How do i tell the bride i hate the bridesmaid dress?
I am 14 years old and my cousin asked me to be her bridesmaid and i said yes. Then she showed me a picture of the dress it is sea-foam green and gold and really tight and it looks like a mermaid costume!!! And i feel like the dress is really inappropriate for my age and she wants me to wear high heels and i have never worn any and i can't walk in them so i always wear flats. So how do i tell my cousin i don't like the dress and i won't wear high heels or do i just wear everything and just deal with it?
2 of my bridesmaids absolutly hate eachother...?
Is there anything I can do to keep them from starting any fights with eachother (at least be civil for the time being) even if they dont talk to eachother, which would be fine!
Sister hates bridesmaid dress?
Hello, so my sister and I just got into a HUGE fight bc she is mad that I would prefer her to wear her bridesmaids dress all night. I bought her the dress bc she said she couldn't afford one but apparently she can afford a different one to change into, did I mention it's a skimpy cream colored dress. She flipped out on me bc she said she hates the dress, that it makes her look like a grandma. When she got the dress she said it was nice and pretty but is just mad bc she wants to wear some short little thing. She said she's not talking to me now bc I don't have any regard for her feelings, she said she hasent seen these ppl in 5 years and excuse her if she wants to look cute. I'm so mad about the whole thing, she's made me feel guilty the whole time that she has no money and has to buy plane tickets to come even though I went to her wedding in Hawaii 2 years ago and paid for tickets with no complaint. Am I being irrational or is my sister insane?!!! Here's a pic of the dress, I think it's cute! http://www.bhldn.com/product/sunroom-dress
Bridesmaids don't know each other...?
I only had a few bridesmaids who knew each other...and none of them knew the groomsmen. Same situation with the groomsmen not knowing each other. It could not have been better...instead of spending time partying prior to the wedding, they just spent time hanging out and getting to know each other. For the shower, my girls just all got online and chatted at an appointed time and they each took a responsibility or two and updated the others weekly. It was truly amazing...so if you trush your girls, go for it.
Bridesmaids: Would you rather have your hair OR your makeup paid for?
I am inclined the say hair for these sorts of situations, as this is usually the more difficult of the two to do yourself. I am paying for my bridesmaids to have their hair done professionally (not specifying a particular style though) and am letting them do whatever they want for makeup (most are doing it themselves or on each other). In this situation, however, your desired hair style seems pretty simple so the girls might be able to do it themselves (or on each other). Perhaps you should ask your bridesmaids what they prefer? I don't think there is anything wrong with saying "hey, would you guys prefer to have your hair or makeup professionally done?" and going with the option that gets the most votes.