Why does my dad stare at other women?
Hello there. So I always notice my dad stares at other women thats prob is young or looks young my dad is married to my mom btw. I always tell my dad what is he looking at and gives the same excuse like “ I’m just looking” or sometimes when he is on his phone and looking at other women I say what are you looking at? And he says he is looking at his phone even though I caught him looking at other women with a perfect body or looks young. He is 46 by the way and it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and embarrassed. And sometimes when the other women walks by he just looks at them and smiles and when I came back to the restroom I caught him just standing next to the wall and just staring at other women just passing by and he just does nothing but stare it’s just really creepy. And one time we went to a pool and there was skinny women and he was just looking at them as they passed by. What can I do about this I am going to tell my dad it is wrong but what should I tell him can someone help me? Thank you.
My dad looks at other women. I don't like it, should I tell my mom?
I started working at his mechanics this week. Its on a busy street and he looks at all the women. Today this girl who was like 20 (gross because my dad is 42) came in to give us some flyers about discounts at a new coffee shop she worked at. As she's walking into the workshop, my dad and the two other guys were staring so badly. She was pretty I admit, but she was shy and she seemed so uncomfortable with them staring at her like they never saw a woman before. We went home that evening and he's kissing my mom and saying he missed her today. I called him a liar anyways and he said it doesn't mean anything, that he still loves my mom and me & my sister. He said I'll understand when I get my own wife. I asked Why will I? When you have your own wife you can look at boobs everyday. Why'd you need to look at some other woman's covered ones? They all look the same. He asked if I was gay. I mean who is wrong here? Why did he marry her for then? She's MY mom and I'm not letting him treat her like this. Should I tell her?
I caught my dad looking at pictures of other women online. Should I tell my mum?
how old are you? Consider this: a) You took it out of context. Is it a photo, maybe it's a family relative like a niece. What kind of website? If it was a shopping website maybe he's looking to get you girls something or b) he really is trying to get his stimulation online. understand the situation before you accuse him of anything, let alone tell your mom. You can confront him but be too quick to judge. If it is the worse cast scenario though stand your ground and don't let him convince you that his actions are somehow validated.
My dad always looks at other women?
and he has a Chinese wife of three years who does so good for him. She cleans the house, she prepares the best dinners, does the laundry. Everything. And he's not appreciative at all. I even have to tell him to say thank you. Anyways, that was just a little backround info on their relationship. Whenever we go out to eat, he always stares at asian women. He'll always look up at there faces and whenever they walk infront he'll look down. It's becoming quite sickening. Even Gina (my step mom) notices and she glares at him, thats when he acts all innocent. Gina tells me he had a girlfriend I didn't know about in China. She also told me his co worker, May, had him over at midnight twice. I feel bad for Gina because she feels she needs to cook the best meals to please him so he won't go off and find another wife. She's doing everything for him. Yet he always looks for something better. My dad has an asian fettish by the way, well you probably already figured that out. But he and Ginas relationship isnt healthy. I can tell he doesn't love her like a normal married couple should love eachother. Is it wrong to look down on my dad? Dont get me wrong I still love him, It just makes me sick to see him looking at every single asian woman that passes by like a piece of meat.
Why do married men look at other women they see on the street?
“Why do some married men stare at other women?”Because staring is not a crime? I mean, it’s rude…and if done in front of your spouse, is very insensitive. (Unless you are in a open marriage or something)But really, this is far from a gender specific thing, married women have also been caught staring at men with doe eyes.So let’s for now place a pin in the genders and ask “Why a married person would stare at another person?”Possibilities:They are rude.They happen to be staring forward, and someone happens to be in their line of sight.They are trying to remember who this person is, I have had to deal with annoying staring, only because they were trying to remember where they saw me before…like staring at me will help memory instead of asking me.No crime against window shopping, I mean I know people who try and say “Well if you love the person you shouldn’t have to look at other people.” nothing wrong with admiring the beauty of another person. Staring is still rude, but admiration at very least.That person has something that just really draws a person’s eyes. For example, the sunglasses I wear always grab people’s attention and some people take hex-glances at me or even more, they think I do not notice them in my peripheral vision, but I do.The person is doing something to draw attention to them, example being, street performers or protesters.Person is staring at them first so they match the stare and have a stare-off. My dad does this actually, he will glance at the person staring to let them know he notices them and if they still stare he will turn his head, lean forward and stare right back.They are in an open marriage and think said person might be a fun addition.Take your pick really.
Why does my dad stare at other women even when my mom and I are with him?
Many men are hardwired to look at women and it's often difficult to control. I know that women look at men too, but are generally more subtle. It sounds like your father is leering at women and girls, and I can imagine that's embarrassing for you, and creepy and maybe a little scary for the girls. I wish I knew of a technique you could use, or get your father to use, to reduce his leering. This is partly a matter of self control, and partly a matter of biological compulsion. I speculate that your father could do better if he focused on it, and if he was satisfied sexually, he might do better, but there's no guarantee. Some men seem destined to be dominated by sexuality, forever in the state of teen boys, at least until their hormones subside when they reach sufficient age. Understanding how sexual cues work in men may help you understand what's going on with your father. This should help - Ogi Ogas, "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" | Talks at …: Good luck. I hope you and your mother find a way to improve your father's behavior around women or come to terms with his nature.
Why did my dad cheat on my mom with two other women?
Oh man. That sucks. I'm sorry. People cheat for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it's because they are afraid of what it will do to their life if they simply just leave. So instead of leaving when they aren't happy in their relationship, they cheat. Fear is the motive behind that. Fear of losing family, property, routine. Then there are people who like the excitement of making a bad decision. Lots of people do illegal things for this purpose, it gives them an adrenaline rush. The problem with that is it can cause life long lasting effects. Some people cheat because they are addicted to intimacy, to put it gently. And then there is the obvious reason: temptation. But not just being attracted to someone on the street or in the store but allowing themselves to be alone with someone where the attraction is mutual. Temptation is a hard thing to fight, which is why we should flee from it. It's not character building, it's temptation. People don't cheat because of their spouse or their kids. If that were the case they would just leave. If someone is unhappy, they find a way to make themselves happy. Sometimes even when it hurts other people they love. I'm sorry this is happening in your world right now.
Sometimes I see my dad looking at other women's pictures on Instagram. What should I do?
It sounds like that makes you feel uncomfortable, therefore you should ask him privately why he does that? Ask him questions like “don’t you think mom is beautiful anymore? And why do you do it in front of me? Those questions are really meant to make him feel horrible and potentially do some self exploring. I can’t promise you he’ll stop looking at other women but I feel pretty confident that he’ll try to resist the urge when you’re around.
My dad is talking to another woman on Facebook?
So my dad left his Facebook logged in when i wanted to use the computer and I know i shouldn't be looking at his private messages but I know he has done this in the past. He messages other women (from vietnam) and we don't live there, we live super far away from that country but we are part vietnamese. He messaged 2 women there saying that their profile picture is very pretty. It made me really upset because he messaged his half sister who lives there and asked about one of the women he was talking to. he asked her what he should get himself for christmas and then he said that the girl (I'm just gonna call her P) was gonna get him an iPad air as a joke then added "but we're gonna be iLove". He talks to his half sister numerous times about her like asking about her relationship problems, and saying that he hopes to meet her one day WHEN HE IS MARRIED TO MY MOM. and then the most recent message to his half sister was "But she will be my lover" and then said "oh i mean special friend <3". I'm just really confused and really sad and really mad especially since this is from my DAD. i look up to him so much and he is always trying to make my brother and I the best people we could be but what he is doing is so wrong and isn't fair to anyone. I really want to bring it up to him but i'm afraid he is going to get really mad at me for looking at his messages and i don't know how to bring it up. So what i'm asking is, is what should i do? should i bring it up to him? how do i bring it up? i'm so so mad and confused and so mad at him right now. i think he really likes P but she is so much younger than him and he is a GROWN MARRIED MAN. HE HAS A FAMILY.
How do I stop being so jealous when my boyfriend looks at other women?
So first I'll say that I'm a straight guy. I was married for 10 years and never once strayed. I had this chance with this smokeshow of a woman once, and I had to physically remove her hands from my ass. I'm not bragging, just a fact. My God she was so hot. I wanted to see her naked so badly. I wanted to time travel back to when I was single and just spend a week banging this girl.But I didn't. I wanted to. I wasn't worried about getting caught. It would have been a perfect crime. I didn't because I loved my wife more than anything. My loyal, loving, gorgeous wife. I could never dishonor her like that, I could never respect myself if I hurt her that way just so I could conquer new territory and have 20, (exaggerating,) minutes of pleasure.So here's the thing. Here's the answer to your question. Even if you are the hottest woman alive. Hot like Angelina Jolie from girl interrupted, your guy will still look at every attractive, and most unattractive women, every chance he gets.It's a defect of our species. It has nothing to do with you at all. I do it completely involuntarily. I'm single now and I don't look at more women than when I was married. I look at exactly the same amount. I want to bang just about every one of them too. But even though I'm single, I still completely forget almost every hot woman I see within about 5 seconds.Know who I'm not going to forget though? The woman that actually mattered to me. She was beautiful, caring, and more than anything, she was the person I chose. You need to understand that if you're the person your guy has chosen, then it doesn't matter where he looks, because each time he looks and takes no action, he's affirming his choice. His choice is you.