Help!!!!my friends dad hates me????
my friends dad hates me and he says that i am a bad influence on her but really all she has done different was starting to flirt with guys!!! thats crazy...he also thinks that juat b/c she likes to dress different from her sister that it was b/c i told her to when really she chose to do it without anyones help!i dont know what to do or think about him....
I think my dad hates me?
Me and my dad don't have a good relationship at all. He always insults me and it hurts my feelings and I can't do anything but cry. Everyday he does the same thing and I'm tired of him. I distanced myself from him since it seems like he doesn't really like me, for Christmas he gave me a Jacket , I really like it I was quite surprised he got me something (but this is the thing, I'm still a minor I can't work since I'm only 15 I have to be 16+ to get a job)He always says things like "Give me that since is mine because I bought it with my money" And is annoying. Anyways I really like to draw and he gave me a Sketchbook and had a lot of drawings that I was proud of, we got in a fight for a dumb reason and he went to my room and ripped apart my drawings and threw my Sketchbook away I was so sad and broken since I put a lot of effort in them. my drawings mean a lot to me ): I was so mad and sad but I couldn't say anything since he's my dad so I started tearing up. I help him around the house and I'm good to my mom. I feel like he's stressed out but can't he see he's taking the stress on me and it hurts me. I been clean from cutting for 2 years but today I couldn't take it no more . How can I fix my relationship with him? As far as I can remember he has never been sweet to me only to my mom but that's it.
Why does my dad hate me?
Ok i honestly cant take it anymore. I am so stressed ALL the time form school and work that my dad makes everything worse! I know you all are waiting for me to say my parents are divorced...blah blah blah...theyre not..my family is all together. My mom my dad my little brother and me. But i just cant take him anymore. BOTH OF THEM are driving me crazy with their criticism! I always tried so hard o impress them. But my mom was the only one who ever notices anything. I bet if i ask my dad the name of my school or what grade im in, i bet he wont have a clue. I always was the top student in everyone of my schools. In an effort to make them feel even more proud of me, i applied and made it into the International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme (IB). Which is basically as high as you can get in high school. I never once got a congratulations. And my dad never once saw any of my grades, or even cared. In junior year of IB i finally cracked under all the pressure. I couldnt handle it anymore and i started getting sick a lot and missing school. Then i began jipping because i sometimes needed whole days off to keep up with the work. Finally i dropped out junior year. And all i got from my dad was things like "I am dissapointed in you" "you just threw your life away" "you are worthless""you are lazy" " your life is going no where now". What makes everything harder is that he also criticises me about my weight 24/7. when he himself is HUGE. He sets rules like "No eating after 6 pm" and "you got to sleep at 8 just because i say so". I am frankly SOO tired of him that ive thought so many times about running away. I need advice on what to do!!! And technically i wasnt really asking if he hates me. Im pretty sure he does, i just need advice on how to deal with it and not cry myself to sleep every night. Thanks to anyone that can help me.
My friends dad HATES ME!!!!!!!!!?
No father should yell at someone else's child that way. I would tell your parents that he yelled at you. I don't really agree with any parents yelling at another person's child, but it is a little more harsh coming from a man, and probably scared you, at that. I'd tell your parents, and let them work this out with your friend's parents. In the mean time, I'd lay low and stay away from your friend. She doesn't seem to be a good friend, if she's trying to make you look bad to her dad. Good luck to you.
Should I hate my dad? he raped me?
My dad used to touch me when I was younger, but he doesnt know I know. And I never told anyone for almost ten years and when I told my boyfriend he told me I should hate him for what he did...but I really cant... I hate him for divorcing my mom and robbing her and leaving his family for a new one and i hate the fact that he disrespected me in such a way and cant even admit to it on his own. My boyfriend has told me that if i were to ever marry him i would have no contact whatsoever with him...should I give up my dad for a life with a guy??
Why does my dad hate me so much?
The Beatles said it: "And in the end, the love we take, is equal to the love we make". That means putting out love comes first. And getting love in return comes second. Doesn't sound like Dad's putting out much love when it comes to you. Or vice versa, of course. It's hard to be loving towards someone who's treating you like Dad. But it's not about you. It's about what's going on inside your Dad. Let's say that again: IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU. IT'S ABOUT WHAT'S GOING ON INSIDE YOUR DAD! You can't change your Dad. Believe it or not, he's probably doing the best he can to love you. Yeah, I know, that sounds strange. Maybe it's wrong. But neither you nor me (certainly not me) can know what he's dealing with inside himself. Seems ugly. And lonely. Advice? Get away from him. As soon as you can. If you're over the age where you can leave the house, find a way to support yourself and get away from him. If not, keep away from him as much as possible and start planning to leave as soon as you turn 18, or whatever age entitles you to leave your parents in your state. Start making your plans now. Find people who have love in their hearts and spend your time around them. Or some time alone, looking for those kinds of people. Then associate yourself with them. Do any one of those things and your life will start getting better. Giving advice is easy. Doing it is harder. I know. Hope this helps at least a little. And good luck.
My best friend's dad hates me?
You cant do anything. Just be good mannered, polite and overall nice whenever your around him ( when you arent around him as well ) hes just taking out his bad parenting skills on you. Dont let them get to you, hes just so overprotective yet bad at parenting that hes taking it out on you. Be nice when your around him and itll either let him know your a good person or let you know that hes just a flat out ***. Your not HIS best friend, he doesnt have to like you. But thats no excuse to be a jerk around him so be nice to him. If he wont treat you the same way theres nothing you can do. If he confronts you about it just say "What did i ever do?" And if he brings up the smoking thing say "Everyone tries things like this atleast once in their teenage years. I bet you did too. It's normal and i dont even smoke." He has no reasons to blame you except his own faults. Dont let him get to you!