How to delete 'I'????
First of all understand that U are not a single " I ".. U are a just a mixture of many "Is"...And out of that still U hv come in contact of very few "Is".....& there are so many hiden "Is" whom still U hv 2 face....So as U are, U can never delete d "I"....Nature has made arrangement that at a time U never encounter two "Is"....other wise U would hv gone mad...Imagine if U experience both at a time love n hate...U will become terified...U say how U can be free from All "Is"....4 that U hv 2 find out wich I is selfish , wich one is supirior or infirior...And 4 that U hv to creat one single individual "I" in U,, who can watch all other "Is".....And mazic is such when ur single "I"will looks at all ur "Is" ...all will get dissolve by itself.....& then single "I" olso U can surrender. At present U r not one U r divided in many....so nither U hv energy nor will 2 do anything......To do all things U need will n energy...4 that U need 2 hv 4 tools....SELF REMEMBERING....SELF OBSERVATION...NON IDENTIFICATION...& DIVIDED ATTENSAN......if U are really interested,U hv 2 join Gurdjieff's school... whose contect no is 09870550891...n hv informations..Any way ur quastion was wonderful n intelegent...
How can I find out whether my partner is using dating sites?
I really haven’t been in that situation, so I had to google some things around and I can say that I’ve found pretty impressive stuff.How to find out if someone is on a dating site1. Create an online dating profile“I did not have to do that in my case as I didn’t suspect anything and my friend had come across his profile by pure chance. Nevertheless, not everyone is going to be as lucky as me. If you feel like something is different in your partner’s behavior, you might want to create a fake online dating profile and see if you can spot them on there.”2. Change your information“Don’t use your own photo, age, appearance features, or any other information that might lead him to that it is you. Many online dating sites allow the users to know who viewed their profile. You don’t want them to find out that you have been checking up on him. Be creative and change your information as much as possible. Don’t forget to also change your profession, education, personality traits, goals and other.”3. Check the browsing history���Another way on how to find out if someone is registered on a dating site is to check the browsing history. If you and your partner share a computer or any other device, you can check the browsing history and see what comes up. While a lot of people tend to delete their browsing history when they are hiding something, there is a chance they could have forgotten to do so. It is not a very reliable method, as your partner most likely would delete the history after being on the online dating site. However, if they did not erase it, you will have all the proof you need right there. Don’t try to access the device that does not belong to you as this is an illegal activity.These things are enough to help you out. I think that I’ve been of help somehow.
What is the cheapest thing you've seen a mega-rich person do?
I gave her computer lessons. This was more than ten years ago.She lived with her husband in a three-storied mansion in one of the nicer neighborhoods in Jerusalem, the kind of house that screams opulence: Italian marble, gold-rimmed mirrors in the bathrooms, enough rooms to play hide-and-seek for a lifetime, and a live-in domestic help.She drove a white BMW SUV and her husband a green, spacious Jaguar.They owned a lot of real-estate in both Jerusalem and Tel-Aviv. High-rise buildings worth obscene amounts of money.I charged her the same amount per hour that I charged my other clients.I came to her house every week for a few months. Then I went traveling in India for a while. When I got back, everything was a bit more expensive. Inflation.None of my clients minded my charging ten percent more. “Oh yes, of course, a young man like you could use it!” they had said.She, on the other hand, freaked out when I told her.“You know, prices have gone up,” I said. “Many other freelancers are charging more than I do. I’m asking for ten percent more. I don’t think that’s so much…”She was in her fifties and had a good complexion, but as soon as I finished talking it was as if all those wrinkles biding their time beneath her nice, smooth skin erupted all at once, making her face into a corrugated mask.“WHAT? YOU WANT MORE MONEY?!” she shrieked, the white leather couch squeaking as she shifted around uncomfortably. “WHY?! AREN’T I PAYING YOU ENOUGH?! NO ONE ASKS ME FOR MORE MONEY!”“Okay, okay, it’s fine…” I raised my arms in surrender. “I was just saying… I’m sorry…”The domestic help came in, wearing her starched maid’s uniform, and placed a silver platter with tea cups on the table—the fine bone china sparkling—before sidling out of the room silently.“It’s okay if you don’t agree…” I went on. “Don’t worry about it… it’s really fine…”She sat there pouting for a while in her white training pants and white designer t-shirt and white slippers until the anger cleared from the air. Meanwhile, a brown-striped Persian cat came and leaped onto her lap, as if to console her, and glared at me with its half-moon jade-green eyes.Oh, by the way. Guess what she had me teach her.How to download music [illegally] for free.
Should I believe my husband if he says he will never do this again?
My husbands email got hacked. He thinks it happenned because he went on Craigslist. The person who hacked into his email sent our joint email (on his contact list) an email saying that he wanted money or else he would send his wife (ie-me) proof that he had contacted a masseuse who provides "other services" (if you know what I mean) My husband admitted that he contacted an "escort" by email the week earlier on craigslist and asked her what her hours were. He says the response he got back was that she "worked" days and evenings. He says he never contacted her after that. He says he contacted her because he was feeling depressed about our relationship because he says I am too busy for him and we don't spend much time together. He says he feels lonely but that he never intended to cheat on me, he just wanted some attention. I don't understand this. But I haven't caught him in the act, so I can't divorce him. I WANT to trust him. He has agreed to take a lie detector test, showed me all his personal bank statements and gave me all the passwords to his emails. He's literally gotten down on his knees and begged me not to leave him. He says he made a big mistake and he's glad he got caught and he knows its wrong. I told my counselor this and she thinks he might be a sex addict, although his sex drive doesn't seem overly high to me, unless he's hiding it. I want to trust him but how can I do that, whenI dont' really know what happenned or what might happen in the future. He seems horribly upset and devastated by what he did but how can I trust that he's telling me the full truth. (I haven't told him yet, but I can't find a place to give him a lie detector in our small town)
What is the best thing to do if you're feeling absolutely lost in life?
1. Find something of interest- hobby, avocation, sport, music, social activity, anything of interest, and pursue that interest as far as you can. Most people have something that interests them- collecting coins, finding coins and metal things on the beach with a metal detector, welding, mystery novels. Pursue your interests. If possible join or start a group, club, interest group of like minded people. Write about your developed interest. 2. Find one thing that you do well and notice that not everyone can do this well. Take pride in this skill or talent. Do more of this activity (provided that it is not dangerous, illegal, or harmful to others). This may become a source of self-esteem and meaning in your life.3. Do for others. Help others. Find a way to make a contribution. Volunteer at the Humane Society playing with the kittens or walking the dogs, visit hospitals bringing flower to strangers, learn to transcribe books into braille for the blind, find out how to help the homeless, etc.4. Feel free to continue to focus upon how lost you are (its almost impossible to stop thinking about something by trying) but at the same time do some of the above. The key is "do," "taking action." This allows you to build upon the positive. If you do not feel like doing anything, pretend that you are motivated and try one thing, possibly breaking the activity down into small steps.
What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you in front of your crush?
When I was in 10th grade, my class girls were going crazy about a guy , Naveen* . But I always said ‘he doesnt seem that good’ or ‘ what do you guys see in him ‘ while secretly I did have a crush on him.Now Naveen had a girlfriend named Meena. she was also from the same school.Naveen lived just a few blocks away from my house. I was aware that he lived with his uncle and he was pretty strict.One day, out of jealously (and ofcourse 'teenage' stupidity) I called Naveen's home to sabotage their relationship. I called at a time knowing he'd be in tution and his uncle would answer the call. Back in the day when landlines were common and very few people had caller Id, I was pretty confident he wont have it.The conversation went like,Me: Hi naveen watsup?Uncle: Naveen is not here, whos this?Me: eh? Do you think if you change voice I wouldnot recognise? Stop it Naveen baby.Uncle( Now somewhat irritated): I am his uncle . WHO ARE YOU?Me: now now no need to shout uncle. I am Meena speaking .I am his girlfriend. Didnt Naveen tell you?Uncle: Ohh Is it? Letme see about that. So this is why he has been scoring less in school. (and begins to shout in tamil)I hung up the call and laugh like a maniac. The next week I came to know that he had broken up with his girlfriend. I thought now I could try my luck but never got the courage to even talk to him.Many years pass. We never talked. I finish college and suddenly one day I get a friends request in fb. It was Naveen. My heart was pounding as I accepted the request.We started chatting frequently.And one day out of the blue, he said I knew it was YOU who called that day (7years back). I was shocked I asked How.He said he noted the caller Id and traced it and found out it’s me.It was so embarrassing.Needless to say I was very red faced when we met after a few days.*name changed to protect privacy.
People who spent a long time out of their country, what was your biggest surprise when you came back?
My biggest surprise was that, without me realizing, I had stopped being Mexican. I was born in Mexico but moved to the U.S. for six years the ages of 11 to 17, while my father completed his PhD. I always knew I was going to return to Mexico when my father finished and always thought of myself as Mexican and had fond memories of my home country. But I also made a great effort to learn the US culture and language just to fit in.So my father finished and we returned to Mexico when I was 17, and almost instantly, things started to feel strange. I had the Spanish of an 11 year old, but the English of a 17 year old. All of my middle school and high school knowledge was U.S. based. Let me clarify that at no point was I actively rejecting my Mexican country nor culture. I did not feel superior for having lived in the U.S., nor did I even think that I would make my life in the U.S. But something felt strange.4 years later (at 21), while attending college in Mexico, I had the opportunity to do an exchange year at the University of Pittsburgh, in the U.S. Within 24 hours of my arrival in the U.S., my language skills, social interactions, contacts with friends, all came rushing back. That's when I first started really asking myself "what the fuck is going on here?"My breakthrough in understanding came at age 22, when I had returned to Mexico from my exchange year in the U.S. An American Literature professor teaching at my college in Mexico offered a course on the Mexican-American experience. We read short stories about Mexicans living in the U.S, and Americans living in Mexico. It was only then that I realized that my first visit to the U.S. from 11 to 17 had happened during my very formative teenage years, and I had unconsciously really adopted the U.S. culture. Once I became an American teenager I had never stopped being more American than Mexican. I was not rejecting my "Mexican-ness" on purpose, but I did have to admit to myself that I was way more American than I acknowledged. My country of birth had given me my family and great experiences, but the U.S. had become, in a way, my adoptive country.I returned to the U.S. for a work opportunity soon after graduating college. I am now a U.S. citizen, married to an American, with my children born in the U.S. and have lived more than half my life outside of Mexico.So my biggest surprise was that your country of birth doesn't always determine who you'll ultimately become.
What is one thing that I can learn from you today?
I read an answer on my quora feed today containing fake information about the square coloured box on toothpaste relating to the ingredients in toothpaste.Moreover,the answer had more than 20k upvotes.I searched more about this topic on internet and found out that several popular facebook pages and websites published article about this on their website.According to several social media posts, the claim is that the little squares we see on the bottom of a tube of a toothpaste are some sort of toothpaste color code, revealing the nature of the materials within. The post claims that a green mark means the toothpaste is all natural,a blue mark means it contains a mix of natural ingredients and medicine,a red mark means it contains natural ingredients and chemical ingredients,and a black mark means it contains all chemical ingredients. The posts warn people away from using toothpastes with black or red marks and encourage people to pick toothpastes with green or blue ones.The reality is totally different:The squares are actually just part of the manufacturing process, and are called “eye marks.”The hidden information in these coloured squares are read by light beam sensors and literally just tell the high-speed machinery where the packaging needs to be cut and folded.Myth about colour mark on toothpaste tube/Toothpaste Colour Code Myth Busted !The funny thing is that even Times of India published an article about this without verifying the fact.They once again proved that why people hate them and why they are called as toilet newspaper.Why you must check the colour mark on toothpaste tube | The Times of IndiaThe rumours of toxic toothpaste codes was nothing more than a myth.Image source:Google Images.