I'm REALLY scared to confront my mom?!?
Jessica, if it's bothering you this bad, honey, I feel you should either have a talk with your mom, or do write her a note. IF you feel you can't talk to her, write her a note & leave it somewhere you know she'll find it when you're not around. You can't & shouldn't keep letting it upset you as it is. I know it no doubt scares you with the tho't of possibly breaking up your family. Of how it would hurt your dad. You of course love both of them & don't want anything to happen to them. Make up your mind you're going to do it once & for all just to get it out in the open & clear your mind. You must have some reason to believe it or it wouldn't be bothering you as it is. Get it out, honey, & at least that will make you feel a bit better. Just tell her you're worried & the reason, that's all you need to say. She'll then no doubt talk to you. Or put on the note "can we talk". Try to stay calm until you find out the truth...the best to you, honey...:)
Im scared to tell my mom i have a boyfriend?
Oh Man, reading what you've written really brings back memories. I was 14 when i had my first boyfriend. and oh man i was sooo nervous to tell my mother about him. i wasn't sure she would approve of it. until one day i finally got the nerves to speak to her and i brought up the subject about having a boyfriend. and she said she would think about it. One day i invited him over to my house to meet my mother and she ended up liking him. so she was pretty okay with it. Maybe you should bring up the subject on having a boyfriend and see how she reacts. If you guys do like eachother alot then let her meet his parents. After all theres always a first time for everything. Wish You Lots of luck ! be bravee =)
I'm really scared my dad is going to kill me and my mom?
My dad has a mental illness of some sort, personality disorder or something. Right now I'm sitting in my room shaking because I'm so scared. He does this all the time, but nothing like this. He's went through the house raving because my mom threw a bottle of pills across the floor and said "THEY'RE GONE". He flipped on both of us. When this happens, I go into sort of a shock and I start shaking violently, feel like I'm going to get sick, or feel like I'm going to pass out. He told me to my face that if I called the cops and put him in jail, he would hire a hitman to kill my mom. He and my mom have been together for 30+ years and he had beat on her all the way up until I was born. He stopped until just about a two years ago when it gradually started getting worse. He broke her glasses today, tried to choke her, slammed a book in her face, and continued to scream at both of us. I have six pets, two dogs (one is dog-dog aggressive) and four cats that I am not willing to leave her for him to stomp all over and possibly kill. Our family hates us and won't take us in. What should I do?
Im really afraid and scared when my mom and sister go away?
Hello, It sounds like you are going through a lot right now with your mom and sister gone out of town. Sometimes this can be a form of anxiety, particularly when you are separated from people that mean a lot to you. Anxiety can affect you in many ways including your breathing, your sleep, interaction with others, and mood. Some people might experience a few anxiety (panic) attacks while others can have more. Sometimes these feelings can come about because of specific situations and they can cause you to become really emotional. These feelings can be hard to cope with on your own and talking with someone could help. Try reaching out to a close friend or family member, especially while your mom and sister are out of town. Sometimes those around you may not even know how anxious you are feeling. When you start feeling this way, it is important to remind yourself to relax and consider things that can help you to calm down even further. Deep breathing and stretching can help you ease muscle tension and take care of the physical symptoms of anxiety too. Try activities that you like in order to get your mind off of the feelings as well. Activities like working out, journaling, listening to music, or reading a book are all good options to distract yourself. Try to relax and take time to do those kinds of activities to see if they help. Whatever you plan to do, please keep reaching out and take care! TM, Counselor
It's thunder storming right now. I'm really really scared!! Advice please! HURRY!!! PLEASE!!?
I'm am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo scared of thunderstorms! Please give me advice! I'm scared my house is gonna get struck by lightning! The lightning really really freaks me out. I need something that will comfort me. I'm with my mom, I'm a fairly young age. Any good prayers I can say to protect my family? I need something very comforting. My friend's house's laundry room got struck by lightning.( That was a long time ago ) I'm very scared and I'm afraid something is going to happen to me. It's suppose to thunderstorm all night long and I'm especially afraid of them during the night when we have to go to sleep. PLEASE tell me some prayers I can say to protect my family and stop the storm. Is this just a part of summer?
I missed the bus and im scared to tell my mom?
okay, so right now its 9:00 and my bus comes at 8:45. My mom is home and could wake up at anytime right now. I can't walk to school because by walking distance it would take me an hour or two. (Im small and have short legs plus i have really bad asthma and its so humid out right now) i don't have a bike and all my neighbors are at work right now. I don't have any family or friends to take me either. So the only way to get to school is to get my mom to take me. Its not a big deal of her taking me, but the problem of why i'm scared is I've missed to much time. I've missed 63/180 days of school. I've also been late over 20 times. (Family issues, also i have bad health) how do i tell my mom? also what could i say to lie so im not in as much trouble? (I hate lying, but im terrified of my mom.) I can't say my alarm went off late because she woke me up at 7. Also i can't skip because my school calls my house 3 times a day to notify the parents of my absence. Sorry for any mis-spellings. I'm on my phone.
I'm really scared, my parents are arguing...?
My parents are both ... like ... those people who wants to have the last word... If you know what I mean. Right now, I'm hiding in my room from them... please help... "our dad" (I don't think he is) is always starting trouble with my mom and my mom usually take her anger out on me... So anyways., what can I do about my family... It's really scary and they just won't shut up. :'( In case you're wondering what they're fighting about, they're fighting about air conditioner and it moved all the way to the subject of divorce.
My mom is so mad at me and I'm scared, what do I do?
Just calm down.One time, I didnt speak to her because I was too busy with my phone and she got so mad she started to grab my phone and threw it on the floor— with a touch of grounding me for weeks.Also, similar to your case, she tried to call me many times when I was hanging out with my friends and I forgot to call or even text her where I was. She was so pissed.Another, when she called me on my phone waiting at the driveway while I was too busy at school talking with my buddies— she threw a fit saying why the heck was I being insensitive and not caring about her texts and calls.Trust me, kiddo, it wont last long. Let her calm down. Do not engage by talking back— it will be worse. Just listen— do not spite.And like I said, calm yourself down.She just loves you and if she didnt— she wouldnt have gotten mad. She reminds me of my mother— they are both the same.
Really scared about dyeing my hair blonde?
I seriously can't sleep right now because I'm really scared. Yes, I care that much about my hair :p So tomorrow I'm going to my moms house (my parents are divorced) and her friend who went to a hairstyling school is dyeing my hair platnium blonde tomorrow and I'm just really scared. 1. I need to bleach my hair because my hair is dark brown right now and I hear your hair can fall out if you bleach it. 2. People may make fun of you if you dye your hair blonde :/ 3. It could turn orange or really yellow or break off DX 4. It takes so long for it to be the perfect blonde? That's what I heard. And yeah... I'm just so scared. Are any of these true? Are these highly likely to happen? I just want my hair to be the perfect platnium blonde and I'm just scared It might turn out orange or yellow or even worse.. Green :((( Should I be so scared? Are those things actually truly and likely to happen? Thanks!