My best guy friend is acting so strange lately...is he jealous or something?
The last few weeks, this guy I met in college and I have been writing a lot on each other's facebook wall. My best guy friend and I are very close. We talk all the time, and I always felt we liked each other until he randomly started dating another girl. Well I had to deal with the fact he was with this girl, and it was hard and sucked so bad, but its getting easier. I sorta like this other guy now...but my guy friend has been acting very strange. He's been calling me more, being a little romantic almost, writing on my wall more even. It could just be that he feels like we're not as close so he's "making an effort". We live long distance now too, so its even worse :-( Yesterday, he randomly mentioned this other guy I've been talking to, and said how he is sooo skinny (which was weird and random!). And at 1am the other night, he sent me lyrics to the song Faithfully by Journey (google the lyrics if you don't know em). He said he sent it to me cause he thinks I should learn to play that song on the piano. And I IMed him on chat just now and he just signs off. :-( What is going on???
Friend is acting really strange and standoffish. Why?
You are correct to think that maybe her 'antisocialness' is caused by homeschooling. I don't think she's being stuck up, as much as it is that SHE is the one feeling awkward being at school with others.... feeling shy perhaps, or left out or maybe she doesn't know HOW to act around everyone. All you can do is be her friend, and be a friend to her other friends. Be the best friend you can be. Those who choose not to be your friend are not really your friends at all. Do take the time to confront her. Simply say "You are my friend and I care about you. Lately, you have seem withdrawn... is something wrong, or are you upset, and is there anything I can do to make things better?" If you do it this way, rather than accusing her of being stuckup or standoffish, she won't take offense and neither will her other friends. Instead, you are showing what a great friend you are. Good luck.
Guy friend acting strange!?
There's this guy who I'm really good friends with. We hang out a lot and many people think that we like each other. But we're friends. He asked me that once and I said yes we are friends. Anyway, he used to like this girl who I work with and share a house with. She doesn't like him but likes to flirt with him (he knows this). Anyway, the guys we hang out with have been teasing him about her just recently (which is fine with me). BUT, he asked me if I liked someone and I said yes and basically, without telling him in so many words, he now knows that I like his best friend, who doesn't like me (as far as I know). Anyway, since I told my friend (the one I'm talking about), he's started acting differently. He's been a little distant. We used to talk a lot but now, he's busy a lot. And this evening when we were coming back from somewhere (the girl was there as well), he drove me and she went with another guy and i said sorry that it hadn't been her and he said who cares, don't be. And we just talked and usually we joke and things, but he was pretty serious and he just seemed sad. I asked him if it was cuz he didn't get to speak to her and he said no, that wasn't bothering him cuz he didn't care about that anymore. And when we were at the pub later, he bought me a drink and though he sat next to the other girl, he spent the whole time smiling at me (not in a cheesy way), just seemed sad. I don't get it, why is he suddenly like this?!!
My friend is acting really strange lately?
So my best friend, let's call her Sarah, has been having a lot of strange behavioral symptoms lately. She is very cautious with calories, sees herself as fat even though she's actually been losing weight, and is very concerned about her body image. Sarah has always been very bubbly and kind, social, and amazingly pretty so naturally everyone likes her. No one ever says anything negative to her at all and guys all go gaga for her, so she doesn't have any reason to feel insecure. Lately, she hasn't been wanting to hang out with or talk to anyone other than me. She will literally sit up in her room all day thinking and comparing herself to other people. Once she even sat in a corner for an hour just knit picking at people and herself. Also, she said she's cried herself to sleep 5 times in the past month which is very unusual since she never cries. At one point she said she fell asleep crying sitting under her desk. What do you think would explain all these behavioral symptoms??
Female friend acting strange?
So I've known this girl since I started uni in september. We are not super close, but we have the same friends and see each other a lot so I know her well enough. She's always been very happy and talkative (in fact she's the first person I really spoke to here), however very recently, she seems extremely awkward whenever she sees me, I'm lucky if she smiles at me. Today I even passed her and she definitely saw me but it was as if she didn't recognise me. I'm completely in the dark about why she's acting like this, so like you do I'm turning to the good women (or men) of yahoo answers to help me out? It's pretty obvious, but in case you still haven't realised, I'm male.
Why is my guy friend acting strange?
since last few week my guy friend has been acting really weird.. first we used to go out and eat after class every thursday..or watch a movie in between our classes.. and on wednesdays we used to get together to work on our class hw..but lately he had been avoiding me. he would try not to talk to me, wouldnt txt me or ask me if i wanna go out to eat after class..but instead he ll leave tellin other people how he had to go to the gym...its kinda botherin me how hes acting all strange all of a sudden. i m pretty sure i didnt say anything to hurt him or get him mad at me...
A good friend "girl" started acting strange after me telling her that I like her more than a friend. She told me that I'm her best guy friend "best friend," but now she's acting strange. What can I do?
Tell her that you're sorry if you made her feel uncomfortable and that you don't want things to be awkward between you. Tell her that you value her friendship and that you will agree not to take it further.Then ask someone else out on a date, someone who likes you as more than a friend.
My best friend is acting weird?
First is consider your age group. If you are in your teenage then it happens normally. If she starts to do something that can harm you even with just feelings, get way from her and give her space. She will realize what she’s doing eventually if you didnt do anything wrong at all. If she’s being genuine she will approach you again as she said that she loves you. But remember, anyone can say that he/she loves you even when they dont mean it. Love yourself first. Treasure your friends but dont depend on them so much and always give yourself more so that when something happens, less heartbreak and disappointment.
Why is my best friend acting like this?
He's having 'almost' girlfriends because it's obvious he does like you. Yet because you (clearly) don't feel the same way, he tries dating other girls to no success. In other words you best friend seems to be in love with you and despite clearly hinting this on several occasions you don't seem get it. You most likely don't get it because you absolutely don't see him like this. Sounds like you need to give your best friend some time to get over you by keeping your distance a bit. I know he denied liking you, but his mood changes from week to week clearly indicate he does. You can talk to him about it if you like, but he might deny it. Let him know you're giving him some space anyways because his behaviour is unpleasant and hard to count on. Unless you like to keep this going as it is of course...