I got my best friend's girlfriend pregnant?
Before you criticize me, I didn't mean to do this. We f*cked at a party her boyfriend wasn't at and were hoping to leave it at that. But now it looks like we can't because she told me she's pregnant and that she thinks it's mine since her birth control was messed up that night and I didn't wear a condom. I'm freaking out. We're 18 and supposed to be going off to college in the fall and having the time of our lives before then. But this ruins everything. I can't tell my best friend because he will kill me. She won't tell him either. But I also don't think its right for him to take care of her thinking it's his. As of now, he doesn't know she's pregnant. But I hate now how she avoids me. And whenever her boyfriend and her walk past me in the halls, she'll get really close to him and give me an odd look. I don't know what her deal is, but I would be considering an abortion. Or something like that before our lives are ruined. When we first talked about it, she told me she wanted to keep it, but give it up for adoption if she had to. But I don't like that idea. What if it comes out looking like me? I'm so freaking scatterbrained right now. I need to know what to do and how to go about this. Please help me.
I got my best friends girlfriend pregnant. Now what do I do?
We were all partying one night when my friend was passed out on the couch in the other room. Me and her went into the basement to play some video games. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. We were doing it for a good 30 minutes but I couldn't really feel anything with the condom on. So when we switched to another position I quickly took off the condom, and it felt so much better. And I couldn't pull out because it felt so good so I just came inside her. Now she's pregnant. Should I tell my friend about this or have him believe that it's his child?
My best friend's girlfriend is pregnant with my child?
Well, something similar happened to Steven Tyler (of Aerosmith), and it's a good thing he didn't kill himself. So leave the gun under the bed. His daughter, Liv Tyler, turned out pretty well, too. She didn't know who her real father was until age 9, and plenty of other people don't find out for much longer, if ever. Even if you're miserable now, the child might have a great life..... whatever you do, you'll want to stick around to see it. Obviously, someday you'll have to tell Kerrick, to relieve your conscience, or he'll find out anyway. Eventually you must unload the burden. I cannot say exactly what is right to do in this difficult situation, but me, personally, I would wait a little bit because: 1) miscarriages are way more common than you may think 2) it might not really be your kid (even if the chances are slim) 3) Larissa & Kerrick might break up After about 5 months of pregnancy, it'll be decision time for sure, and you must consider how Kerrick will react, what Larissa wants you to do, and what will happen if you do nothing. First thing is to discuss with Larissa and find out what she plans to do. She may feel guilty too (eventually) and need your help.
Got my best friend's girlfriend pregnant and now she's avoiding me?
Long story short, I slept with my best friend's girl while he was away. We were both drunk and not thinking. But now she told me she's pregnant and it all adds up to it being mine, not his since she found out while he was gone. He came back today and she totally avoided me. But while he was gone, we always got lunch and I walked her to class. She'd come over and stay the night and we'd cuddle and watch movies. And now it's all changed. I asked her to come over tonight to talk and she was like, "Can't. I'm with Matt all night." What gives? It's my baby and I really love her. How can I get her to leave him? I shouldn't be the one to tell him, she should. Plus if I tell him, she'd be mad and that'd wreck our chances of being together. Please help me.
My bestfriend got my girlfriend pregnant. can you guys give me quotes about my situation?
“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.” Maria Robinson
I got my friend's girlfriend pregnant? Should I be with her?
My friend's girlfriend and I hooked up last month while he was away and she came to me this week and told me that she's pregnant and thinks it's mine. She wants me to tell her boyfriend with her. But I'm afraid. I don't wanna lose him as a friend. I'm also not ready to be a dad. But she's certain it's mine because I didn't use a condom. She really wants me to be with her but she's already acting so clingy. She wanted me to come over last night so I did and all she did was talk about our baby and how "good of a daddy" I'll be. I don't know what to do. I need advice. Should I tell my friend? Should I be with her? I feel like my life is ruined but she's so excited for the baby.
I slept with my friend's girlfriend, and got her pregnant, how should I go about this?
Go about what? Being a father? Anything else you're worried about pales into insignificance besides the simple truth that you've created a new human being who will need you to survive and thrive.And you don't seem the good father type. Do you know how damaging a bad father is to a child? Whatever selfishness/ childishness/ lack of self control that got you into this situation — let it go. Man up. Own what you've done and the consequences.
How do I tell my girlfriend I got another girl pregnant?
How long have you been with the current girlfriend?How many times did you hook up with this other girl?Kids involved on either side? (Minus the new pregnancy).How far along is this girl in her pregnancy?What is she planning to do about the pregnancy?I need that information to help tell you. I saw in a comment your girlfriend knows about the affair. Then that's a big step down.Now, it's just a matter of telling her- directly and to her face- that not only did the affair happen, but proper precautions weren't taken and the girl has ended up pregnant with your child.Then, she can decide whether or not to stay with you, but bet on losing her. She's going to be hurt, scared, upset, and feel like she wasn't necessarily good enough. You're about to start a new life with the pregnant woman (Even non-romantically) into being parents should she keep the pregnancy and not choose to let the baby be adopted into another family. It's going to be a LOT of ups and down between now and the birth of the child, and even more as the child grows.You also should get a DNA test, just to be on the safe side, especially if you aren't 100% guaranteed sure that it's your kid. (Which, I'm pretty sure you can't until DNA).Best of luck to you man, own up to the mistakes, own up to being a parent, and own up to the fact that you will probably lose your girlfriend.
What must I do? I slept with my best friend and an ex-girlfriend and she got pregnant.
Do you care about the woman you got pregnant? If so, you need to have an honest conversation with her about going forward together in a relationship. If you were just basically casual sex to each other, then you need to discuss the plans for the pregnancy. If she's wanting to keep the baby and you are sure it is yours (or if not, get a paternity test done, as previously suggested), you need to decide how involved you are going to be in this pregnancy. Are you going to go to doctor appointments with her? Are you going to help her buy things she (and you) will need to get ready for the baby? Yes, the law requires you to pay a set percentage of child support if you aren't parenting together, but you need to decide how present you want to be in your child's life.