Do you think man is a wonderful creature?
Man is a wonderful creature; he sees through the layers of fat (eyes), hears through a bone (ears) and speaks through a lump of flesh (tongue). Hazrat Ali in praise of God. He who is greedy is disgraced; he who discloses his hardship will always be humiliated; he who has no control over his tongue will often have to face discomfort. Hazrat Ali Aid from God is in proportion of the trouble. Hazrat Ali A conceited and self-admiring person is disliked by others; charity and alms are the best remedy for ailments and calamities; one has to account in the next world for the deeds that he has done in this world. Hazrat Ali Our affairs are attached to the destiny decreed by God, even our best plans may lead us to destruction. Hazrat Ali One who imagines himself to be all-knowing will surely suffer on account of his ignorance. Hazrat Ali That knowledge which remains only on your tongue is very superficial. The intrinsic value of knowledge is that you act upon it. Like your body your mind also gets tired so refresh it by wise sayings. Hazrat Ali How does a mystic see what an average person misses? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_bM19ZpI8VE&feature=related Thanks very much for enlightening. Peace, Love and Blessings!
Everyone says you are a wonderful person. How do you respond to that?
For now let’s just consider that you are awesome and wonderful.Someone comes to you and praises you by telling that “Hey, you are a wonderful person” .Instead of denying that you’re not or climbing to the 9th cloud already and praising yourself more, just smile. When it’s a genuine compliment from the other person, give them a big smile and feel good, cause not everyone gets to hear such compliments.In my 11th & 12th Std. I had this very sweet friend - Anjali. I’ve never come across such a sweet person ever, I used to often tell her the same to which she used to reply with a smile.One day I had complimented her telling that she’s very calm and composed always (hypothetical, don’t recall the actual compliment) . She instantly denied it and said you haven’t seen me at home, I’m very short tempered and lose my patience easily. Our further conversation went on something like this:Me: Can I tell you something?Anjali: Yeah, sure.Me: The next time when someone compliments you, even if you think you don’t have that good quality in you, smile and tell thank you. Being calm and composed is a very good quality and if you don’t have it make sure you start from that instant to work on it and imbibe that good quality in you. Tell that person thank you and bring positive changes within you, add it to your cart of wonderfulness . The next time someone gives you the same compliment your thank you will be more genuine.Anjali : :)Me : I always do that and it works. ;)So always smile and say thank you to people who compliment you .Consideration time over, come to reality. You’re not awesome and wonderful anymore. You can choose to be though.
Why are gay men so wonderful?
From a woman's perspective, I would guess that these, ahem, "guys" might get you and understand you better than we straight men do. They would enjoy going shopping with you, gossiping, reading Redbook, and Cosmo. And you would get to deal a lot less with that blank stare you periodically get from straight guys where they then utter something really articulate, like...... "Huh?" Plus you would avoid arguments about what to watch on TV when "the game is on." (Although, Kelly, knowing you are a sports fan, I realize this might not be an issue with you; tables turned maybe? You wanna watch the Sox, but he wants to watch the Lifetime channel?) I haven't been around a lot of gay men, but I suspect there may be less flatulence too.
Do handsome men live wonderful lives since they can easily get a beautiful woman?
Physical beauty is not the major attractive trait for women.Social status is the only proven correlation that attracts women.This is why you can be a model looking male, but never get as many women as say a mediocre looking actor.This is why, for example, if I play guitar, (whether I have a six pack or not…which I do…just throwing it out there), it means nothing in terms of attraction to another guitar player that is FAMOUS (whether he has a six pack or not). Famous boy will always get more women than me no matter what I or he looks like.Money and/or fame will ALWAYS get you the most beautiful women and in abundance if you chose. Those are the guys that easily get beautiful women. Not handsome men.
How do you know if you're scared of commitment?
Some of the signals are the ones that Amber mentioned. If everything is going well...it is just never well enough for you. Or, everything is fine & you keep picking fights for no reason or try to find ways to find fault with the other person over silly things. A big indicator is that, no matter how wonderful the man is to you, you are just never happy...he could give you everything you want & more but it is never enough & you can't figure out why. As you might have noticed in this answer...nothing ever seems to be enough, no matter who you are with. The main problem with being scared of committment is that you get to the point that your expectations become so high that no one will ever meet them. This is not to say that you should settle for second best but, at the same time, you've got to allow enough wiggle room so that someone will have a chance to get in there & steal your heart. That's really the saddest part of being scared of committment, in that you never really allow anyone inside your heart enough to understand you at that level which leads to a deeper bond in a relationship. I've been there...was in this kind of phase for most of my life. I finally forced myself to open up &, what do you know, I found a wonderful man who, though he can drive me crazy at times, is so devoted to me (& me to him) that it is almost sickening to watch :) This is the kind of relationship we all deserve but are sometimes too scared to allow to happen. I don't know if this will work for you but here is what I did: I forced myself to look at my own faults & where I was "difficult to deal with". Then, when I encountered something that would have, in the past, caused me to call things off (something which I was always aware was minor in the grand scheme of things) I simply asked myself if this was as bad as some of the things that I knew I would put people through. It helped me a great deal because I made myself think before I'd act which, in the past, had been part of what would lead to the sabotage. I hope this has helped...good luck!
Women, what do you consider romantic/sweet gestures made by men?
Sweet gestures, for me, are borne out of them listening to what I have to say. Anyone can be happy receiving jewelry, but the way to my heart is to show up with a new kettle the day after I discover the old one is 'dead'. I won't presume to know if romance is genuine or a duty for men, but I hope they truly feel it. I know how wonderful it feels for me, so I'm hoping they get it too...
I am asking all honest faithful men, what percentage of men do you really think cheat?
So here's my question, and no I am not asking because I think someone is cheating on me or I want to cheat etc, I just really want to know. All of the honest religious men out there with families, wonderful children, strong family bonds etc. Would you still cheat? I just ask because men are men at the end of the day. Do all of these things listed above make you immune to cheating on your spouse?
Do beautiful women get attracted to ugly men?
All the time. All. The. Time.If you look at most beautiful women they are with ugly or average men. Let's put it like this, how many times do you see handsome men or pretty boys (and I mean REAL pretty boys) with stunningly beautiful women?I’ll answer, not many.In my strong opinion, usually the more attractive the woman is the more averse she is to handsome men or pretty boys.
I found a phone number in my husband's wallet. Men:what do you think?
are you sure it's not work related? before you jump to conclusion and blame your husband, you should just ask. just a thought - good luck
What is a good response for when someone says you're beautiful?
For me, it has different meaning depending who it's coming from:My girl friends: “I love you and happy to see you!” I respond: “You look gorgeous!”Guy friends: “Long time no see.” I respond: “Heeeey, how are you?”Random strangers: “Are you single and ready to mingle?” Me, with serious face: “Eh…thanks.” (meaning no)Kids: “You look beautiful!” Me: “Aww.. Thank you!” *beamingHusband: “Glad I wifed this hot chick. Where are you going?” Me: “I have a business lunch. With a girl.”