Should I stop being friends with my best friend?
So, here's the story. We've only been friends for almost 3 years but it has always been like we were meant to be. I could describe our relationshioship like.. Fusional relationship? We shared everything. All our thoughts. Our belongings, our friends. Everything. We were always together. But... I think it's been several months... That everything started to be awful between us... My friend just gets on my nerves. I can't do anything with someone else without her getting jealous. Buts he never includes me when she does things, even with people i knew before her. I once dated someone and she was jealous that i spent time with my datemate. She never includes me in group things and when I want to include her she never wants to. But she likes to invite herself. So... we have this group of friends and she's always doing things with them behind my back. They never tell me they're doing things. I can't even just stop being friends with her because she knows everyone I know and they love her. Even more than they love me because i'm often the bad one in our duo. Like she's the one who's the angel. Everyone would hate me for hurting her if we end our relationship. Like some already hate me because she talked to them about the issues we have and of course i'm the bad one... Also I'd terribly miss her if I ended everything. I feel stuck... I would feel even more lonely if everyone leaves me because of that... I don't know what to do...
Best Friend stopped being friend what should I do!?
I had been best friend with this guy named Jared for a good year now,He lives in a different state from me. then all of sudden he takes me, my girlfriend and my room mate off of his MySpace friends list. I begin to think OK that is strange so I called him many many times, unfortunately he only had his friends answer the phone for him, who I might say were all pricks to me. He block me from his AIM. So one day finally get talk to him and he say he does not want be my friend anymore because he do not believe in ghosts. ( It is s omething I am very interested in) He say I am insane for believe in ghost and that he believe ghost can only be seen after death, and that I should not believe they be seen otherwise. So I tell him why should we not be friends because of ghosts? I call again and again he not talk to me one bit. Even on my birthday last week he refuse to speak to me. What should I do?
Can I ask my very good friend to stop being friends with someone else who used to bully me?
That right there……damn…..I swear to god, if I could have done that in college, I’d have probably turned out normal.But I’ve since gotten wiser and figured some stuff out. More often than not, your pal knows what’s up. In the rare case that your pal doesn’t know what’s up, you’re going to loose your pal anyway. (Heads up, yes you will….) Because logically speaking, why would your bully decide to become pals with your pals.A reformed bully will not do that, and if they’re going to do that, they’ll first talk to you, and make sure it’s all cool first.So…urm….get another very good pal……someone nicer.
Would you stop talking to a guy friend if your boyfriend asked you to do it?
I stopped talking to anyone that made him feel u comfortable. Truelly, boys and girls can’t be friends ( most of the time). They befriend in hopes of a relationship or sex.I had a really good friend that was a boy. But he never valued the friendship, he was using it to get with me. After pretending to be my Friend for a while he told me he liked me. After he finally realized I only ever wanted his friendship, he tried to grope me in his car then a week later blocked me on everything. All that friendship we built meant so little to him.I think if a guy shows interest in being friends suddenly it’s for a different reason ( sex or a relationship). NOT a friendship. They don’t value that at all. they can be friends with ANY girl, it’s easy. With guys it’s usually never just friendship.
Why do friends stop being friends?
People are friends for various reasons. Works, school, acquaintances etc. there is a common bond that ties a friendship together, whether or that you are both going through the same stage in life or enjoy each other company. Once you lost that common bond you will lose the bond that holds the friendship together. Of course that are many other reasons but this is the fundamental reason that grows a friendship.
How do you stop being the "convenient" friend?
I feel like for the longest time I've always been known as the convenient friend in a lot of my friendships. I've always been the nice and reliable friend. Whenever they need someone to talk to, I'll always be there. With a lot of my current friends, I feel really unappreciated. One of my friends actually pretty much fell off the face of the earth. She hasn't texted me in a couple weeks. I actually think one of the last times she did was when she was bored because her friend fell asleep on her. Her best friend and I are both the same age and in community college together and she only texts me when shes bored between her classes and usually only on the days we have a night class together. It's so tiring and I just hate always being the convenient one, the one texted for info about things they want to go to, ditched, not invited to things, texted or talked to when they're bored, and the one that gets no effort from any of them. Funny part is when I did distance myself from one of my worst friends over the summer she started texting me almost everyday, saying how much we needed to hang, she basically begged me to hang out with her because she wanted to see me so badly. I don't get it, I really don't, and I just hate being the "convenient" friend.
My girlfriend wants me to stop being friends with this girl?
I have been in this situation many times, and it's never an easy choice to make. First things first, your girlfriend should trust you and the same goes for you. Trust is very important, as we all know. A lot of people suffer from that in a relationship, which is really sad. If you truly love this girlfriend then you shouldn't regret your choice, this will only lead you to have resentment for her in the future. I must admit that I have had a boyfriend stop talking to an old girlfriend, he said he didn't care doing it because they didn't have any more ties that binded them. They were only remaining friends for the sake of a clean break-up, but that is no excuse. I don't think I should have asked him to do that. She has to believe in you and trust that your feelings for this friend are over. You can't control her insecurities, as much as you want to. There are not enough compliments in the world to make her feel secure. She has to love herself for that to happen. I've seen this situation too many times and all I can say to you is talk to her. Why is she insecure? Why can't you be friends with this girl? If you are already regretting your decision then I'd say be prepared for the next thing she will ask you to do for her. Good luck.