyfriend(girlfriend) seems so distant recently. What should I do?”I always guess that a bad (toxic) relationship is the root cause, but lately I have developed a theory on the basic cause.Many decades ago when people dated, many of them actually made it to their honeymoon. For those that started early, they were usually is a serious relationship or engaged before they started sharing one another.A couple of decades ago when our sons were starting dating, especially in college, young people often were in bed together by the third date. I’m not saying that is bad. The problem is that God (or mother nature) designed human sex as a very powerful bonding experience that works great for holding marriages together. But when a young couple starts out having sex too early it becomes so “bonding” that they overlook many issues that really make them not a long range compatible couple. They exist in a toxic relationship based (loosely) on good (or OK) sex. When they are not in bed, the relationship is not good. Thus, we end up with Quora relationship questions looking for help.I say all this for those couples where this might apply. Do you really have anything “solid” in your relationship other that the sex part? If the honest answer is “no.” Please consider calling it off and move on. Life is too short for toxic relationships.
Can girls have guy friends? without messing around?
Girls can have guy friends and it not mean it leads to more. I always had nothing but guys for friends and one girl friend for my best friend..and dating. That didn't work out so well. My bf forbid me to talk to any of my guy friends and even beat one of them up. Yeah..he had that "guys and girls can NEVER be just friends" mentality. But...reading the text she and he wrote back and forth....I'd question it. Being that it is texting you could be reading it wrong. I'd just flat out ask her and tell her how you feel insecure about her relationship with him. How you are giving you the impression that she and he are messing around and other people are telling you this too. Dunno what else to say. Hope you figure it out.
My girlfriend says that I'm normally not her type. Should I be worried there are men out there that are more?
The question came up when we were talking about her last boyfriend. I said "who is better looking, me or him?" thinking for sure it was me. She said, "well, you're taller". Ouch... consolidation prize. I said "you think he's better looking?" And she said, "I wouldn't say that, just more my type. He is the type of looks I would usually go for or notice first, don't you have a certain type that you're attracted to?". My reply was "no, beauty comes in all shapes and flavors for me, I can't put my finger on one type". He had dark hair and I have blonde, I know but don't know much more. I've been curious to go check him out so I can see what her "type" is because I know where he works. He was also condiderably younger than me and her. But she says I have nothing to worry about and I'm the total package of all the things she liked in her previous boyfriends and she loves me and not anyone else. But it makes me crazy to think about a certain "type" that my girlfriend notices and likes, and I'm not it! How should I feel or how do I forget that?
I cant seem to trust my girlfriend and im worried?
I have a girlfriend who i been dating for 4 month now.. She has never done anything wrong to me.. never caught her cheating.. always honest with me about everything I ask her.. I feel that sometime she even loves me more then i love her.. she is such a good girlfriend to me but i still can't find why i cannot trust her... I asked her how much she trusted me back and she said like a lot. I make the littles things she does the biggest issue ever.. she just hung out with her friend which was a guy for one day and forgot to tell me and now im trip over about it.. I dont know what to do now? I know it may sound kinda lame or childish but any advice would help me... Thanks.
I caught my girlfriend secretly recording me, audio and video. She said it was to play back for me to show me how I act at times. We do fight sometimes, but to record me and save them seems suspicious. What do you think?
I dunno. I think she is on to something. Seriously.Here's the thing. It's hard to argue with video. You can argue with a person... they might forget things, or mistake things... or take things out of context when they reply. But you can't argue with direct recorded evidence.If you have a discussion with your girlfriend, and you keep on contradicting yourself but you won't admit to contradicting yourself... one of her only recourses is to record the conversation and show you directly where you contradicted yourself. I'm all for that.It isn't like she is recording you while you are alone in a room... to try to catch you doing things you don't want her to know about. She's recording you during a time when you and she are RIGHT THERE. If you are being honest with her when you talk with her, and you are not contradicting yourself... if you are doing nothing wrong, you have nothing to worry about.What is she going to do... show the recordings to other people? What's the worse that can happen, right? People will see and hear you say all the things you would have said to them... right? It isn't like she is really capturing you being two faced, or contradictory, or being manipulative, or lying or anything like that... is she?This isn't a cop thing. This is between you and her. If you are doing nothing wrong, then there's nothing the video can be used for against you.I think you are worried, because you CAN'T argue with video... and her recording discussions the two of you have is actually doing what she intended it to do. It is proving she's right. About whatever. You can't stand that, so you need a reasonable argument for why she shouldn't be recording you. There isn't one. Oh sure, she shouldn't record you if she trusts you... but for whatever reason, trust is gone. At this point, she's looking for concrete evidence of you doing something you say you don't do. If she's resorting to video, that means she believes she is in the right... and she knows you can't argue with video either.I'm leaning towards her having valid reasons to record you. Try straightening yourself out. Maybe she'll stop all on her own.