My family REALLY stresses me out!?
Ok, so I can't go a day without feeling stressed from having to go home from school. Here is my family: My two brothers, me, and my mom. The reason they stress me out is because my older brother is a selfish, abusive jerk, my younger brother is annoying, and my mom doesn't understand me at all. My dad divorced my mom when I was 3, so I barely ever saw him in my life. So here is what every day is like for me: My older brother takes something of mine, and my mom doesn't even try to punish him. She just says that it is my fault that HE takes my stuff, because I leave my stuff around, even though the only reason that happens is because I don't have my own room to put my stuff in. My older brother also abuses me, my younger brother, and my mom. However, my mom continues to spoil my older brother, and he does anything to annoy me. For example, my brother cannot go a day without calling me gay (which I am clearly not). My brother also once hit me on the head with our computer, my mom's phone, and my own video game systems. Usually my only escape is to my mom's boyfriend's house, which we do not go to often. Any answers would be greatly, greatly appreciated. Please, I just feel like running away from home if I have to, and the more I am tormented like this, the more I am stressed out every day. So please, help me out here?
My family always stresses me out?
You AND baby are caught in a bad situation: All that fighting is not good for either of you. You are wonderful to help with the baby. Enjoy the little baby, talk and play with it. Babies are fun. Maybe you can be the one to play and teach it new things. It's so much easier when they learn to talk, then when they begin to walk - and best of all when they get off of diapers. Apparently your mom blames your sister for the situation she is in and yelling does not correct the situation. It's not totally sister's fault because of the bad economy many people have lost jobs and cannot get another. Because she and the baby needs shelter, she had no choice but to return to live at your home. On the other hand, if your sister is home and not working, why isn't she taking full care of the baby -- especially since she's living at home to save on rent? Can you let your mother know how unhappy you are over all the fighting? Is it possible to appeal or go to another family member for help? Can you live with a grandparent or dad? Go to the library to study. Take care of yourself, study, and I wish you lots of good luck.
Pregnant and my family stresses me out?
I'm 25 weeks pregnant and trying to stay stress free but it's hard to do that with the environment I live in. For example today my mom was having a conversation with someone in the kitchen about my sister and her schooling and since she sleeps in everyday till 5 and never goes to school I asked my mom if she was a dropout and my mom got all defensive and said no and my sister yelled to me "come say it to my face" like she was gonna do something to me or something lmao.. I didn't even think I said anything bad it was just a question but my mom started giving me a hard time so I left the house so I don't get stressed out. An hour later I get texts from my mom saying "you hurt your sisters feelings, you have no remorse and I know you won't apologize" "some sisterly love everyone hates eachother for no reason, I hope you're happy and proud" "I can't even plan anything fun because of all this hate" "she never even bothers you" what should I do? Should I move in with the babies father I'm really tired of dealing with petty childish drama over nothing.